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Soo...I just spent my morning reading this entire thread. It's really informative. eek

Anywho. Question time. (Even though most of mine were already answered xD )
It's about swallowing: I gave a boy a BJ for the first time yesterday. It was an,..interesting experience. Anyway. He came in my mouth, and my first impulse was "Theres gross stuff in my mouth. Get rid of itttt!!!" But there was nothing to do with it!! heh. So I just swallowed. Anyways. I read something a few posts back about having him c** in your hand? While that does eliminate the gawd-awful taste issue, it sounds really really icky. I hadn't planned on doing anything with this boy, and it just kind of happened, so I didn't even think about the "What am I supposed to do with it" issue. I mean, am I supposed to carry a flipping hanky in my purse? Or just say "hey look! random cloth object" and wipe it off if I let him c** in my hand? Swallowing just seemed like the cleanest solution at the time. o_o;
And also.
Does anyone know from experience or whatnot, if guys find it more..I dunno,..attractive i guess, for a girl to spit or swallow.
And back to the "What do I do with this stuff" issue. Spitting. While it sounds reasonable enough. Theres not a whole lot of potential spit-spots from one's bed. >< So the solution is/wouldbe/couldbe...?????

Not yet.
As you said, if you're not comfortable then don't do it.



I pretty much was in the same situation. He would perform oral on me but I wouldnt on him. He wouldn't tease me for it or anything, in fact he was quite understanding about not wanting to push me into doing something I wasn't comfortable with.
Like you said, the whole concept of having his d**k in my mouth was just a little icky and I wasn't too sure about it at all.

One day, for no particular reason whatsoever, I suddenly decided that I was gonna go down on him. It really wasn't that bad. Aside from the hair (and the size but that's neither here nor there) it's no different from, I dunno...licking his finger I guess.
And as for coming in my mouth, I didn't really taste it but every guy and gal is different. Guys dont taste the same and girls don't taste it in the same way. However, you don't have to swallow or even take it in the mouth, you can take it in the hand or have something to spit into.


Definitely talk this over with him, if nothing else you can persuade him to shut the hell up with the teasing becuase it's not fair when you're not comfortable with it, even if he does only mean it in a light-hearted way.

One of my close friends has braces and he's never had a problem with giving it with them on before. You just have to be careful.

ummm my girlfriend wanted me to ask this. But she wanted to know what would be the best technique.for giving a b*****b and I would to know the same thing but with women. we are both virgins and we are starting to....experiment. sweatdrop sweatdrop

thank you the first post was really helpful I showed it to her and she still wants to go through with it so yayy

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