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I just want to know the truth. It seems like every guy I meet is immature, that all they want is to get laid, or have the hottest chick on campus. Do guys do that to be cool or something? What do they REALLY want. I'm sure that just like all girls, guys are differant, but there has to be an overall opinion on this. I thought on the internet I could get a serious answer.
It also hepls that I'm asking band people, because all my freinds seem to be in band. I dated this one guy and he swore he was differant. We were faithfull to one another until he moved out of state. Then rather abruptly broke up with me and pretty much the next day started going out with this girl that goes to another school in my state. Me and him are freinds and all, but I find it hard to beleive everything he tells me.
So yeah. What do guys really want? Do they care about realtionships at all? Is it true that for less fortunate girls such as me could never get a boyfreind? (I'm broke and ugly, bad combination) I would like feedback from both boys and girls.plz be respectful.

Asking "What do Guys Really Want" is like asking "What do Girls Really Want." Their is no answer. Every girl and every guy is different. Their are some similarities across the board but that typically boils down to the preservation of the human race and not what they are looking for in a relationship. Guys do not act immature and try to get laid because they are trying to be cool it is because they are immature and are trying to get laid. Every male, including the Pope, wants sex it is hard wired into our brains. The base instinct of the male mind is to try and spread it's seed just as the base instinct of the female mind is to find a suitable mate that will hang around and help raise the children. The big difference between men when it comes to sex is how well we realize or instincts affects and how well we control ourselves/how much we let our lower head control us. That is a fact that you are going to have to deal with and accept.

Now when it comes to a relationship guys do care but if they don't want a relationship with you they will not care. The key to any good relationship is to have two people willing to constantly work with each other and to communicate honestly and straight forward with each other to try and make it succeed. If one of the people does not want a relationship, not willing to work, or not willing to communicate then it is doomed to failure in a very painful and hurtful way to the person that tried to make it work. There must be two people willing to work. Without it it is doomed to failure.

Don't be hard on yourself about your looks, money, or anything else. It is not worth it. Focus on your goals and life's desires Mr. Right will come along soon enough and you'll know it when you find him. As I see it and from my experience being "less fortunate," as you put it, is a benefit. You are far less likely to attract those immature, selfish, stuck-up, sex obsessed, snob, pretty boy, jocks, etc. with about as much personality as a dead rat. You find boy friends like you find friends, that is why the word "friend" is in both. I found my girl friend by first being friends with her and as time passed we realized that we wanted more from our relationship than just being friends. I've now known her for over five years and we have only been dating for about 1.5. Don't rush things, don't push things, be true to yourself and love will find you. It may not be as soon as you want it to be but it will find you. In the mean time focus on your education and making yourself a better person: I personally meet allot of nice girls doing just that.