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 Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 3:14 pm
Nephite Warrior i've always hated that 16 year old thing....i think its pointless...but oh well I have a friend who is fourteen who dove into not dating, but flirting. She is two years younger and took all of my friends ((I have all guy friends)) and really she is going to regret her actions toward boys later. Most of the time we do not know what the meaning of something is, but it still applies to everyone. I know part of why it applied to me personally. It is one of those "you will understand when are older" kind of things.
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Posted: Tue Oct 25, 2005 3:58 pm
kaidako Nephite Warrior i've always hated that 16 year old thing....i think its pointless...but oh well I have a friend who is fourteen who dove into not dating, but flirting. She is two years younger and took all of my friends ((I have all guy friends)) and really she is going to regret her actions toward boys later. Most of the time we do not know what the meaning of something is, but it still applies to everyone. I know part of why it applied to me personally. It is one of those "you will understand when are older" kind of things. I agree it is one of those things that you understand once your older.... or once you've broken it. As for the friends thing, I understand completely, I went for years without a single person I'd concider a friend. That was partly my fault, but I too am in a small town but nonetheless I understand. Hang tough dude. I had to wait about 10 years before I really trusted and gained friends. Have patience and feel free to pm me.
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 8:52 am
Dragonwarrior_Keltyr kaidako Nephite Warrior i've always hated that 16 year old thing....i think its pointless...but oh well I have a friend who is fourteen who dove into not dating, but flirting. She is two years younger and took all of my friends ((I have all guy friends)) and really she is going to regret her actions toward boys later. Most of the time we do not know what the meaning of something is, but it still applies to everyone. I know part of why it applied to me personally. It is one of those "you will understand when are older" kind of things. I agree it is one of those things that you understand once your older.... or once you've broken it. As for the friends thing, I understand completely, I went for years without a single person I'd concider a friend. That was partly my fault, but I too am in a small town but nonetheless I understand. Hang tough dude. I had to wait about 10 years before I really trusted and gained friends. Have patience and feel free to pm me. thank-you keltyr.
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Posted: Fri Oct 28, 2005 8:18 am
if anyone wants to know the answer i recieved go and read mosiah 23:21-22
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Posted: Sat Nov 05, 2005 8:48 pm
Nephite Warrior i've always hated that 16 year old thing....i think its pointless...but oh well hey, it's there for a reason. It's a commandment from our Father in Heaven. Seriously, just wait it out. Even when you reach 16, dating isn't all that it is cracked up to be, at least it seems that way to me. I turn 17 in a couple of months and I've only been on 2 dates. *shrug* oh well! Oh, and beware of pairing off before your mission.
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Posted: Sun Nov 06, 2005 3:10 am
((I've decided not to read the other posts))
Well, my little brother was dating a girl who was Bi for a while. According to her, he is the best guy she ever dated. Has something to do with chivalry, I think. You see, so many girls these days turn to lesbianism because guys are creeps. Other girls are nice and know how to treat them. But in their hearts they're still waiting for the 'perfect' guy. Or at least a guy with some basic manners, and maybe a romantic heart. So really, you have nothing to lose. Unlike gay guys, who just aren't interested in girls, lesbians tend towards being Bi, because very few girls don't like guys on some level.
Just remember that it's all because most guys are jerks. wink
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Posted: Tue Nov 08, 2005 5:18 pm
*Appears... "Wow its been awhile, What happend to this place?"*
Dear Ghost,
In my most humble opinion the best advice I can offer you about the Lesbian is to run away. The only thing you can do to try to "Turn her back" is to be kind.
Now the other girl, the 'out of state' one is a topic I can well identify with. Currently my "girlfriend" Lives in a diffrent state. (yes mahia I am sorry but I have a Girlfriend... I will start a topic on it later) What I have learned from this is that these relationships DO NOT work.
About the only thing you can do, and I am sorry to say this, is to forget about both of them as much as you can. Its over, both of it is over. Keep looking, you'll find the right one.
