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I hate it when people completely disregard my advocacy against ***** just because I like cute frilly dresses. I know people don't understand that it's not about Lolicon or Lolita the book or fetish-fuel. It's just hard to make an argument like that when you basically want to dress up like a little girl.

After all, even if it's not about anything sexual, ***** don't need the little girl to be a prostitot to find it hot.

I shouldn't have to defend myself to validate my morals like that.

Usually when I try to, they just say something like "Well aren't you just encouraging it, dressing like a little girl? It's like you're trying to make people attracted to kids!"

I think children are cute and you should love them like you'd love your pets or something. And not be attracted to them and want to do stuff to them.

lawl. where are you located, cause someone as pretty as you could wear a floor length cardboard box and get a date.

also, I'm finding that there are LOT of guys around here who like lolita....to, er... different degrees. Some find it interesting, others think it's beautiful... some like my fiance think it's really really sexy... despite being covered from the neck down... and then you have the perverts...

man, right back to the point...

But you know, there are perverts for everything! Especially things that are hard to get, like modesty, since modesty usually = not easy. Even if you dressed like an "adult", there would still be some sleezy guy at the club trying to grab you. Sure, he's not a pedi, but still just as much of a no good db.

There will always be some creepo who reeeeeally likes what you do or wear, no matter what it is. Anyone who thinks you're asking for that kind of attention is, as Kongming Shu-de said, closed-minded.

Boys yes. Girls no. So far I have YET to find a hot butch lesbian who likes lolita and is willing to dress in kodona or prince style for me. My girlfriend tolerates lolita because she knows I like it, but she'd never dress up with me.

And I live in Washington, DC. We have a VERY small alternative collective here. It's mostly politicians and business and s**t. -_-

But you can also think of it like this, people have foot fetishes. That's not stopping people from wearing sandals, sexy boots, or hot stilettos. So why should someone with a loli fetish ruin my right to wear a frilly dress.