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 Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 11:29 pm
I'm 16 and possibly pregnant.. but I was wondering if anyone had any tips on keeping things in order for not only me, but my boyfriend, seeing that we aren't married and live in two seperate households. Thanks.
Stories from other teen parents/expecting would be nice, too. lol
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Posted: Sat Nov 26, 2005 11:56 pm
This thread might be of some use to you: http://www.gaiaonline.com/guilds/viewtopic.php?t=1376602You could also check out the Gaian Parents Guild. The link is in the Links Sticky, or you can go to it through the GGN. You need to find out first whether or not you're really pregnant, since there's no point in stressing out about it until you know for sure. Take a pregnancy test (take two to be sure), then go see a doctor if the results are positive. After that, you can talk to your doctor about what your choices are.
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Posted: Sun Nov 27, 2005 8:59 am
Let me tell you from personal experience it can be rocky and downright scary at the beginning of a pregnancy when your young or even in general it is a scary prospect. If you are know that you have support here we are always here for eachother. The biggest thing I can tell you is dont push your boyfriend in any direction as far as decisions of what you are going to do are concerned. I told my boyfriend/ fiance at the time that he could leave if he wanted to and I think because I did that he didnt feel forced into taking on all the extra responsibilty of our son he made the decision to stick around himself. It helps me to know that he truly does want to be with us even though things are rocky at times. When you take your pregnanct test make sure he is with you but tell him not to make any decisions right away give him time for it all to sink in. (trust me you will need the time if you are as well) Dont Just assume one direction or course of action right away research and study all of your options you will be glad you did. Goodluck when you find out post again and I am sure we can all help you out.
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Posted: Mon Nov 28, 2005 10:02 pm
I second taking a pregnancy test. There's no need to worry until you know for sure.
Most boxes now come with 2 tests. The most effective way is to take it FIRST thing in the morning, when your urine is undiluted and the hormones in it are most concentrated.
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Posted: Fri Jan 13, 2006 2:54 pm
And don't take them an hour apart.
3nodding
A handy tip though, if you do have a baby; if your breasts feel full, just express into an ice cube tray and freeze it, it lasts for months.
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Posted: Sat Jan 14, 2006 12:13 pm
Pimp Daddy, if you look at the date this thread was made, you'll notice that she's probably far past the pregnancy test stage. We all appreciate your comments, but I think they would be better spent on people who are still around and actively looking for/needing them smile
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 8:02 am
Well nobody deletes old posts/ makes new ones around here so I just post where I think I should sweatdrop
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Posted: Sun Jan 15, 2006 7:29 pm
~Teh.Pimp.Daddy~ Well nobody deletes old posts/ makes new ones around here so I just post where I think I should sweatdrop I know, it can be confusing sometimes smile Just mind dates and use your best judgement blaugh
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Posted: Thu May 25, 2006 8:40 pm
I am not sure if you are pregnant, or if by now you have had the baby. If you need some help and advice, please feel free to PM me. I am a young single mum, but I feel that I can be great help.
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Posted: Sun Jul 09, 2006 4:39 pm
Hello, im a mother of one. I loved being pregnant, it taught me alot. After i had her, it taught me and my boyfriend the word responsibility. I had to get up every 2-5 hours at first and then she started eating more and she sleep longer 5-8 hours. She is almost 3 months. I have been through tons of diapers it ain't funny. LOL!! The only time i got to go to sleep was when my boyfriend came over, and thats when i sleep.
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