Nymphiedora
Remember Psycho (Pixie not Ginny)? Me and her and this other girl were best friends for 12 years. Me and the other girl ended up breaking up with Psycho last Janurary.
It sucked and we tried to avoid it as long as we could. I mean throwing away a 12 yr best friendship isnt an easy thing to do. But sometimes it just has to happen. Sometimes issues cant be resolved and all that you will get by remaining friends is hurt.
We had AWESOME AMAZING times with Psycho. She spent pretty much every weekend sleeping over my house for probably 9 or 10 years. We were practically inseparable. I loved Psycho more then I loved pretty much anyone else. Besides Ida (the other girl) We were all "best friends forever" and going to help raise each others kids and be each others maids of honor and live next door to each other and never leave. But you know sometimes s**t happens and as much as it sucks it just has to be ended.
Of course we didnt want to end the friendship. My mom told me like every day to just stop being friends with her but I refused. Same with Ida. And things just got worse. We would have saved SOOO much time and energy if we had just gotten over it and stopped the friendship when we knew it wasnt going to work. Trying to make it last just isnt worth it. Its going to end eventually anyways, might as well just end it now and save alot of grief. It'll really really suck at first but you'll get over it and soon realize that it was all of the best.
Or if you stop being friends for like...6 months and then both realize that you cant live without each other then you'll be more willing to make the sacrifices you need to make to be friends again. And then the friendship can be fixed.
Either way you have to just stop talking to each other. Whether its a loong break or an ending, its better then what you're doing now.
It sucked and we tried to avoid it as long as we could. I mean throwing away a 12 yr best friendship isnt an easy thing to do. But sometimes it just has to happen. Sometimes issues cant be resolved and all that you will get by remaining friends is hurt.
We had AWESOME AMAZING times with Psycho. She spent pretty much every weekend sleeping over my house for probably 9 or 10 years. We were practically inseparable. I loved Psycho more then I loved pretty much anyone else. Besides Ida (the other girl) We were all "best friends forever" and going to help raise each others kids and be each others maids of honor and live next door to each other and never leave. But you know sometimes s**t happens and as much as it sucks it just has to be ended.
Of course we didnt want to end the friendship. My mom told me like every day to just stop being friends with her but I refused. Same with Ida. And things just got worse. We would have saved SOOO much time and energy if we had just gotten over it and stopped the friendship when we knew it wasnt going to work. Trying to make it last just isnt worth it. Its going to end eventually anyways, might as well just end it now and save alot of grief. It'll really really suck at first but you'll get over it and soon realize that it was all of the best.
Or if you stop being friends for like...6 months and then both realize that you cant live without each other then you'll be more willing to make the sacrifices you need to make to be friends again. And then the friendship can be fixed.
Either way you have to just stop talking to each other. Whether its a loong break or an ending, its better then what you're doing now.
I've dealt with things like that with many friends before. .3.;; In most cases, it ended up being a big mistake, but that was just for my case I suppose.
The one time it was a good thing was when the person was being immature and meddling in things she shouldn't have, I was the only one who'd terminate the relationship, and my two other friends kept acting like giving her fifty more 'last chances' was going to work. 8'D
We're kind of sort of friends again now though, so eh. :'3
Sometimes taking a break is a good thing, though. I've tried it, though in my case I find talking and honesty usually does wonders, especially after a break. <33333
Good luck! heart
The one time it was a good thing was when the person was being immature and meddling in things she shouldn't have, I was the only one who'd terminate the relationship, and my two other friends kept acting like giving her fifty more 'last chances' was going to work. 8'D
We're kind of sort of friends again now though, so eh. :'3
Sometimes taking a break is a good thing, though. I've tried it, though in my case I find talking and honesty usually does wonders, especially after a break. <33333
Good luck! heart
