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 Posted: Tue Jan 10, 2006 1:02 pm
If everything above this post fails let me have sex with him to break the fear.
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 2:22 pm
If he really loves you he wont leave you over that
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 1:29 pm
Gimmie a bed, chains and a half an hour and I garentee you he'll be gay, if not bi by the end of it. T.T/ *Snicker* TuT/
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Posted: Wed Mar 15, 2006 1:31 pm
Marko Ragnos If everything above this post fails let me have sex with him to break the fear. Amen. We'll go together, like a threesome. Tie him down and show 'em our point of view.
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Posted: Wed Mar 22, 2006 2:49 pm
well think about this....if he was REALLY against bi's then wouldnt he leave you??
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Posted: Tue Mar 28, 2006 1:33 pm
Not neccesarily. Maybe he thinks bi's are 'better' or more 'normal' than gays, or maybe he's trying to assert his manliness by attempting to 'convert' you.
Intrestingly, does he feel the same way about lesbians as gays? Many guys are totally homophobic, yet like lesbians. I know it's illogical, but many guys feel that way.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 11:27 am
The thing I react to is that he said it is a abnormality in the brain.
I have a great experince with human biology and mental questions.
You can inform him that he should shut his trap unless he know what he is talking about =_=;
I just get angry when people look down on others and just throw things like "Something is wrong with you."
But as stated. Often homophobica comes from fear. Most phobies (*giggle*) comes from fear. Fear and societies "Ok! This is right, this is wrong."
Most guys can accept two girls becuse the socitey are often more open to it, they are seen more often, it's ok for girls to kiss each other becuse that dosnt mean they are gay/bi. However guys on guys is not accepted due to it's so rare for "normal" people to see this.
Sadly.
I don't belive leaving him will really solve anything. You should confront him with facts, understanding and lots of time.
Inform him that it is not a abnormality, not for humans nor animals. Alot of animals are gay/bi. It is the natural thing actually.
Beside, if he even dare to speak of it being a biological/mental abnormality I will make him bi personally!
Also, a great metod to cure phobias (spelling?) is shcok treatment. Like if your afraid of cats, you get thrown into a room with cats until you notice how they dont hurt you. However this method is not used today, or shouldnt be, becuse the shock can give you other problems ^^;
However! Ask questions that make him think. Why? How? Where?
Why do you feel like that? Do you know how you got those wierd ideas about this? Where is your major anti-bi/gay influence? Is this your own thoughs or are you just scared?
And remember, it's ok to be scared.
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Posted: Sat May 27, 2006 11:42 pm
Ohhh well maybe it was never for you to be friends with this person.
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Posted: Sun May 28, 2006 7:11 am
Leave him. Homophobes dont deserve girlfriends.
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Posted: Wed May 31, 2006 10:56 pm
ha..well i really don't have much i can input on this matter..but i think you should talk with him....although...truth be told...i really can't stand when people are like that..it makes me hurt...it's really quite sad...if they have a reason i.e..a bad experiance..then it's understandable..but..to be like that for no valid reason...there isn't an excuse...but what do i know lol...i still say try to reason with him..and if he doesn't listen..then..do what you feel you must..don't stay with him if he's hurting you by saying things like he has been sad
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Posted: Thu Jun 01, 2006 3:52 pm
xx_bloody_goodbyes_xx im going out with this guy, he's awesome and all, but he is absolutly against anything that has anything to do with homosexuality. he's said its a chemical imbalance in the brain, amongst other things. we argue alot about it and he KNOWS that i'm bi. what am i supposed to do?!?!?!?! i dont want to lose him, but he wont get a clue and shut up about it. he says that if im proud that what he says wont bother me. how do i make him understand without getting him mad at me? since you started out by saying "im going out with this guy and hes awesome and all..." I assume you havent been dating that long and that you arent in love with him yet. I would say to find someone better and forget him... find someone who shares the same interests as you do, perhaps some guy or girl who is bisexual as well. Trust me it is really hard holding on to a relationship that just inst meant to be... Dont you want to find that one person who you would love to spend the rest of your life with, who you wont get bored with and who loves you for who you are. you dont need to stay with someone unless you think they are someone who you WANT to be with (not just out of habit or out of feeling sorry for them, because he deserves someone whos perfect for him as well). There are a lot of people who are great/awesome in there own ways, but you need to find someone whos PERFECT for you! because you deserve that!
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