I am truly sorry my friend.
-Tiancum
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:08 pm
Have you ever considered praying about it?
In the past three years i've had two girlfriends, the last of which tore my heart apart (and, may i say, was the only non-member i've gone out with)
Now, i tried to get back into the game but i kept getting my heart broken over and over again.
Now, you ask me, why do i tell you these things?
because afterwards, i really got on my knees and prayed about it, asking with all my heart and an answer came.
i'm not supposed to have a GF before my mission. I've determined that the Lord is trying to tell me to wait for my sweetheart until after i've served him.
The Lord has something planned for all of us, you just need to be patient and seek out his guidance.
Mrs right is out there, mabey you're just not supposed to meet her yet.
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:10 pm
Mahia M ((I've decided not to read the other posts))
Well, my little brother was dating a girl who was Bi for a while. According to her, he is the best guy she ever dated. Has something to do with chivalry, I think. You see, so many girls these days turn to lesbianism because guys are creeps. Other girls are nice and know how to treat them. But in their hearts they're still waiting for the 'perfect' guy. Or at least a guy with some basic manners, and maybe a romantic heart. So really, you have nothing to lose. Unlike gay guys, who just aren't interested in girls, lesbians tend towards being Bi, because very few girls don't like guys on some level.
Just remember that it's all because most guys are jerks. wink Oh dear, that's kinda harsh... hey, but she's right, girls dig a nice guy.
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 2:14 pm
jon_wass Have you ever considered praying about it? In the past three years i've had two girlfriends, the last of which tore my heart apart (and, may i say, was the only non-member i've gone out with) Now, i tried to get back into the game but i kept getting my heart broken over and over again. Now, you ask me, why do i tell you these things? because afterwards, i really got on my knees and prayed about it, asking with all my heart and an answer came. i'm not supposed to have a GF before my mission. I've determined that the Lord is trying to tell me to wait for my sweetheart until after i've served him. The Lord has something planned for all of us, you just need to be patient and seek out his guidance. Mrs right is out there, mabey you're just not supposed to meet her yet. ive asked him several times about this girl and either he hasnt answered yet or i am not hearing his answer.
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Posted: Wed Nov 16, 2005 9:16 pm
The_Opera_Ghost jon_wass Have you ever considered praying about it? In the past three years i've had two girlfriends, the last of which tore my heart apart (and, may i say, was the only non-member i've gone out with) Now, i tried to get back into the game but i kept getting my heart broken over and over again. Now, you ask me, why do i tell you these things? because afterwards, i really got on my knees and prayed about it, asking with all my heart and an answer came. i'm not supposed to have a GF before my mission. I've determined that the Lord is trying to tell me to wait for my sweetheart until after i've served him. The Lord has something planned for all of us, you just need to be patient and seek out his guidance. Mrs right is out there, mabey you're just not supposed to meet her yet. ive asked him several times about this girl and either he hasnt answered yet or i am not hearing his answer. Perhaps, that in itself is your answer. it's not always a sign etched in the heavens, but sciprture says that a No can be a "stupor of though" or a lack of an answer. Perhaps he's telling you to go about this another way. Instead of asking him if this girl loves you or what you should do to win her back, you should ask him how you can serve him better. When you serve him with all of your heart mind and strength, then he will bless you. Maybe you just have to wait. take care. later
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Posted: Thu Dec 01, 2005 3:25 pm
The_Opera_Ghost ConcreteAngel Why not just hang out with friends, focus on school and all that. Don't worry about relationships. If you don't have one, who cares. Some are lucky to have someone close, others aren't. Its just a matter of time and obviously, it isn't the time for you to have someone. Just keep yourself busy and forget about them one big problem with that, i dont have friends that associate with me anywhere not school or church and barely ever in church and school. I know what you mean man I had some issues with having friends until I was in grade 10 but hen I got a friend who I stayed friends with until we graduated in grade 12 so as teh others have said multiple times have patience and try being nice to everybody that you know also try to find some common ground with somebody you know that is how I made friends and I am now graduated and I have many friends so just do what I did and be patient keep trying and eventually you will get friends.
