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 Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:25 pm
When ever my boyfriend and I have sex I feel like all I'm doing is just laying there like a rag doll.
I like having sex i have no problem with it, I was just wondering if anyone had any sujestions on how to make it more fun for me so i don't just lay there with my legs spred open and him hugging on to me.
I have been on top and we both like that but it's hard for me to move because it hurts my legs and I fall over a lot (I don't have great ballence)
So if any one at all has any ideas on how I can get a little more active while having sex and enhance the experience that would be great.
oh! and before I forget we are 17 and have been having sex for about a month, and have been dating for 10 months, and I am a girl just a little FYI
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Posted: Sun Feb 10, 2008 10:37 pm
Well its all about positioning. If you feel like a rag doll, then try different ways. maybe be on top, but lay donw and kiss him while you're on top. Or have him put your ankles over his shoulders. wrap your legs around his back.
Try having sex while standing up... maybe against a wall... or in a shower.
try sitting positions, such as sitting in his lap. Cow girl and reverse cow girl...
Most of these, if not all, can be found on line.
If you have balance issues, try staying low, then your center of gravity is lower and you wont fall off as easily.
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Posted: Mon Feb 11, 2008 6:48 am
Okay I got a couple here...
1.) Having a ball
How to do it:Lie back on a large exercise ball (or beach ball), your legs spread, feet flat on the ground, head arched upward, and fingers reaching toward the floor for support. Have your guy kneel between your legs and enter you. He can continue kneeling while holding your hips as he thrusts or he can strech his body over yours and support himself with his hands on the floor in a push-up position. Grab his butt and draw him into you or keep your hands on the floor for balance as he moves in and out.
Why you'll love it:The exercise ball will roll out from under you if he thrusts too hard or too fast, so your partner has to restrain his motion which will keep the desire on a slow, super hot boil. Also, maintaining your position will force you to tilt your balance upwards slightly, so you both will experience intensely deep penetration.
2.)The Slingshot
How to do it:Get in the doggy-style position--you on your knees and your guys kneeling behind you. He should then wrap a wide towel under your hips, holding both ends in his hands so he can lift your hips and butt higher and control both of your motions as he thrust in and out.
Why you'll love it: By using this makeshift sex sling, he has extra leverage to control the angle and depth of his penetration as well as the pace of his thrusting...unleashing his primal urge to be in charge of the action. It will give deep penetration.
You can find both of these and more techniques in Cosmopolitan January 2008 on page 98-99
Hope these help! heart
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Posted: Wed Feb 13, 2008 4:47 am
There's so many different possitions you could try, it would be really unlikely for them all to be named and known in this topic. Why don't you try and pick up a karma sutra book, that way you can both have a look through and decide what possitions appeal to both of you.
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 11:32 am
Try makeing noises, maybe scratching biteing can also be a turn-on. might not work with everyone but it's worth the try. blaugh
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 1:18 pm
Baruto01 Try makeing noises, maybe scratching biteing can also be a turn-on. might not work with everyone but it's worth the try. blaugh
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 3:33 pm
try different positions there are tons and tons of them
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Posted: Sun Feb 24, 2008 8:24 pm
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Maybe roleplay a little? For example student/teacher, or whatever. Make it naughty. xd
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