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iHorsetamer

PostPosted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 4:01 pm


My main problem is this:
I like a guy, who is dating another girl, and my little "crush" is consistently turning into a "********" kind of thing!
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At the beginning over the school year, I began liking this guy named Ben. He was absolutely amazing, and he is a really close friend of mine now. But my problem is that he is dating this girl named Annie. >.<"
Before he was dating her, I had the perfect chance to ask him out. He kept confiding in me about how annoying it was that so many girls seemed to like him this year, and I got horrified that if I said that I liked him he would start to detest me! So I didn't say anything.
And then he ended up finding out anyway. And it really didn't matter.. Because he was already dating her.

So, now, almost a year later, me and Ben are pretty much best friends. He trusts me, and I trust him.
The weird thing is, he kind of acts like he DOES like me. Not a LOT but a little. :@
He tends to compliment me a lot, and he's around me a lot... I mean, I know that that is something that friends do, but still!

I just hate the fact that I had a lot of chances to ask him out, and now he's "in love" with Annie and Annie is "in love" with him!

I guess I need advice on how to get over him. I seriously have started crying { I know it's pathetic } about how much I like him. :@ I hate it, and I'm done with it.
Help?
PostPosted: Sat Mar 07, 2009 9:53 pm


Eat peanut butter. 3:

no dont do that, its not healthy.
umm.. i'm not sure what to say. find another guy to gawk over? I understand the whole liking someone and not telling them thing. i had that problem with my friend matt. i got over him though. i'm not exactly sure how, it just... happened. now i'm with figo, my bf. (: its cool though cuz me and matt are still friends n stuff. so yeah idk. just give yourself some time. Dont worry about what could have happened if you would have said something because then you're just running in circles. trust me, it's useless.

TheUnForgivenChild


I-CrissXApplesauce-I

PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 10:31 am


What grade are you in?...you know most school relationships barely last..
don;t stress over it..
PostPosted: Tue Jan 05, 2010 9:32 pm


O_O
oohoomiigaawwdd..
well, i'm sorry i really can't help..because
i have the EXACT same prblem as you and
when i thought i was over him-seriously- I WASN'T
..which is just sad..since he's smooth-talking me whenever
we chat nowadays, and it's just frustrating.. TwT

oh but, when i WAS over him what i did was..
talk to myself [okay ,i know, it's more pathetic than crying over him]
i actually kept repeating his name until i didn't feel my
heart skipping a beat..and said: even though it hurts that
the truth is we are just friends and stuff i must accept..and
i just kept scolding myself that time..
which you may think is weird but it did work.. ^ ^

~hope you'll move on..

afro_c o o k i i

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