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KatsumiBatei

PostPosted: Wed Aug 12, 2009 11:19 pm


dark_angel_32189
I don't really have much personal experience with that. My mom found out by seeing something in room. The conversation consisted of "I want you to start go to church with me again." I replied with, "No." And that's how we left it. We don't discuss it. I don't think my dad even knows.
Lucky my parents told me as long as i'm in this house i will go to church, when i don't participte like knel and stuff they said i'm being dissrespectful, now what i think is i'm being more disrespectful by one pretending and two going in the first place i want to tell them but i'm afraid of the reaction
PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 7:40 am


Phoebe4448
I also need help coming out to not only my mom but to my entire family.

My mom is pretty open minded when it comes to religion like she didn't care when I told her I was aethiest but if I were to tell her about this, well I'm pretty sure she would freak

But the rest of my family kind of went a little nuts when I told them about being aethiest (when I was aethiest) and ifI were to tell them about this they might possibly either disown me or they might try to perform an exocism on me or something HELP!!!!

sounds like my family. i wouldn't say anything, only two people know about me being pagan (one of them IS pagan).

my family is an odd traditional family, the women cleans the house and the man works. you dress nice and you are always respectful in sight of guests. children are meant to be seen and not heard (this included all adults younger than the person talking, especially adult women).they live in lies and their own warped way of seeing the world and the slogan of the family (though they will never admit) is: lies are truth, truth is punished. you hang out with your color and only those of your color that go to a respectable church the racist bastards

needless to say my cousins are doing one of the fallowing: moving out when they can and will not be seen again (they may call occasionally), going atheist, or going pagan. The only ones staying part of the church have not called back yet and have not been seen for several years.

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PostPosted: Thu Aug 13, 2009 9:42 pm


Yea i dont think i'm gonna come out until I move out. ONe cuz my parents are hardcore christian and once my mom was watching tv and they had a...something board its the one were you talk to the dead...but anyways I knew what it was but i decided to play the dumb card (the best I have) and said. "Oh..whats that...I want one." Then my mom gave me a confused look and said. "You will never own one they are evil."....so yea not coming out for a wile.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 1:13 pm


. . . I'm rely new to all this. Heck I'm not even shore I'd call my self a Wicca yet. I was born Christian and my mom's parents are Mormon . . . and my dad's dad was a preacher.

I believe in magic and the powers the earth holds but I don't have any Wicca friends I've never had a chance to join a Wicca group or even git to know the Wicca traditions very well do to my family's ways.

I rely won't to but haw would I tell my family? The religions are soooo different.

I do knead help I wont to learn and I'm not shore my family can dill or if they'll even let me choice there very controlling.

Ethealda_Green


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PostPosted: Sat Aug 22, 2009 1:33 pm


don't get any big ideas, they're not going to happen...
I didn't have to come out of the broom closet. I straight up told my Mom that I was interested in Paganism. A few days later, she took me out book shopping. Years after that, I got her interested in the subject, herself. She's always been keen on learning new spiritual philosophies.

So I can't really offer much advice on the subject. I don't understand how anyone could have such trouble... I understand that they do, but "why" is beyond my brainmeats.

Generally, though... I think the person is alone on the matter. You (the reader in general) know your parents best, so you are the only one who can say how to talk to them. There's no one-size-fits-all formula with parents, because they're all very different, very individual people, with their own dynamic with you (which might even differ with the dynamic they have with a sibling of yours). So just imagine their reaction, rehearse for it, and plan a back up/escape plan in case things go crappy. If push comes to shove, you (the general reader) can stay with a friend for a while til the folks cool off... or hell, there's always Child Protective Services for the underage if things go REALLY hinky. I mean, just know the contact numbers. You can't ever be too prepared, you know?

Another option... just don't lip it until you're on your own two feet by yourself. Pagan practices and learning doesn't have to be physically obvious, so it is feasible to squeak by in silence 'til you build a comfort-zone of your very own.
...you'll go to hell for what your dirty mind is thinking.
PostPosted: Wed Aug 26, 2009 3:03 pm


I came out first to my mom and step dad at the time, cause I knew they would be the tough customers. I made sure we were in the car, I sat behind my step dad and waited until we were on the free way. Then I just blurted out that I wasn't going to church anymore cause I don't believe in it. Then had to explain alot to em. Before that my mom was heavy into the Mormon church, and my step dad was a Nazarene or something. They both just kinda gawked at me when I was finished rambling about the elements and the Goddess and symbols and how I'm not a satanist. After that it was never brought up again, until my step dad left, now my mom and talk about things like that all the time.

When I came out to my dad the first thing he did was went online and started researching it, then we talked for hours. He told me it was fine if I wanted to learn about it, but he wouldn't allow me to practice until I was 18, because alot of covens won't take me until then he said. Now that I'm old enough he supports me and has offered to but things for me. ^_^ He bought my first tarot deck.
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