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 Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:08 pm
well..to get this started heres the problem:
I had a falling out with a friend, it basically ended by her friends telling her lies about me, and i remember her phone number...i was planning on texting her to maybe amend this damn thing and the awkward part is that its been over a month since i last talked to her. its kind of like being backed into a corner with a mob chasing me, i have no F*^&ing idea what to do or say ^^
any advice would help VERY much
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:37 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:40 pm
Umm...
i would email her.
plan out what your gonna say,
and email it to her.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:40 pm
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:49 pm
Marie Rouge Umm... i would email her. plan out what your gonna say, and email it to her. i think im better off texting her, from what i know from her she never reads her emails
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:51 pm
I agree with Rouge. Also, first appologize. Appologizing will catch her attention. Don't add in the "for whatever I did" part. That makes you fall lower in her favor. Then, without dissing he friends, explain the rumors. Tell her that you really want to be friends again. Try to be firm wth he but give her some slack.
A part of me says slap her and say, "I can't believe I trustd a 'friend' that would believe in lies about me!" Don't listen to that side cause all that will do is make it worse. XD
Jus think about what yo want to do. No need to listen to us! XD
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:53 pm
Tell her you want to hear what she heard about you? Hear out the rumours and focus on the details. Then tell her the truth about the rumours if they are. Just talk out with no influence. 4 eyes only or just let it slide and forget all about her. Lock it down and crush it under pressure.
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 6:57 pm
 I think you better call her....or meet up. You see, what if she didn't reply? And I think it's better because she can hear your voice which means, your sincere. ^^
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 7:01 pm
FateElite I think you better call her....or meet up. You see, what if she didn't reply? And I think it's better because she can hear your voice which means, your sincere. ^^ ill have to wait until tuesday for that one, but put it this way..if i didnt text her about it and i just talked to her monday she possibly could just go off on me lol
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 7:03 pm
shibiryu FateElite I think you better call her....or meet up. You see, what if she didn't reply? And I think it's better because she can hear your voice which means, your sincere. ^^ ill have to wait until tuesday for that one, but put it this way..if i didnt text her about it and i just talked to her monday she possibly could just go off on me lol Time will tell. 
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 7:05 pm
FateElite I think you better call her....or meet up. You see, what if she didn't reply? And I think it's better because she can hear your voice which means, your sincere. ^^ i agree its always better to call and say you're sorry anything (even when you haven't done anything)
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Posted: Sun Jan 17, 2010 7:10 pm
apologize ..
theres no wrong in saying the truth
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Posted: Sat Jan 23, 2010 8:15 am
you could call, since you say you remember teh` number ^^
you need to sort things out and explain to her that what her friends said were lies (note that i said explain not just state or else she might not believe you)
now... I don't know how this started, but if you said something that hurt her (or anything in that range), an apologise should be in order, too.
:]
i wish you luck^^
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