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 Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 6:09 pm
We've been going out for about 1 month now and he still hasn't kissed me. I'm not rushing it it's just that... i've wanted him to kiss me for about a week or so now. It's not as if he's shy or anything. he's had girlfriends and made out b4 and stuff.... but i want him to take the initiative and kiss me. I would tell him that myself... it's just that i want my first kiss w/ him to be his wanting. not me telling him to..... sad
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 7:01 pm
Why can't you kiss him first?
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 8:31 pm
He is probably just being careful that he doesn't push you too fast. Next time you are on the phone tell him you are ready to be kissed and then he can take the initiative next time you are together.
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Posted: Sat Nov 12, 2005 10:14 pm
Well, there's a problem with thinking like that though. On one hand you want to wait for him to kiss you without saying anything about it; on the other hand you want to be kissed sooner and it's not soon enough. However, if you want something to be done about it without waiting then you're going to have to bring it up to him. You could try hinting to it but that could make false interpretations of what you actually want and he might not have a clue.
It has been said that people will wait to kiss someone because they find them to be worth more of value then the other people there with, so they'll wait until the right moment. Maybe he's just waiting because of that, maybe he's not. I really can't speak with him.
You're going to have to wait as long as it takes him if you don't speak up or take initiative. It's really up to you though on what you want to do. Think it through and make a decision. Or maybe you shouldn't even think it through and just kind of let things happen you know? Your choice.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 4:53 am
He might not realise that you want to kiss him, mabye you could set something at that has the atmosphere that could make you kiss. Or try dropping some hints.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 9:03 am
just let him know your ready to be kissed.. or just kiss him, most guys like it when a girl can go for things... like.. they find it nice.. dunno why but they do. But also if you don't want to take that approach then just talk to him about it... I mean just inquire it.
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Posted: Sun Nov 13, 2005 8:55 pm
Well you can't really have both. If you want the moment to be special and have him kiss you without him being 'forced' to then you have to wait for him. But if you want a kiss now then you have to let him know somehow. It's a double edged sword.
My advice would be to let him know that you'd like to be kissed, but for him not to kiss you until he's ready to.
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Posted: Thu Nov 17, 2005 4:14 pm
A more subtle approach would be to be observant when you are with him and if you see another couple kissing, of a kiss happens on tv or an ad, billboard whatever. Make comments like "isn't that wonderful, beautifull etc" that way you let him know that it's what you like while not outright asking for one (asking to be kissed does kinda spoil the mood and can be percieved as desperate).
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