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 Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 10:00 pm
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Posted: Sun Feb 11, 2007 11:23 pm
ok i read a few pages back because i had posted my story in this thread before, but i guess i didn't.So here it goes.
I met my boyfriend online in a chatroom actually, and we started talking to eachother everyday on the phone (with my mother's permission of course we were both 16 at the time)Anyways, we had been talking with eachother for over a year now and i had just turned 18 and with our parent's permission i went to go see him.(he lives in Texas and i live in Indiana)I lost my virginity to him the first night i was there, and it was very very special we were both eachothers first. the only real complaint i have is we tried to do the doggy style position and he...missed and I almost got it all the way in the butt.
Since then sex with him is very enjoyable and we're both very honest with eachother and have been together for almost 5 years now and we're planning on married in July of 2008 and my family adores him and likewise his family loves me so yeah i am truly truly blessed.
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Posted: Sun Feb 18, 2007 12:00 pm
RubyDarkStar ok i read a few pages back because i had posted my story in this thread before, but i guess i didn't.So here it goes. I met my boyfriend online in a chatroom actually, and we started talking to eachother everyday on the phone (with my mother's permission of course we were both 16 at the time)Anyways, we had been talking with eachother for over a year now and i had just turned 18 and with our parent's permission i went to go see him.(he lives in Texas and i live in Indiana)I lost my virginity to him the first night i was there, and it was very very special we were both eachothers first. the only real complaint i have is we tried to do the doggy style position and he...missed and I almost got it all the way in the butt. Since then sex with him is very enjoyable and we're both very honest with eachother and have been together for almost 5 years now and we're planning on married in July of 2008 and my family adores him and likewise his family loves me so yeah i am truly truly blessed. Wow, you are truly blessed, that sounds like an amazing relationship. I also have an amazing relationship, and I lost my virginity to her last night actually 4laugh . It was the most romantic setting, I made her a candle light dinner in my room, and we were alone for the whole day, after we ate, we lied together and cuddle for a while, then we just ended up having sex redface . The only bad part that I'm alittle afraid of is we didnt have any protection, and I cummed inside of her......I think at least, I pulled out really fast before I cummed so she doesnt think i cummed in her, I'm getting her to take the morning after pill just in case, cause i don't want to take any chances.
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Posted: Thu Mar 01, 2007 7:57 am
my boyfriend and i were both virgins. an we had the talk. we both understood the consequences. and we both realized what we were getting into. i am glad we took that step in our relationship. and we both enjoyed it greatly, on our first time. and i am glad that nothing went wrong. because we arent ready for children. but if something would have gone wrong. we would have kept it. or would have given the babe to his aunt. who's been trying to concieve for the past 3 years. but still i'm glad i didnt wind up pregnate.
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Posted: Sun Mar 04, 2007 1:46 am
I have a weird, embarassing, and frustrating problem. When I go to masturbate, it takes me pretty much ten seconds to c**. And well, I don't want my first time to be ten seconds long. What should I do? sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 12:20 am
[Moral-Pot] I have a weird, embarassing, and frustrating problem. When I go to masturbate, it takes me pretty much ten seconds to c**. And well, I don't want my first time to be ten seconds long. What should I do? sweatdrop Sex might be different from masturbation or oral sex, so you may last longer than 10 seconds during sex. But there are things you can do to try and last longer. 3nodding When you're masturbating, when you feel yourself getting close, stop and trying to focus on something else. When the sensations or whatever die down a bit, then continue on. By bringing yourself close and then backing off, you're teaching yourself control and stamina.
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Posted: Mon Mar 05, 2007 5:46 pm
Nikolita [Moral-Pot] I have a weird, embarassing, and frustrating problem. When I go to masturbate, it takes me pretty much ten seconds to c**. And well, I don't want my first time to be ten seconds long. What should I do? sweatdrop Sex might be different from masturbation or oral sex, so you may last longer than 10 seconds during sex. But there are things you can do to try and last longer. 3nodding When you're masturbating, when you feel yourself getting close, stop and trying to focus on something else. When the sensations or whatever die down a bit, then continue on. By bringing yourself close and then backing off, you're teaching yourself control and stamina. Hmmm......I see. Thanks. 3nodding
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Posted: Thu Mar 22, 2007 1:57 pm
ok wait...you said if your giving some one maual satisfication and they're not doing it back that means they're saying your not good enough or w/e u were saying....but what if they ask you if they can finger you and yuo let them but you dont give them a hand job or anything...does that mean the same thing...or skankyness...like what you were saying..
