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 Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 2:41 pm
Nikolita Teh Gothic Oreo Oh.
Right.
Well, I was curious.
I like girls.
I'm seriously not interested in guys at all.
But I've only liked them for about a year.
Would it be smart to wait a little longer to be positive on my sexuality before talking about it with my family?
I don't want to upset them and then change my mind.
And, I've never really liked guys.
I just never liked girls either. I think that's really up to you. What do you think their reaction might be? Will they freak out? Because even if it turns out to be only a small "phase" in which you like only girls, they should still theoretically love you and support you, right? I personally think you might want to wait a little longer, and see if this is something more permanent, but that's just my opinion.
Yeah, I was thinking that.
Honestly, I think they'd hate it.
Because they're all super christians and complete homophobes. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Oct 10, 2005 7:06 pm
Well, not all Christians are homophobic, so just keep that in mind. 3nodding
*points to herself* I'm not, and I'm Anglican (branch of Christianity).
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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2005 6:53 am
I feel that all people have the right to experience everything there is available to them and if they are persecuted for the way they are than that is an improper restriction. Being bisexual myself I understand the trials of coming out into the open and trying to explain to others and convince them to see you just as you are and always have been before coming out, I believe that gay marriage is only fair to them and if the general public is honestly that narrow-minded than I feel badly for humanity as a whole.
<3 ryoko
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Posted: Wed Oct 12, 2005 6:55 pm
[ Message temporarily off-line ]
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 11:18 am
There is so much ranting I have done, and could do again and again on the stupidity of those selfishly shallow-minded enough to work to deny those who love someone the right to spend their lives with them, regardless of race or gender. I enjoyed your essay, and the comments you posted from the 'other side's' debate, were pathetic.
Oreo: You be yourself, no matter what the response from others. Tell them when you feel it to be prudent, or if it comes up act natural about it, leave it as fact and leave no room for speculation. Of course, do so when you yourself are certain, for being so will be the strongest bit of support you need if others question it. Keep in mind, if others try to insult you for being yourself, they are merely afraid of you because they cannot comprehend being so accepting of yourself as to tell the truth about who you are regardless of people's responses. That's my theory anyways.
I may not be homosexual, but I support freedom of choice. YOUR body, YOUR mind, YOUR life. Live it.
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 3:10 pm
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:03 pm
Would I be considered bi when I simply think of girls? I mean I don't exacly want to do anything with them. I just think about it. Is that something that could 'label' me as bi? Just curious.
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Posted: Fri Oct 14, 2005 8:35 pm
Are you sexual attracted to girls, would you enjoy being sexual with a girl, and do you think you could fall in love with a girl.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 8:53 am
The Eighth House Are you sexual attracted to girls, would you enjoy being sexual with a girl, and do you think you could fall in love with a girl. I think I can fall in love with one. But I don't want any kind of sexuelle anything with them.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 9:36 am
Terrifyingly twisted... The Eighth House Are you sexual attracted to girls, would you enjoy being sexual with a girl, and do you think you could fall in love with a girl. I think I can fall in love with one. But I don't want any kind of sexuelle anything with them.
It's probably best not to worry about it too much. Whatver happens between you and a girl happens, and then maybe you'll find your answer.
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Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 4:35 pm
The Eighth House Terrifyingly twisted... The Eighth House Are you sexual attracted to girls, would you enjoy being sexual with a girl, and do you think you could fall in love with a girl. I think I can fall in love with one. But I don't want any kind of sexuelle anything with them.
It's probably best not to worry about it too much. Whatver happens between you and a girl happens, and then maybe you'll find your answer.Meh. Only time can tell than. Score ^_^.
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 11:27 am
I think one of my female friends is lesbian and is trying to see if I am, too. Is there any way I can really identify if this is the case? And if it is, how do I let her know I'm not a lesbian? stressed
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Posted: Sun Oct 16, 2005 6:30 pm
I know I already posted this to you in a PM, but here it is again anyways: Quote: This is all I can think of at the moment, but if you're pretty sure that she's trying to hit on you or trying to come on to you, politely tell her that you're interested in her only as a friend, or that you only like her as a friend, etc. Then she will know your feeligns on the matter, and can either drop it or move on. Sorry that's not much help. sweatdrop
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 5:37 pm
Now i'm a 13 year old straight boy, and dont have many homosexuals that I personally know of. But I honestly dont have anything agenst them.((not to refer homosexuals to Them but you get the point)) My opinion on homosexual marrage is this: I think that, those who are agenst it only feel that way because if the government allow a man marry a man ((or vice verca with women)) than they go right to "Well if we let them get married, than what next? People marrying animals?" And I dont understand that. I mean can you imagine:
"Mom...Dad...This is billy...Were in love!" *points to a goat*
Your sitting there reading the newspaper, and he's trying to eat it.
I just cant imagion that.
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Posted: Tue Oct 18, 2005 8:19 pm
... It's amazing how many people I know who really don't get what it's like to be gay or bi. I thought my friends understood it because we are all big gay rights advocates, but when I told some people that I was bi they were offended that I didn't tell them sooner. I really don't understand why it isn't clear that coming out is hard! I mean I have friends who were freaked out and then thought it was rude to let them know they're not my type. I wish more people understood what it was like...
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