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I have to agree; I know a few awesome black girls, but the majority of them are really loud; so much so that I barely even consider a black girl unless she's wearing converse or video game/band/anime shirts.

It's completely wrong, I know, but I can't deal with all that noise all the time.

Not that other races don't do it too, of course.

EDIT: Ha, I just realized that I'm zombified. Many would read this post and think 'omfg wut does dat white boi kno.' My avi was originally black (;

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Sorry to dissect your post like this. It just makes it easier for me to respond.



I know exactly what you mean. Then again, I'm naturally drawn to a more laid-back crowd than that of the more "popular" girls.



It's not necessarily the noise- it's the attitude for me.



Yep. Please excuse my sweeping generalizations here but... Girls like that tend to be mean- in all races (with slight differences here and there). That's why I tend to avoid them unless I am left no choice.



Well, I'm not one of those people. If you were white then that wouldn't make your opinion any less important (or more important- just throwing that out there xD). If it did, well then half of my opinion wouldn't count. : D

I'm a military-brat, ao I've been to just about every state and no matter where you go it's the same. It doesn't matter if your in a private or public school either, because I attended a ritzy private school in NY and the females were wild. stressed Urban or not, that's just what a lot of females do when you get them together and don't even think about putting a cute guy in the room. It'll be WWIII. dramallama

No offense, but this black female attitude is a well known issue. It's annoying, and being from LA I find it funny that anyone would dispute that. Same applies to latino women.

White women I've known are more likely to say/do something STUPID, even if they are highly intelligent

Asian women tend to be extremely trendy, which can be unnerving

These are all generalizations, that have nothing at all to do with race, pay attention.

It really isn't a race issue but a cultural one-White people can act just as ghetto as black/latino people. But even so, there are special situations where I tend to be more closed minded:

I try to avoid dealing with white male lawyers/police officers/insurance salesmen, and I avoid female black bankers/nurses/politicians. Plenty of other things here, but you get the point.

Yes, black female politicians. I had to attend a dinner and let me tell you she made Condoleezza Rice look good.

I go to a predominantly Caucasian school---
There is the same drama, just not with slang ...
More in a preppy way
But still as vulgar
Hostility is hostility period. Every race, every gender.
Its the rude beast in everyone.

Being loud and such is just a way to draw attention to yourself, and establish social dominance.

Now that you know.. respond however you feel is best to such behavior.

As long as no one gets the idea that being confrontational is a trait of a "strong person" because these traits have been commonly associated with what qualifies a "strong black woman" .. then it's all good.

the sad truth. I don't discriminate but you have to admit most black girls are really loud. I'm at an all black school too but I met some other cool black girls too though. I guess cuz that stereotype gets pushed on them so hard in the media and things.