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 Posted: Wed Sep 24, 2008 8:01 pm
Psycho-Rocker69 MinaMouse Keep him interested. Make noises or run your hands around him or do whatever he likes and thinks is sexy. You can't just lie back and do nothing. Of course he'll get bored. although i wouldn't like my girlfriend to "make noises" if she wasn't actually feelin' it you know what i mean? to me it would just be a bigger turn off for her to fake something during sex. now its different if she is doing it out of pleasure instead of to just make me feel better. I have done that. Because I noticed what was going on "down there" and tried to keep him arroused, but it doesn't work either. And when he goes soft again, it just doesn't feel good anymore. It's rather annoying actually.
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 5:46 pm
I've had a similar problem before with my lover. it was b/c he was thinking about not coming in me even with the condom.
We had a talk and since I was on birthcontrol and he used a condom, I was ok with him coming in me. As long as I said that it was ok, and that we were being safe, we never had the issue again.
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 5:51 pm
That might be his issue too. Well, not that exact one, but back when all we did was do "stuff", it would never take him too long to come and it always bothered him, and when we started having sex, it worried him that he wouldn't be able to hold it for long enough. Soooo, I'm going to guess that he's worrying too much about not coming too early, which causes him to worry and to think about that, which isn't too arrousing, so it makes him lose it..
Makes sense to me. :]
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Posted: Thu Sep 25, 2008 8:26 pm
well for me anyways the one time that i went soft during sex it really helped watching my girlfriend play with herself whether she started fingering herself or licked her boobs it helped me get hard again. who knows might work hope we are being of help
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Posted: Mon Nov 17, 2008 1:20 pm
I personally think you should talk to him about that, others advice sometimes isn't the best options.
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