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 Posted: Sat Dec 18, 2004 8:41 pm
Here's my situation:
My parents are anti-gay and dont know im bisexual. I'm the type of person who is close to my parents and hate keeping secrets from them. I have a g/f (check sig). They have threatened to disown me and/or send me to a shrink if I go gay. Even if they dont, I still will never be able to see Lexy out of school.
So my question is this: Do I tell my parents? If so, then how? Do I keep it a secret? To what extent?
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Posted: Wed Dec 22, 2004 12:42 pm
hey i have been having trouble getting thru to htis girl i like. she is bi but i dont know if she is interested. she is single and just got outta a very long very loving relationship with her ex-boyfriend. i want to aproach her but im scared to say anything. i know she doesnt need a relationship but i could be a great partner. all i want to do is be around her. can u help.
thanks,
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Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 9:27 am
frost_angel hey i have been having trouble getting thru to htis girl i like. she is bi but i dont know if she is interested. she is single and just got outta a very long very loving relationship with her ex-boyfriend. i want to aproach her but im scared to say anything. i know she doesnt need a relationship but i could be a great partner. all i want to do is be around her. can u help. thanks, yah I might not be the advise giver person, but maybe you can like write her a note, and tell her what you feel?, I mean I'm thinking sooner or later she'll find out you have a thing for her, and see how she reacts? (sorry, if you didn't want to hear this from me sweatdrop )
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Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 10:15 am
Writting letter works some times. I for one find it easyer to say something in a letter. Though Frost if you do write a letter make sure that its hand written and not typed, its more personal this way 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jan 08, 2005 7:25 pm
RevanStar Writting letter works some times. I for one find it easyer to say something in a letter. Though Frost if you do write a letter make sure that its hand written and not typed, its more personal this way 3nodding I agreee with RevanStar. but one problem is that you could erase stuf without wanting to but doing it anyways. I always try writing notes but never give to the peeps. its best if i keep my intrests and orientations to myself and away from those around me.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2005 3:09 am
suichi56 RevanStar Writting letter works some times. I for one find it easyer to say something in a letter. Though Frost if you do write a letter make sure that its hand written and not typed, its more personal this way 3nodding I agreee with RevanStar. but one problem is that you could erase stuf without wanting to but doing it anyways. I always try writing notes but never give to the peeps. its best if i keep my intrests and orientations to myself and away from those around me. yeah well..I actully sent mine to ther person redface
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2005 11:15 pm
I feel like such a idiot. My father and I have been having alot of fights lately. And tonight it got out of hand. I just snapped. After crying for a while I went to wash my face. And thats when I saw a razor. I'm not one who is suicidel or anything, hell in fact I took prided in the fact I didnt have a scar on my body that was put there by my own hand. But when I saw that razor I dont know...I just thought 'pretty razor..wonder if my blood is prettyer.' I cut my self. Not deep and it didnt bleed much..but afterwards..I just wanted to disapear. I forgot about everything till I saw the blood. Then I just started to cry. Not because cutting my self hurt but there was just..this emptyness and cold feeling I couldnt shake.
Dear heavens..somebody help me..
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2005 9:28 am
Yasashii Naito I feel like such a idiot. My father and I have been having alot of fights lately. And tonight it got out of hand. I just snapped. After crying for a while I went to wash my face. And thats when I saw a razor. I'm not one who is suicidel or anything, hell in fact I took prided in the fact I didnt have a scar on my body that was put there by my own hand. But when I saw that razor I dont know...I just thought 'pretty razor..wonder if my blood is prettyer.' I cut my self. Not deep and it didnt bleed much..but afterwards..I just wanted to disapear. I forgot about everything till I saw the blood. Then I just started to cry. Not because cutting my self hurt but there was just..this emptyness and cold feeling I couldnt shake. Dear heavens..somebody help me..
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 8:38 pm
Anyone here i need real help real fast.
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Posted: Thu Jan 13, 2005 9:17 pm
BloodyRoseGothic Anyone here i need real help real fast. if ya need help you maypm me or go to the bar k 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Jan 25, 2005 8:28 pm
okay....well my life sucks..... *arches a brow* but now that I"ve worked things out I can get back to helping people.
