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PostPosted: Sat Mar 01, 2008 3:38 am




I have to side with Asa-chan. You said some other girls liked him, so if you ask him out face-to-face, you're basically elevating yourself out of that group. You're making yourself more noticeable to him. Even if he does say no [and honey, that's not the end of the world], he will still more than likely admire you for having the courage to do it face-to-face.

If he rejects you in person or by note, if everyone finds out everything, they're going to know anyway, right? I mean, it's always a risk you take when you ask someone out. But I think you need to consider the fact that while it might be easier for you to say it on paper, it also might be easier for him to reject you on paper. Now think of how that would feel... maybe like you weren't good enough for him to do it in person, right? Hmm? Karma can be cruel. Don't do that to yourself. Don't worry about stuttering or forgetting what you want to say or saying the wrong thing. You're human, right? It will re-inforce the fact that you like him. I don't know about you, but I would be much more likely to say yes to someone who asked me out in person than by note.


PostPosted: Sun Mar 02, 2008 10:38 pm


Ok, here's something I just remembered: Earlier this year, I asked him out but just on a ZAP (But he didn't know that) He said yes and that was a face-to-face thing. Nothing had been said about going out or being BF and GF and so I think he really wasn't paying much attention so I'm thinking a note will make him pay attention a lot more than before. (Also, the ZAP asking out one was partly serious but I didn't completely make it serious since I hadn't asked anyone out yet and I wasn't able to ask people out.)

Im-Sorry-I-Left


Im-Sorry-I-Left

PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 8:37 pm


Ok well today in class I was talking to Sarah and I wrote a note to Vaughn asking him out and stuff and I wrote in big letters To and From so that he knew it was from me and stuff and then I told Sarah to give it him before our next class starts and so she gave it to him then and when he opened it, I went into the bathroom because I was freaked out and I didn't want him to like come over to me or look at me or something and so when I came back, class had started (I'm glad that that teacher doesn't put people tardy if their late.) and so then Von had written back and gave it to Sarah and Sarah gave it to me and it said that he'll think about it and so if he doesn't give me an answer tomorrow I'm gonna write a note back to him asking if he'd thought about it and stuff and hope he answers yes.

It looks like Murphy's laws didn't kick in... (Yet...)
PostPosted: Mon Mar 03, 2008 9:58 pm


Well.. thinking about it is a sort of good sign.. X3

Seranin


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PostPosted: Tue Mar 04, 2008 1:34 pm


I don't think a note is impersonal at all. It's much better than writing something on MSN or in an email.

But not delivering it yourself is... kind of wimpy.

I wouldn't worry about what kids think.
If it's the main gossip for more than three days, than your school is full of immature losers.
PostPosted: Wed Mar 05, 2008 2:19 pm


He hasn't said or done anything lately about the note lately so I'm kinda thinking he might have forgotten. He's normally in his own little world. Or he might not think I like him anymore. (He might think that since he found out my love of Danny Noriega. From the pictures of him on my binder. See pictures below↓↓) My sister says that he wouldn't forget but I don't know. I was talking to him today and yesterday and he didn't act weird or different at all. I'm thinking about giving him the note asking him if he's thought about it yet tomorrow.

Here are the pictures I made:

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My friends say I'm obsessed with him...

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