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 Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 1:58 pm
well, for me... I think it's been pretty obvious.
I started having feeling before i was in kindergarten, i didn't take anything seriously rolleyes so now i'm in my teen years at fifteen, and i left a note for my mom on the table, not too good an idea on my part... but at least it got the point across, my mom didn't take it too well, she cried for an hour or so, and my sister got angry and ran and "tattletaled" to my aunt and uncle. we don't talk about it anymore though. i told my friends i was bisexual when i was thirteen, but i just don't even think about girls anymore. so i'm progressively coming out to more people.
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 3:45 pm
Well, most of my firnds know I'm bi, and they're cool with it (basically 1/4 of the parents/faculty at my school are gay), and I tried to tell my dad (he acts like he's open about all religions, but he's really open to being a homophobic atheist, he HATES religion and gay people) and he just lol'd and said OMG you're you young to know if you are or not. You're just a kid!. You are going to make me lots of grandkids. YAY.
*facepalm* I wonder if he knows what I do on "sleepovers"...
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 4:47 pm
lipskisslipskisslipskisslips kisslips kisslips kisslipskisslipskisslipskisslipskisslipskisslipskiiss▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇ ❤ ▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇▇xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxEVERYONE ↘↘
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxWell, I haven't come out yet. Well, my closest friends only knew that I was bi.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI haven't told them yet that I've recently found out that I'm gay. x.x
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI haven't talked to them in months though >.> busy with school and stuff.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxAs for my parents and company: they've no clue. But my mom seems to
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxbe picking up on mine and Gabby's relationship (we're engaged). She
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxcurrently lives in Pennsylvania though. *sigh* But she'll be visiting this
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxsummer~ We've decided that we're not going to flat-out tell my parents.
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxEither my mom is going to feel the sexual tension between Gabby and me
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxor she's going to walk in on us in a cuddly-snugsnug moment, all curled up
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxin a loving moment that's over a year in the making. >.>
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxHowever, my parents will take our relationship well. ^ ^ But the moment just
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxdoesn't feel right without Gabby actually being here. In fact, my mom
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxtold me once just a few weeks ago that she had actually wished I was gay. XD
xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxI relayed the conversation to my dad and he said he wouldn't care. 8D
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Posted: Sun Dec 05, 2010 8:21 pm
oh gawd... lol i was 18 when i came out 19 when i had my first gay relationship
i came out on gaia that was easy your just pixel people not the real ones i deal with daily lol
well this year back in January once i got back to college i told the most level headed friend i have that i was bi took me like 20 mins to just spit it out. then i told my more naive friend which was even more awkward. then i texted another friend cause she wasnt on campus. at this time i realized most of my friends are girls.. to shy to tell my guy friends so i told facebook instead... i got lots of i always knew... that kinda pissed me off if you always knew why didnt you tell me so i didnt have to live in 5 years of denial and scared shitless. thanks so much... anyway... told my mom in a I.M. she was disapointed to say the least she told dad for me he took it much better than she did the rest of the family dealt with it surprisingly well... didnt lose any friends as far as i know haha
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 11:45 am
ive only come out to a couple of people. after knowing my best friend for almost 20 years ive only just told her im bi because of bad expieiecnes telling others. i knew she wouldnt end our friendship over something so small but ive had other friends who ditched me after they learned i like girls so it put an irrational fear into me.
even when i was dating a bisexual guy a few years ago i didnt even tell him. i did make sure to tell my fiance before we got engaged and he has seemed fine with it so far, it opened up an entire new point of conversations in our relationship because we find alot of the same women attractive, not that we are into threesomes but its nice to know that i can be open with my attractions to the man i love
my sister also knows but she is the only one in the family that ive told. im engaged to a man so i dont think anyone needs to know i like women anytime soon
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Posted: Tue Dec 07, 2010 5:54 pm
I never officially "came out." I kinda just figured it out on my own sometime in middle school. I didn't make a big announcement or anything, so some people would find out sooner than others.
My parents know but I don't talk about it. I don't talk to my parents about anything personal to begin with, so I never really bothered to talk about it with them.
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Posted: Fri Dec 10, 2010 9:33 pm
I came out to my current BF when we were just friends. I was with a small group of guy friends (I've always been closer with guys), and I said " I think I'm bisexual". My BFF (now BF) was really cool about it.
I was afraid to tell my boyfriend at the time, but they encouraged me to. When I did I got mixed feelings, he liked the idea of being with a bisexual girl. He would pressure me for threesomes....but when I showed any attraction to a girl he acted embarrassed of me.
My BF now (still my BFF), is totally supportive of me. He doesn't treat my bisexuality as something that needs to be kept secret. He also doesn't pressure me for threesomes.
I've told one of my older brothers, but not any of my other family. I don't live with them and don't seek their approval, but they are very close minded people who I'd rather not get into it with.
I mean, my mother called my BFF (also BF) an abomination to the world for being half Korean (to my face). I'd hate to hear what she say's when she finds out I'm half gay.
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Posted: Sun Dec 26, 2010 3:48 pm
Woah... After reading all these, I think I've got it quite easy so far.
