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I am disabled and can't work and my wife is clinically depressed and has difficulty finding work. I frequently don't make it to church simply because I'm in too much pain and our pews make it worse. Likewise my wife often doesn't make it to church because she has to work so we can pay the bills. God loves us anyway.

Fortunately, God doesn't live in church buildings; he's everywhere. As Christians we host the Holy Spirit within our bodies which gives us a direct line to God. We can pray, sing, read scripture, or talk and fellowship with other Christians (either in real life or online) anytime.

Church is not a requirement for Christianity but it helps. I find that my is much smoother and I am much happier whenever I get my batteries recharged by my church family.

Depending on how old you are, see if your church has a youth group. If its on a day when you do have time, see if your parents, older siblings, or a friend can give you a ride. Thats what I'm envolved with right now. My family moved to a new town in June and we havent found a church yet.

The other two replies are valuble as well. Very valuble.

Well, probably the best thing to do for now, is to keep praying about it. Also keep a consistent prayer life. I have found that praying right before and after I go to sleep has really helped my walk a lot. This way you will always have God close you your heart, even when you can enjoy the fellowship of Christians. In time you situation should change and you'll be able to go to church again, just never give up hope and never stop praying.

I think it may help to remember that church is not a place to which we go but a people to whom we belong. There are several members of my church that are physically unable to assemble with the church but we are committed to go to those people. The church maintains consistent and regular contact with them. I would recommend talking with your pastor and making sure that he is aware of your circumstances. I pray that your church family will stand with you.