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Posted: Fri Mar 23, 2007 11:38 am
aww Star ok wait...you said if your giving some one maual satisfication and they're not doing it back that means they're saying your not good enough or w/e u were saying....but what if they ask you if they can finger you and yuo let them but you dont give them a hand job or anything...does that mean the same thing...or skankyness...like what you were saying.. I don't understand what you're trying to say. No, I never said that if one partner doesn't return the manual stimulation, that they're "saying you're not good enough". neutral Sometimes one person doesn't like to give oral/manual stimulation to the other person, or they may not be in the mood, etc. If you don't want to finger your partner or go down on them, or anything like that, then don't. Don't do anything you're not comfortable with. Just talk to your partner and explain how you feel so there's no miscommunication or misunderstanding.
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Posted: Fri Apr 13, 2007 1:07 pm
what is the best positon for a girl on the first time?..like on top seems scary cause it seems like it would hurt more, and I wouldn't know what to do, but then on bottom I seem like I'm not in control at all
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:01 pm
I wish i could say my first time having sex was absolutly great, but it wasnt. Mainly because it was that time of month and she was all into that stuff, know there was nothing more worse for a 15 year old to have sex with his girlfriend for the first time while she was having her period. I have never seen that much blood coming out of that area, and it TOTALY put me off for months. I wouldent even go near her after that. It was horrible and i got blood stains all over me. Two months after that i broke up with her, it was't her first time but it was mine. And i feeled betrayed when she did that to me, i wanted to have a romantic time doing it. It wasn't until i met my present girlfriend that i experience proper normal sex and i have been going out with her for 2 years know. She is the joy of my life
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:21 pm
Theobane I wish i could say my first time having sex was absolutly great, but it wasnt. Mainly because it was that time of month and she was all into that stuff, know there was nothing more worse for a 15 year old to have sex with his girlfriend for the first time while she was having her period. I have never seen that much blood coming out of that area, and it TOTALY put me off for months. I wouldent even go near her after that. It was horrible and i got blood stains all over me. Two months after that i broke up with her, it was't her first time but it was mine. And i feeled betrayed when she did that to me, i wanted to have a romantic time doing it. It wasn't until i met my present girlfriend that i experience proper normal sex and i have been going out with her for 2 years know. She is the joy of my life You make it sound like your first girlfriend tricked you into having sex with her when she had her period. Unless it was dark and you had no idea, then I don't see how you could blame it on her. You could have easily waited had you wanted to. There's nothing wrong with having sex during a girl's period though if both people are comfortable with it.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:23 pm
hippylu what is the best positon for a girl on the first time?..like on top seems scary cause it seems like it would hurt more, and I wouldn't know what to do, but then on bottom I seem like I'm not in control at all There isn't necessarily a "best position." Different people like different positions. No positions should hurt, so it just depends on what you think you will prefer and feel the most comfortable with.
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 4:29 pm
LorienLlewellyn Theobane I wish i could say my first time having sex was absolutly great, but it wasnt. Mainly because it was that time of month and she was all into that stuff, know there was nothing more worse for a 15 year old to have sex with his girlfriend for the first time while she was having her period. I have never seen that much blood coming out of that area, and it TOTALY put me off for months. I wouldent even go near her after that. It was horrible and i got blood stains all over me. Two months after that i broke up with her, it was't her first time but it was mine. And i feeled betrayed when she did that to me, i wanted to have a romantic time doing it. It wasn't until i met my present girlfriend that i experience proper normal sex and i have been going out with her for 2 years know. She is the joy of my life You make it sound like your first girlfriend tricked you into having sex with her when she had her period. Unless it was dark and you had no idea, then I don't see how you could blame it on her. You could have easily waited had you wanted to. There's nothing wrong with having sex during a girl's period though if both people are comfortable with it. It was very dark when we did it, almost pitch black and back then i did't know much and i was very nerves. But put it this way, would you have sex during your period. I know i dont want to have sex during her period and i made it quite clear each time she mention it that i dont want to know about it. But i should have knowen the time of month back then when i was learning the ropes stare
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Posted: Wed Jun 06, 2007 6:02 pm
Theobane It was very dark when we did it, almost pitch black and back then i did't know much and i was very nerves. But put it this way, would you have sex during your period. I know i dont want to have sex during her period and i made it quite clear each time she mention it that i dont want to know about it. But i should have knowen the time of month back then when i was learning the ropes stare Ah, I see. Yes, I have sex during my period, but I always let my partner know about it beforehand so that we can put down a towel. I have only had one partner who was squeamish about having sex during my period, and honestly, I did not like it, but I respected it and never tried to trick him into anything. I don't like dating squeamish people. I figure if the man is grossed out by anything that comes out of my v****a (unless it is green discharge or some other sign of infection), then he's probably not ready for sex to begin with, but that's just me. I am a very natural person, so I like my partners to be natural too. That includes being open about and not grossed out by bodily fluids that can't be helped. Like I said, that's just me and what I like in a partner. Other people have different levels of squeamishness, and that should be respected. 3nodding
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