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 Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:47 pm
like do you just go up to a random girl and say hi my name is... and then tell them you like them???
how do you do it.
feel free to post stories (girls) of how you found your girlfriend. pls.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:55 pm
Although I'm not a girl I do have some experience in this matter. I'm currently single and have been looking for sometime but when I was younger I went to an LGBT youth group. I met a lot of people that were not straight. This made it easier to approach somebody since I was in a safe, accepting place and didn't need to worry about rejection so much.
Meeting somebody, getting to know them and deciding if you want something more than friendship seems like the best idea to me. Or exchanging information (phone number/e-mail) and meeting up for a casual date.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 1:56 pm
That'd be a little creepy they should at leas know who you are before you ask them out,
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:34 pm
^@zero, how do you find lgbt youth groups in ur area?
that seems like a good idea. a little scary, like a big step, but a good idea nonetheless.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:46 pm
Bring on your torture, your bullets, your pains I don't. Believe it or not, they find me. I can't tell you how many girls hit on me at school. I'm not even all that pretty. Here, good girls that are datable are hard to come by, because all of this drama centers around the gays and bi people. Honestly, this girl came out and said she was curious, and the next month she was involved with a child porn "sexting" investigation that involved half the sophomore class! Honestly, this is what I have to deal with every day. People are all like "Dude, she's bi, and I don't know if I can still be her friend." They look at me and say "hey Melly!"
I am openly bi, and people still don't know. I don't hide it, but I don't flaunt it either. However, certain people know, and they are attracted to each other like flies on crushed, soggy skittles. This includes me. . . Honestly, I'm embarrassed by some people at school. And in my heart, things aren't the same.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 5:49 pm
Elhayym ^@zero, how do you find lgbt youth groups in ur area? that seems like a good idea. a little scary, like a big step, but a good idea nonetheless. Bring on your torture, your bullets, your pains
I'm not zero, but I'm apart of the GASP group at school. It stands for Gays against stereotypical people, comprised of gays, bi people, and straight people. My advice is make one. Sometimes they just don't exist yet. Get some friends together and get active.
And in my heart, things aren't the same.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:16 pm
My high school did not have a GSA. One of the teachers wants to start a GSA or something similar to a GSA but it has been shot down by whomever is in charge a few times.
For me finding an LGBT center happened when some crap happened when I was about 15. I ran to my friend's place not knowing what to do. She googled or something and found me the name of the local LGBT center. I think all major cities have some main LGBT organization which can have a youth program. Just searching "LGBT youth" followed by whatever county you live in or a nearby city would do the trick.
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Posted: Tue Jul 13, 2010 6:42 pm
cool thanks a lot. will definitely do that. ^__^
yeah, a club's a good idea but unfortunately, i'm at college and it's a long drive from home. to be there at the right time, to make all the meetings required of being a club owner...i'm just not into it.
and there's the downfall that it might result in nothing.
i think i'll just go and research the LGBT groups. something could happen.
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Posted: Fri Oct 08, 2010 10:08 am
I say meet a bi girl, be friends with her for awhile, then after some time, say more than 6 months, in the least, ask her what she feels about you. Depending on her answer, you'll either just have a close friend or a new girlfriend. That's how I met my first date, except he was a guy.
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Posted: Sat Oct 09, 2010 3:42 pm
Although I know all of you are probably way older than me, I sturggle at school..I'm only 13, which makes it difficult to find someone right for me..I'm bisexual, so I could go for a guy...But pretty much most of the guys at my school are all jerks, and just annoying..I know a lot of kind-hearted girls who are some of my close friends..My best friend Jazmine I've had a crush on for I dont know how long, but she has no idea I like her! I dont even know if she's bi..She's dated a lot of guys in the past, which have just ended up in broken hearts, so I just like to comfort her. But I also have a close friend named Angelona. She goes to the library with me sometimes. I like her too, but not as much as Jazmine...I just dont know I would ever tell Jaz how I truely felt...I just dont want to make our friendship awkward...
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