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Posted: Mon Dec 19, 2005 7:44 pm
I LIKE YOU!!!! oh, wait... I'm your sister... nevermind. sweatdrop Anyway, I shall be replying solely to the first post in this topic, which states: The_Opera_Ghost Recently I've developed feelings for two young women, one i went out with for about 5 days and was in love with back in december 2004, and the other is older than me and lives in another state. Well the girl who i went out with hated me for awhile, i cheated on her before we went out but while we liked eachother, and just recently we became "friends" and i redeveloped those feelings for her. Well i asked one of the guys that hangs around her if she had a BF and he checked for me and told me that she has a GF. This killed me and this happened on friday when i couldnt talk to yall because TAKS, texas academic assessment of knowledge and skills, was being held in the library, where i get on the comp. Then the other girl i liked for awhile, but then out of no where she says that she has a bf and she has just been flirting with me for fun well this killed me too. I just dont know what to do, i know that the girl out of state is unreachable but the one here that is a lesbian, or she would probably say bi, i still love her but i dont know if i should just dive into my studies shut out the world and just say f the world, or should i pursue this girl that is near me? please yall help me figure it out. note-the girl that is out of state, i believe you know who you are, if you want to you can say something about who you are, this is mainly about the other girl. I may not be the most adequate to answer your main question, but I'll try, anyway. I've been hurt a lot. Trust me. I won't get into it here, but I have been through a lot of crap. I have a lot of trust issues because of said crap. I don't tell everyone everything. The only person I tell remotely anything close to "everything" is my nana, and only because she's been with me through all of this. So believe me when I say I know what it's like to be in your predicament. Blocking everyone out isn't always the best thing. It's the easiest thing to do, sure, but it's not always the best. However, if you're really not sure about either one, ride it out for a while, and see if another girl comes along that you decide you really like, or see if one of the two are the right girl. Either way, pray about it (sorry to sound really churchy, but yeah), and really think about it, and ask yourself what you think will be good for you in say, a year.
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Posted: Sat Dec 24, 2005 12:02 pm
0o0o0o0o0o... I can say a lot about this one.... I have so many friends that are bi and gay, it's scary. I like.. stand out... cause I'm Mormon... and straight, WOW.
But anyways, the reason that she may be dating a girl is prolly the old "I hate guys" story. Girls, after a while of dating guys, tend to hate guys cause they're perverted, and they don't like anything about them. Plus, most girls are more comfortable with their own gender, so some may get confused and lean more towards being lesbian/bi cause they can relate to girls more cause... well... they're girls.
But of course, there's always the story of "There's someone out there for you." thing. But really, I am under 16 as well.... but I still had a bf. Prolly broke a couple church standards, and yeah, I regret it. But still, I am young, and so are you. We have such a long life to go. I broke up with my recent bf (been with him for a year) and he's younger then me. The only reason we broke up is because he moved away. But we still love eahc other very much and keep in contact online with each other. Believe me, we talk every day. o.o
But really, if you want to talk about it, just PM me. Considering I always hang around gay/bi people (most of them guys) but when I do meet up with a lesbian or a bi girl, I do usually ask them why they became that way, just out of curiousity. They told me that most of the guys that they knew, or guys that they dated were complete JERKS. I told them that not all guys were like that, and they said that they knew. I believe that even if people say they're gay or lesbian, I really think that a part of them will still want to be with the opposite sex. So, I am sure in the future, she will understand that she really loves a certain guy. Plus... life is still young. like I said before, looooooooooooooooooong years that you have left. o.o It's not like you're going to find your wife now. It comes rare that people do when they're young like that. You're not alone. =)
Most guys that I liked turned out to be gay.... and most of them became my friends. =] One of my best friends is gay. xD fwhoo, yays.
Well, if you really want to know more, PM me. =D!!
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