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 Posted: Sun May 11, 2008 2:19 pm
 My boyfriend and I went out yesterday to watch speed racer (an alright movie, but the race sceans are awsome) And had been trying to hold the whole make out scession until later on in our relationship, But it happened anyway. To come strait out I didn't enjoy it. Not at all really. It felt like he was eating my face. Then it came our that I was the first person that he had ever togue kissed, So that made me feel a little better, but i'm stil worried. LAter he txt me asking me how he did. I told him -You should make your tongue less stiff -Take it slow, don't eat my face -Next time let me do some stuff to He said he was glad I told him the truth but I hope I wasn't to hard, what do you think. Now to my other problem. He said he enjoyed my half, but I was his first time. What if I was really bad with out knowing it? So can someone please A- give me your opinion on my critiquing B- give me some pointers on making out Thank you and please no flamers, I'm asking this because i'm trusting every one to be mature. any Inappropriatet posts will be deleated thank you for your help ANd if there are any... techniques you prefere, please tell. Just trying to make myself better
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Posted: Tue May 13, 2008 9:15 pm
Being honest is good in a relationship and being harsh, I don't think you were. It's better that you can be honest with each other.
Pointers are hard to give, cause everyone does their own thing. But here's some things I've found work really well.
1. nibble or suck lightly on his lower lip
2. be into it, people like it when you're really into making out (it's fun so why not)
3. don't worry about if you're doing things right or wrong, if it feels right to you, then don't worry about it. ( I know I used to worry about whether or not I was doing things right but if you don't get complaints, you're doing something right)
Best of luck hun and don't lose the honesty in the relationship!
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Posted: Wed May 14, 2008 1:55 pm
Ouch, I'm sorry that you didn't enjoy it. Yes, you were a little harsh (but going to the point is good) and I don't think that people should really discuss relationship things over the phone... >.> That doesn't really have anything to do with this but still... talking in person or over the phone helps a relationship thrive. Besides, you never know if he's really texting you or his friend
Here are some tips that I think are good:
-Don't dive in
-Go slow, it's not a race
-Search for their mouth before going in. In other words, let your breath mingle a little wink
-Don't choke him and don't let him choke you
Oh, and make sure to come up for air so you don't pass out
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 3:29 pm
Just be gentle. And tell him not to eat your face next time. It's made me feel like I was suffocating. And it's gross. So yeah, go gently and don't overdo it. xp
If he likes it and you like it, that's what matters.
Oh, but I'm glad you were planning to hold off that kind of thing for a while. Kind of wish I had done that too. If things like this start too early, or you do them too often, they don't mean so much anymore.
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Posted: Tue May 20, 2008 7:22 pm
I agree - the honesty was good.
Maybe next time show him what you like by kissing him that way.
Then have him do it to you. This teaches him what you like & teaches him basic skills at the same time
(Make sure you are alone... don't give him instructions in front of friends/family/strangers. It would hurt his feelings.)
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Posted: Wed May 21, 2008 2:17 am
I don't want you to be concerned about the truth ^^ I wish everyone was exactly asrtaight with everything with me.you knwo told me the truth 100% always no matter how bad it would be.
And seems people are making good points =3
oh hey pwease dont worry about if you did well or badly, silly > <
as far as techniques, etc go, you shoudl totally google search something related x3
Aww why did you name it if your tongue is retarted xD silly you.
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mud_brown_eyes_11 generated a random number between
78 and 90 ...
79!
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Posted: Mon May 26, 2008 9:47 pm
No,I dOnT tHiNk U wErE hArsH hE iS pRoMbLeY gLaD u SaId ThE tRuTh! 3nodding
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 2:40 am
I'm not a moderator or anything, so it's not like I have any authority, but should this topic really be here? I always thought the IDT was about debating thoughts and issues that were more ... widespread, not personal. There are like a gazillion other Why Not? threads, I think it's kind of odd that you chose the IDT for your kissing issue.
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 8:56 am
XSexletX 1. nibble or suck lightly on his lower lip I second this; it is rather enjoyable, but whatever you do, don't bite down and otherwise the teeth should be kept as far away from ever other part of kissing as possible. This is best done just before the kiss, as an exciting teaser. Itchyboobers I agree - the honesty was good. Maybe next time show him what you like by kissing him that way. Then have him do it to you. This teaches him what you like & teaches him basic skills at the same time (Make sure you are alone... don't give him instructions in front of friends/family/strangers. It would hurt his feelings.) She (and most everyone else who commented was right. The honesty was great and its good that he took it well. If he's new to this whole thing, give him time and be patient. Ultra Sarah I'm not a moderator or anything, so it's not like I have any authority, but should this topic really be here? I always thought the IDT was about debating thoughts and issues that were more ... widespread, not personal. There are like a gazillion other Why Not? threads, I think it's kind of odd that you chose the IDT for your kissing issue. Not to be an a**, but this was the point that I intended to make when I first came here. I've gotta tell you, it really doesn't (in my opinion) belong here, but not only am I not a moderator, I'm new to the guild...What the hell do I know?
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 9:08 am
Ultra Sarah I'm not a moderator or anything, so it's not like I have any authority, but should this topic really be here? I always thought the IDT was about debating thoughts and issues that were more ... widespread, not personal. There are like a gazillion other Why Not? threads, I think it's kind of odd that you chose the IDT for your kissing issue. She also posted the same thread in the can of spam. @_@ I think perhaps her idea was that she would get the most replies/advice and/or visibility by posting in multiple areas that may (or may not) have loosely applied.
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 9:18 am
zphal_girl87 Ultra Sarah I'm not a moderator or anything, so it's not like I have any authority, but should this topic really be here? I always thought the IDT was about debating thoughts and issues that were more ... widespread, not personal. There are like a gazillion other Why Not? threads, I think it's kind of odd that you chose the IDT for your kissing issue. She also posted the same thread in the can of spam. @_@ I think perhaps her idea was that she would get the most replies/advice and/or visibility by posting in multiple areas that may (or may not) have loosely applied. Furthermore, I can see her wanting to turn to those who are looking for an intelligent conversation. Not to sound too elitist, but those who are sincerely looking for such intellectual stimulation tend to be a bit more...Well...Intelligent. That said, advice from those who are intelligent tends to be worth just a little more than advice from ignoramuses and fools.
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Posted: Tue May 27, 2008 8:04 pm
Matasoga zphal_girl87 Ultra Sarah I'm not a moderator or anything, so it's not like I have any authority, but should this topic really be here? I always thought the IDT was about debating thoughts and issues that were more ... widespread, not personal. There are like a gazillion other Why Not? threads, I think it's kind of odd that you chose the IDT for your kissing issue. She also posted the same thread in the can of spam. @_@ I think perhaps her idea was that she would get the most replies/advice and/or visibility by posting in multiple areas that may (or may not) have loosely applied. Furthermore, I can see her wanting to turn to those who are looking for an intelligent conversation. Not to sound too elitist, but those who are sincerely looking for such intellectual stimulation tend to be a bit more...Well...Intelligent. That said, advice from those who are intelligent tends to be worth just a little more than advice from ignoramuses and fools. xD, yes, that last comment is often true. This post is especially bad, but I think that the IDT has been facing an epidemic of off-topic threads. This post was just ... I'm going to spare the poster's feelings by not posting mine ... but I think the main issue is that people don't know what kind of threads should be in an debate-y forum such as the IDT.
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