Actually, for a number of years I used to just log in to "sweep the floors", so to speak, and see if any friends had tried to contact me. I've been a little more active in the last two months or so, though... partly because I know a couple other people who turned out to be on Gaia also. ^^
And, you know, if Nat hadn't been so young at the time... Well. Remy understands his teammates a lot better than they understand themselves sometimes. Except Anya. She has depths darker than anyone, and her heart is deep as grief and the sea.