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 Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:23 pm
Cabron the Swan So what is a d**k chariot pulled by? The one from the picture isn't pulled by anything, but I think mine should be pulled by a thousand doves that are trained to run on foot.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:23 pm
Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:39 pm
bleu_flame Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship. Back to my point on real love. You put conditions on it, you compromise it. How can you throw away something you never even had in the first place?
From my experience it's the guilt and jealousy surrounding cheating that destroys relationships, not the actual act of cheating. Really, if sticking your d**k in another p***y is all it takes to negate a relationship, it's a contract, not love.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:48 pm
Cabron the Swan bleu_flame Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship. Back to my point on real love. You put conditions on it, you compromise it. How can you throw away something you never even had in the first place?
From my experience it's the guilt and jealousy surrounding cheating that destroys relationships, not the actual act of cheating. Really, if sticking your d**k in another p***y is all it takes to negate a relationship, it's a contract, not love. xDD This.... I think you're right, but when people get in relationships they tend to follow the archetypal rules and nuances that go along with "Love" and everything it involves; most relevantly, the idea that when you commit to someone, you give your whole self over to them. Mind, Body, Soul, everything. Almost literally giving yourself over to one another. (Merry Christmas?) When you cheat on the one you "love" it's like saying, "I didn't want to give all of me to you", "I don't want you to be the only one that has me", or "I want someone else to own me now", etc. The point is, you shouldn't Want to cheat on someone, because you gave/committed yourself to them. If you're giving yourself away to other people, than clearly the bond wasn't as strong as "love" is supposed to be. In which case, you're sort of right...Real love should be past cheating, but in the same way, Real Love should be Past cheating.....if you know what I mean.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:49 pm
Cabron the Swan bleu_flame Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship. Back to my point on real love. You put conditions on it, you compromise it. How can you throw away something you never even had in the first place?
From my experience it's the guilt and jealousy surrounding cheating that destroys relationships, not the actual act of cheating. Really, if sticking your d**k in another p***y is all it takes to negate a relationship, it's a contract, not love. It depends on how much you really love someone. Love is forgiving someone for cheating on you... In fact, while I was dating my ex, she gave nude photos to her ex in exchange for Gaia gold... I felt extremely hurt, but I forgave her because I still loved her. So if you love someone, you wouldn't let cheating get in your way of being with someone, but that's not to say it doesn't hurt the other person because they don't feel like they're loved.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 5:58 pm
Medeus Cabron the Swan bleu_flame Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship. Back to my point on real love. You put conditions on it, you compromise it. How can you throw away something you never even had in the first place?
From my experience it's the guilt and jealousy surrounding cheating that destroys relationships, not the actual act of cheating. Really, if sticking your d**k in another p***y is all it takes to negate a relationship, it's a contract, not love. xDD This.... I think you're right, but when people get in relationships they tend to follow the archetypal rules and nuances that go along with "Love" and everything it involves; most relevantly, the idea that when you commit to someone, you give your whole self over to them. Mind, Body, Soul, everything. Almost literally giving yourself over to one another. (Merry Christmas?) When you cheat on the one you "love" it's like saying, "I didn't want to give all of me to you", "I don't want you to be the only one that has me", or "I want someone else to own me now", etc. The point is, you shouldn't Want to cheat on someone, because you gave/committed yourself to them. If you're giving yourself away to other people, than clearly the bond wasn't as strong as "love" is supposed to be. In which case, you're sort of right...Real love should be past cheating, but in the same way, Real Love should be Past cheating.....if you know what I mean. Real love to me means "I don't have to give myself to you to enjoy myself with you, nor you me." I don't believe in ownership or in being someone's "other half" or anything like that. I think it's silly.
The strongest love you can have is knowing that sex isn't reflective of love, and that they're coming back to you at the end of the day, and being fine with what they do when they're not with you. The strongest love is wanting nothing but their happiness, and refusing to let your own insecurities get in the way of that. The strongest love is the love that's shared, not hoarded. Love is giving and selfless.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:03 pm
Cabron the Swan Medeus Cabron the Swan bleu_flame Cabron the Swan Why is cheating such a big deal? I don't understand monogamous couples. Because you gave someone your heart and having them toss it aside for someone else is selfish and shows that other person that they aren't worth anything more than the next guy. Maybe it's selfish to want someone to not cheat on you. To keep them to yourself. But it's the person who's cheating that has the choice. In my opinion, it degrades what we know as a real relationship. Back to my point on real love. You put conditions on it, you compromise it. How can you throw away something you never even had in the first place?
From my experience it's the guilt and jealousy surrounding cheating that destroys relationships, not the actual act of cheating. Really, if sticking your d**k in another p***y is all it takes to negate a relationship, it's a contract, not love. xDD This.... I think you're right, but when people get in relationships they tend to follow the archetypal rules and nuances that go along with "Love" and everything it involves; most relevantly, the idea that when you commit to someone, you give your whole self over to them. Mind, Body, Soul, everything. Almost literally giving yourself over to one another. (Merry Christmas?) When you cheat on the one you "love" it's like saying, "I didn't want to give all of me to you", "I don't want you to be the only one that has me", or "I want someone else to own me now", etc. The point is, you shouldn't Want to cheat on someone, because you gave/committed yourself to them. If you're giving yourself away to other people, than clearly the bond wasn't as strong as "love" is supposed to be. In which case, you're sort of right...Real love should be past cheating, but in the same way, Real Love should be Past cheating.....if you know what I mean. Real love to me means "I don't have to give myself to you to enjoy myself with you, nor you me." I don't believe in ownership or in being someone's "other half" or anything like that. I think it's silly.
