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Perturbed

PostPosted: Tue Jul 29, 2008 9:55 am


u know how some ppl go thru like a mid life crisis, well i think there's one b4 that - let me explain. i just completed university and i actually have to go out there and deal with the real world -

and it feels like u've jumped off of a f**king cliff and u dont know where ur gonna land or who ur gonna land with -

i call this the quarter life crisis - i mean up to this point u had some idea of where ur life was going

dont get me wrong tho it isnt scary or anything like that, atleast not in a terrifying way - i think its actually kinda exciting - the freedom of knowing that u can do anything u want - but at the same time u still feel really confused and disoriented by everything ur faced with

kinda reminds me of a hangover lol

anyways any of u who get where i'm coming from i wanna hear what ya'll think, dont be shy
PostPosted: Thu Oct 23, 2008 4:30 pm


I perfectly understand what you say. I've found that taking a semester off from college and finding a job can help lessen the impact of this crisis quite a bit. Not only you already know how to move around and have already some contacts that can help you get a job more easily, but you also learn the practical skills you'll need to start your professional career.

Just to let you know, right now I'm working as a networking engineer at a teacher's company, and it's totally different from what I used to do at school. In college, they teach you how to write programs, how to code stuff, how to use routers, switches and how the phone works, but they never teach you, for example, how to use a hammer drill, how to properly measure a cable length, or how to build a cabling installation that meets the structured wiring standards.

My best advice is to stay strong, and above all, focused. But above all, don't be afraid of asking your dads for help. That's what dads are for, after all: they're here to help you with your life.

Da_Nuke

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