Hey, cosidering s**t happens in your life did you expect mine to be roses? I'm as human as you are....and one with a really sensitive nose to boot. 3nodding
For those of you who still need help.... please just repost and I will have a response within two days max. Normally it's within a 12 hrs though.
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Posted: Thu Feb 10, 2005 2:11 pm
hi,
I've got this problem where, well.... I've never told anyone about the fact I'm Bi. Not my parents, friends, no one! I know that if I tell my friends they will either steer clear of me and/or spread it around school, and well if I told my family (how would you tell them), they might react differently to me (my dad cracks jokes about gay/lesbians/Bi.s) or my sister and i know this for a fact would make fun of me. my mom is the only one who I know will accept me and not treat my any differently, but If I told her she would pass it on to my dad (that funny one parent knows so the other has to knows bond).I can't let people get to know how I really feel because , I know that they won't accept me for who I am. So I make up everything from how I feel about certain conversation,s to what I like to wear, to wo I like. I know it's not good for me to keep my feeling bottled up but, well, I'm close to giving up on actually letting the actually get to know the real me.
it feels alot better to tell someone even if they don't know who I really am.
Apollo's Edit: Reply posted, awaiting outcome.
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Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2005 12:42 pm
Yasashii Naito I feel like such a idiot. My father and I have been having alot of fights lately. And tonight it got out of hand. I just snapped. After crying for a while I went to wash my face. And thats when I saw a razor. I'm not one who is suicidel or anything, hell in fact I took prided in the fact I didnt have a scar on my body that was put there by my own hand. But when I saw that razor I dont know...I just thought 'pretty razor..wonder if my blood is prettyer.' I cut my self. Not deep and it didnt bleed much..but afterwards..I just wanted to disapear. I forgot about everything till I saw the blood. Then I just started to cry. Not because cutting my self hurt but there was just..this emptyness and cold feeling I couldnt shake. Dear heavens..somebody help me..
We all love you anyways whee
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Posted: Sat Feb 12, 2005 8:21 pm
Raine_Storms Yasashii Naito I feel like such a idiot. My father and I have been having alot of fights lately. And tonight it got out of hand. I just snapped. After crying for a while I went to wash my face. And thats when I saw a razor. I'm not one who is suicidel or anything, hell in fact I took prided in the fact I didnt have a scar on my body that was put there by my own hand. But when I saw that razor I dont know...I just thought 'pretty razor..wonder if my blood is prettyer.' I cut my self. Not deep and it didnt bleed much..but afterwards..I just wanted to disapear. I forgot about everything till I saw the blood. Then I just started to cry. Not because cutting my self hurt but there was just..this emptyness and cold feeling I couldnt shake. Dear heavens..somebody help me..
We all love you anyways whee I know what your going through, i hate my life and constanly fight with my mum about a year ago I thought about killing myself for a while it seemed like the only thing that would make the pain stop. Emotional pain is the worst pain anyone can ever feel. It rips me apart everyday but i'm strong and i'm not going to waste my life because someone else makes me feel like s**t! For a while i was depressed until one night on the phone to a friend I broke down. I cryed and spilled my guts for about 2 hours. After I told someone I felt like my soul was free. My friend now helps when ever things get rough. You just need to free yourself tell someone who you can really trust or if you can't write it down in a journal it helps trust me.
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Posted: Sun Feb 13, 2005 4:22 pm
I pretty much just copied this from the topic I started cause I was told to post it here... "Ok... I am soooooo tired of being in male-female relationships. So far every girl I have dated has hurt me.... EVERY SINGAL ONE!!! So fuggit... I'm sticking to men and thats it... I can't take the aggervation anymore. I mean when guys love you... they usually mean it... and when they don't , they wont tell you they do just to humor you. My gf and I JUST broke up and she was saying that she didn't love me... That she really loved somone else and that all this was just not meant to last. >>sighs and cries<< I hate my life... I'm too trusting. I mean I'm a romantic, I enjoy walks on the beach at sunset, I write poetry with I think is pretty decent, I cook, clean, play the violin and the electric guitar, I talk, I listen, and I'm nice.... WHY DO PEOPLE HURT ME!!! >>goes and sits in a corner alone with his razors<< "
P.S. I would very much apprieciate any advice or even thoughts you may have. But if possible, could you contact me through AIM or MSN...
Apollo's Edit: Resolved for now.
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