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I told you that she was 13 everybody! mrgreen Anyways I'm off to the Sport's Forum to try to be a helper, by the way, it isn't really hard to be a helper in there, I'll tell you later why. sweatdrop

xDD
Nice one. <3

Kind of, and besides nobody in there is trying to be a sports forums helper or moderator, everyone I see in there always spam and do noob stuff, so if I keep up my good work in the sports forum for about a year, I'll probably be a sports helper in no time. I hope. sweatdrop

And people spaz at each other fighting, so I come in to break the fight and stuff. I'm the "only" one I see that does that. sweatdrop

Ooh, lots of things to reply to.

@t0sh - Tut tut. Honestly. You nearly had me fooled.. but not quite xD - and 12-year-olds do get bashed a bit.. when I was 13 and joined I used to post in ED a lot but I was never 'bashed' simply because I never used to tell anyone my age xd don't you remember how I used to be all mysterious about telling anyone how old I was? rofl

@Chainletter discussion - mad xp Hate them. Although it's unfair to blame Babi if he hasn't done anything wrong x___x;;

@sinful - rofl *applauds

@Charlene - I think I vaguely remember something about it.. *has a bad memory* but I'll say this - I have a friend who is quite.. tightly strung, as well - she has quite a bad family background and quite a lot of the time (especially when we have tests and stuff, 'cause she expects a lot of herself and when she doesn't do quite as well as she wants to..) she breaks down.. and I used to be all comforting and stuff but like you I got tired of it because it just happened so often.. it's hard, but the best you can do is not be overly enthusiastic about it 'cause then she'll take it for granted that you'll always be there and that's not good, but if she needs you then you should be there for her, if that makes any sense.. and I think if she does things you don't like (eg talking about people behind their back) then tell her you think it's wrong. Because you're supposed to be her 'best friend', it'll make her sit up and listen. Just tell her straight out what you think she's doing wrong.

Waa, such a long post xD

Oh, ok. I see your dilemma.. this sounds cruel (because people keep telling me this about my friend) but perhaps the best idea would be to take a break from her? And then she may realise how she acts and make some changes? Sometimes it takes something drastic to make someone see the truth..

Yeh. Don't ignore her completely, but be slightly cooler towards her despite whatever you may feel inside.. maybe then she'll realise that she's taking your friendship for granted which she shouldn't and then become less.. frustrating. Let her realise for herself that she has no friends because of her personality and then she'll change.