The strongest love you can have is knowing that sex isn't reflective of love, and that they're coming back to you at the end of the day, and being fine with what they do when they're not with you. The strongest love is wanting nothing but their happiness, and refusing to let your own insecurities get in the way of that. The strongest love is the love that's shared, not hoarded. Love is giving and selfless. lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right?
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:04 pm
Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? This. So much, this. You deserve a hug, my friend. xD -hug-
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:08 pm
bleu_flame Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? This. So much, this. You deserve a hug, my friend. xD -hug- lol My parents taught me well. ;P
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:22 pm
Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? Actually, sex used to be completely separate from love - women would go to temples and wait to be taken by the first man to invite her to partake in a sex-magic ritual as part of a holy journey. And when she came home, her community praised her for sharing her divinity.
There are still African tribes in the world today in which the men offer their wives to guests as a show of hospitality. It's actually considered rude there to decline another man's wife if she offers herself to you.
Just because you were taught to connect sex and love doesn't mean they're actually connected. It just means that it's the social norm in this civilization. That doesn't make it right, nor does it make it wrong. All it makes it is common.
Sex is a pleasurable activity and a starting point for procreation, it has nothing whatsoever to do with romantic connections. I just don't see why people let something so clearly condescended by this society like sex affect something so clearly put-on-a-pedestal by this society like love. That mentality treats love as cheap, not sex - if sex is a determinant of love, how strong is that love, really?
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:32 pm
Cabron the Swan Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? Actually, sex used to be completely separate from love - women would go to temples and wait to be taken by the first man to invite her to partake in a sex-magic ritual as part of a holy journey. And when she came home, her community praised her for sharing her divinity.
There are still African tribes in the world today in which the men offer their wives to guests as a show of hospitality. It's actually considered rude there to decline another man's wife if she offers herself to you.
Just because you were taught to connect sex and love doesn't mean they're actually connected. It just means that it's the social norm in this civilization. That doesn't make it right, nor does it make it wrong. All it makes it is common.
Sex is a pleasurable activity and a starting point for procreation, it has nothing whatsoever to do with romantic connections. I just don't see why people let something so clearly condescended by this society like sex affect something so clearly put-on-a-pedestal by this society like love. Depends on who you ask, but Eh, To each his own. razz haha! P.s. Remember that America was raised by Puritans. wink
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:33 pm
Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? Actually, sex used to be completely separate from love - women would go to temples and wait to be taken by the first man to invite her to partake in a sex-magic ritual as part of a holy journey. And when she came home, her community praised her for sharing her divinity.
There are still African tribes in the world today in which the men offer their wives to guests as a show of hospitality. It's actually considered rude there to decline another man's wife if she offers herself to you.
Just because you were taught to connect sex and love doesn't mean they're actually connected. It just means that it's the social norm in this civilization. That doesn't make it right, nor does it make it wrong. All it makes it is common.
Sex is a pleasurable activity and a starting point for procreation, it has nothing whatsoever to do with romantic connections. I just don't see why people let something so clearly condescended by this society like sex affect something so clearly put-on-a-pedestal by this society like love. Depends on who you ask, but Eh, To each his own. razz haha! P.s. Remember that America was raised by Puritans. wink America was created by rebels who hated the tyranny of the imperial superpower. It wouldn't be the first time they've gone the other way on their values.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:34 pm
Cabron the Swan Medeus Cabron the Swan Medeus lol It's not really about limits,or putting conditions on Love. haha The way I learned about love, if you really come across it, than you have no desire to be with someone other than the person you love anyway. Sex is meant to be a deeply spiritual thing, and once upon a time it Was meant to be reflective of the love that one has for another, and I don't think times have changed so much since that was considered respectable, eh? But if sex is cheap, and your body doesn't mean anything to anybody, than sure, go ahead and cheat on your loved one, and nobody will care, right? Actually, sex used to be completely separate from love - women would go to temples and wait to be taken by the first man to invite her to partake in a sex-magic ritual as part of a holy journey. And when she came home, her community praised her for sharing her divinity.
There are still African tribes in the world today in which the men offer their wives to guests as a show of hospitality. It's actually considered rude there to decline another man's wife if she offers herself to you.
Just because you were taught to connect sex and love doesn't mean they're actually connected. It just means that it's the social norm in this civilization. That doesn't make it right, nor does it make it wrong. All it makes it is common.
Sex is a pleasurable activity and a starting point for procreation, it has nothing whatsoever to do with romantic connections. I just don't see why people let something so clearly condescended by this society like sex affect something so clearly put-on-a-pedestal by this society like love. Depends on who you ask, but Eh, To each his own. razz haha! P.s. Remember that America was raised by Puritans. wink America was created by rebels who hated the tyranny of the imperial superpower. It wouldn't be the first time they've gone the other way on their values. xD Many of which were Puritans...But yeah, I'm with ya there.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:37 pm
38 more years....
I hate how this number never seems to go down. Maybe I should start counting in days or weeks.
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Posted: Tue Nov 23, 2010 6:38 pm
Elk drawing, or Karaoke?.....Hmmmmmm...........
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