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 Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 6:22 am
Hello :: Bows repectfully::
My Name is Ren , I'm new here but I just wanted to introduce myself before I asked help with my issue... 3nodding
Okay my problem is well ... sweatdrop
I have a boyfriend and he is so nice and wonderful ,
I'm really REALLY lucky to have him! I love him so much.
but ... heh I am like 2 inches taller than him , which is okay
but I love to wear really high heels and so this makes me even taller
i've never asked him if it bothers him ..
I wonder if it makes him feel inmascutated ...
Do you think so ?
any advice would be so helpful!
3nodding
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 6:31 am
Just flat out ask him what he thinks of you being taller. Just ask casually but not in front of people so he can tell you what he really feels. 3nodding
My boyfriend and I are about the same height, eye to eye. So I asked him if he dislikes it when I wear heels (because I wear tall heels and I tower over him as well).
He told me he doesn't mind me wearing heels and being taller. He likes how I look in heels, how it makes my legs look long. XD
But when I asked him, I was prepared to give up wearing heels around him and go to flats. So before you ask, you need to think about his reactions and how you will respond to that. If he does dislike you being taller and you continue to wear heels, that might be taken as you don't care what he thinks. Hey, hey might be like my guy and like the heels. 4laugh
And welcome to the guild!! heart
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 6:31 am
 Grin Evilly says: 3nodding It's nice to meet you, Ren.
Alot of people have different height preferences.
If he had a problem with your height, I think he would have told you by now. But you guys are boyfriend and girlfriend (I don't know if you're just dating or going steady), so I don't think it bothers him, and if it does it must not bother him very much.
If you're still concerned though, you should talk to him about it. D: Relationships can really suck if you guys can't talk about what worries/bothers you. ♥♥♥
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 5:06 pm
My boyfriend is about 5 inches shorter than me and he gets a little annoyed but he lives with it because he really likes me.
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Posted: Tue Nov 20, 2007 6:28 pm
Hello Ren~
My boyfriend is a head shorter then me, about 4-5 inches. Plus my taller shoes make me tower. I actually don't know what he thinks, but I know my other friends get a kick out of it. xD
All I know, is that if he hated the height too much, then you wouldn't be together now.
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Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 3:38 pm
My boyfriend has learned to coordinate his heel-wearing with mine so we pretty much match up heightwise. 3nodding Then again, we have never been exactly normal.
I doubt it's an issue, at this point. If you're already dating, He's noticed by this point. Mike is a timid insecure girl.
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Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 6:07 pm
Hai, Ren.
Welcome to PPS
<3
I agree with...uh...
Lady Kayura and
DemonPlushie.
Just ask him, nice
and casual. And if
he really has any
kind of problem
with height, you
probably wouldn't
be together still
whee
I'm really tall.
And most Mexican guys
are kinda short.
I guess my, uh, instict
{wtf?} is to look only
at the tall, thin guys.
But I've dated guys
shorter than me, and
we usually just joke
about it.
I guess it also helps
that I hate high heels.
Oh, well.
I guess it varies with
each person, right?
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Posted: Wed Nov 21, 2007 6:41 pm
Welcome! I hope you like it!
But I think you should just ask him.
I mean, if he doesn't like it, I think he would have said something by now.
But guys will be guys, so that could be an issue.
But just ask him, if he likes you, it shouldn't bother him, and I don't think it will.
But my boyfriend is about 4-5 inches taller than me.
He's about 6 foot even, and I'm about 5'6" 5'7".
So it doesn't bother me too much.
But seriously, just ask him, and I think you'll be fine.
Good luck with everything though!
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Posted: Fri Nov 23, 2007 9:12 pm
i know how u feel cause i like this guy but he is shorter then me so yeah but i stilll like him so what u should do is kinda deal with it i guess so yeah and that's all i can say cause i haven't experience it yet but don't u worry u would figure something out ! sweatdrop
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Posted: Thu Nov 29, 2007 6:05 am
well tallness shouldnt be really that much of an issue >< their has been worse in othercases >< i dont think you should bring it up on the count of it might embarass him a tad >< and yeah that couldnt go so well ><
maybe try to not wear high heels around him (im sure he wants to be taller than you anyway XD)
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Posted: Fri Nov 30, 2007 12:52 pm
Height shouldn't be that much of an issue. I've -never- dated a guy taller than me. Most of my boyfriends thought it was hot to have a sexy amazonian like me though >>; It didn't make them feel immasulcated; It instead made them feel like a badass and also thus treated me sometimes like a trophy prize o-x;
Matt is about 6 inches shorter than me, and he doesn't mind it. He just says there's more of me to love. I dated a guy who was a foot shorter than me and he didn't really care either.
So I don't think he really cares, and if he does, then that's just his issue. It has nothing to do with you. It's just his insecurity and isn't your fault.
Yay for being tall! xD
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