My mum ask me if I was gay or bi over and over. One night I thought she said somthing to my sister about this, so I asked her and it got into a arguement and infront of my sister. Then she asked what I was, so I just came out. Thankfully my mum has always had gay friends and my sister has one too, so they were totally fine about it. Also they are really the only family I have, so the family part is finished.
As for friends, one of my close friends is Bi, and they have friends who are gay, bi and lesbian. I haven't actually came out to them yet, but they always ask and I just shrug it off. So they deffo suspect it, which may make it easier when coming out? I may just leave it untill I leave school.
Another thing, I was talking to my best friend over MSN and I told her that I collect dolls, she was totally fine about it and even gave me her old dolls. She pretty much knows what I am now 3nodding
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 3:38 pm
The first person I came out to was my best friend. I actually told him through phone while I was on a family vacation in Hawaii. I sometimes regret not telling him in person, but it was just a complicated time.
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Posted: Mon Dec 27, 2010 11:29 pm
Yeah...I'm still fully closeted sweatdrop . I do plan on telling my mother fairly soon, though. Once, when I was about 15 or so, I was having a conversation with her and my sister in the car, and she basically said out of nowhere that she knew homosexuality was biological and that she didn't have a problem with it (at the time, I was so deep in denial I couldn't bring myself to say the words, not even to myself). My sister is friends with several gay people, so I don't think she'll have a problem with it. With my dad...I honestly don't know what to expect. He's not the most open person in the world with his opinions. I might eventually tell a few close friends, but it isn't something I feel like shouting from the rooftops. I like to think that me being gay doesn't define me, but is just a small part of what I am, and I really feel it is a need to know type thing for now. I'll probably tell aunts/uncles/cousins, and maybe even some distant relatives, but I just can't bring myself to tell my grandparents, since I know at least one of them would be completely against it.
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Posted: Wed Mar 16, 2011 6:04 pm
Well I'll just post my own story even though the last post on this topic was from 3 months ago... cool
The first girl that I had crush on was when I was 10 or 11 yrs old (I'm 18 btw), and I was confused and scared {really, I was scared at that time.. I was a kid yo! so it's just natural} what was happening to me {'cause I was told something about it's bad to love some on with same sex and $h1t}... also it was my friends who notice that I was ALWAYS looking at this girl {I seriously didn't notice it until one of my friends told me} and besides I totally act like a boy back then {until now I act like a boy}... and so I told them I was getting confused and everything... and yea they told me "that's natural, It means that your a tomboy" that's what they said {in my home country "tomboy"="lesbian"}... so it was pretty much my friends who figured out that I'm a lesbian... that was the first time I "came out".... sweatdrop {I didn't really came out on my own though}
Second time was when I was talking to my sister about that girl all the time {yea, I was plain stupid at that time... I don't know how to hide my feelings back then}... she figured out that I am lesbian at that time... and she's actually cool with that, but she was bothered how annoying I am telling her stories about that single girl xp ... And I haven't told my parents and brother about it... but it seems like my mother knows already 'cause every time, EVERY single time my friend visits our house {or should I say my crush (this is a different girl from the first paragraph)} she always tease me... she always making fun of me about us two...
So yea that's just a piece of my life story of "coming out"... there's more... Though I will stop right here 'cause I guess no one will actually read this freaking looooong story... so yea, see ya around
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Posted: Wed Mar 16, 2011 6:29 pm
well i was in the mall with my mom and we were passing by a place where a guy i liked and was good friends with worked so i took her in to meet him because my mom is legendary to all my friends haha. When we left i came out to her with the exact words "Hey mom? I like him" she hugged me and we had this big heartfelt moment and it made me feel really good smile i will NEVER tell my father because he frequently tells me that he believes gay people should be dragged into the woods, tortured and then murdered sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Mar 16, 2011 7:20 pm
I've pretty much known since Kindergarten- I'd try to impress the girls and such but hang with the boys, so I didn't think much of it, prolly 'cos I thought that girls only liked guys and guys- well, you get the idea! So, innn...-thinks- 6th grade? Maybe I started thinking "hmm..maybe I be likin' me some ladies." so I was pretty much bi-curious. I came out to my best friend as bisexual in...late 7th or early 8th? One of those. So probably a month or so ago I was dating a guy and I was all : "s**t. I don't like him." so I kinda decided to break up with him like : "I really really really love you and all but I really really really like girls in THAT way." it was funny. I got mad at him 'cos he told 3 people, but now we're cool. I told one other friend. I think the rest might figure it out on their own...-cough- stereotypical hair cut... -cough-
Yeah!
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Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2011 8:30 am
ybody always worries over what people will think of them when they come out, i did. But when i finally got over that intial fear of what people would think of me i felt much better not having to hide what i am, it is so clique buut ITS DA TRUTH I SWURE
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Posted: Sun Mar 20, 2011 1:09 pm
I came out by accident.
I was arguing with my brother and he was being very manipulative, trying to get something out of me.until I said no one understands me. He asked why, and I screamed 'because i'm gay.'
My hands flew to my mouth and I told him to not tell anyone. He said fine, but you have to tell mom and dad.
In about a month ish, I did, and they were cool with it. :3
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