A Chain of PMs
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Why Fluffy Irish-Scottish-Native American G~ Wiccans Are A Good Argument for Birth Control
Me: Why are you using a racial slur in your profile?
Her: what? I have no idea what you are talking about.
Me: Kaski san?
Her: what???
Me: So, you're not actually Rroma. Got it. Also, I'm going to be reporting your profile for the use of the ethnic Slur.
Her: I am roma gypsy.
I can fix that I didnt mean to e using any slur honestly.
Me: You're lying. Being Rroma is to take part in a culture. You might have Rroma ancestry (something I personally doubt).
But the fact of the matter is that you aren't Rroma. Rroma are a living culture. Participation, not genetics, makes you Rroma. The fact that you didn't know how to respond to the most basic Rroma greeting, the fact that you are completely ignorant of the nature of the G~ word and why it's offensive shows that you aren't Rroma, but a poser.
I think you intended to be "Special" and being an American of British decent wasn't good enough for you so you decided to lie and claim to be things you aren't, including Irish and Rroma.
Her: I AM GETTING SICK OF YOU MESSAGING ME! GO AWAY! I DONT WANT TO TALK TO YOU!
GO AWAY!
Me: I'm not acting in a way which is against the forum rules.
You used a racial slur. You violated the Terms of Service. You did it because you need to feel special and you don't know how to go about it without relying on racist stereotypes.
And you're getting called out on it.
If you weren't a racist, ignorant teen, you would have apologized. You would have made amends. Instead you're complaining because someone caught you in your lie.
You are now aware that it's a slur. It's still in your profile. You are now aware that you are posting hateful and false information in violation of the Terms of Service.
You are now aware that you have demonstrated yourself to be an Oathbreaker, a liar, and yet, you have one last chance.
Stop clinging to your racism. Start learning. Start trying to understand why it is a group of people who have been habitually persecuted don't want you resorting to racist stereotypes in order for you to establish personal autonomy.
Grow up. Do the right thing and work from there.
Her:
FIRST OFF I AM NOT A LIAR! WHO ARE YOU TO JUDGE ME?
I AM NOT RASCIT...AND I AM NOT VIOLATING TERMS OF SEVICE IF YOU LOOK AT OTHER PEOPLE HERE THEY HAVE "gypsy" IN THERE SCREEN NAMES AND EVEN OTHER THINGS ON HERE.
AND I NASKED YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE WHY WONT YOU AND SECOND OF ALL I DID CHANGE IT ON MY PROFILE.
NOW LEAVE ME ALONE AND DONT WRITE BACK CUZ I REALLY DONT CARE WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY.Now I'm shifting to quotes- the posts get longer and more convoluted.
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FIRST OFF I AM NOT A LIAR!
Yes you are. See, the Rroma are a living ethnicity. Being Rroma isn't about having a great grandma who was Rroma. It's about taking part in the culture. Something that you obviously don't do. You didn't even understand the most basic greeting issued to someone claiming to be Rroma.
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I'm Domari. I'm a member of a community that doesn't stand silently and allow the racism of people like you to degrade us.
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Actually, you are. You're relying on privilege and your sense of entitlement to justify your abuse of an ethnic minority's culture in order to make yourself feel special.
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AND I AM NOT VIOLATING TERMS OF SEVICE
You are actually. Presenting false information and using racial slurs is against the Terms of Service.
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IF YOU LOOK AT OTHER PEOPLE HERE THEY HAVE "gypsy" IN THERE SCREEN NAMES AND EVEN OTHER THINGS ON HERE.
That doesn't make it right.
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AND I NASKED YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE WHY WONT YOU AND SECOND OF ALL I DID CHANGE IT ON MY PROFILE.
Except you didn't. You left it in your book selections etc.
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NOW LEAVE ME ALONE AND DONT WRITE BACK CUZ I REALLY DONT CARE WHAT YOU HAVE TO SAY
Spoken like a racist with a sense of entitlement who doesn't want to deal with someone who is actually showing how wrong they are.
The essence of a fluffy bunny is willful ignorance. And this attitude towards your racism is just that.
Her: WHY YOU ON MY PROFILE TO BEGIN WITH?
Me: Because in your attempt to impress people with how smart you are, you made a statement that could have gotten someone with ragweed allergies killed.
You endangered other people's lives because you didn't think about the things you were posting.
I glance at profiles when I see someone who is acting as a threat to others. I noticed your use of racist terms, and your apparent racism towards the Irish, the Native Americans and most annoyingly, the use of the ethnic slur against my people and I contacted you to correct you.
(A half truth. Between this and Celeblin, I was looking into the profile)
Her: IF IM SO "rascist" THEN WHY ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS FOUND THIS ALL OFFENCIVE?
IVE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE AND I WISH YOU WOULD.I DONT HAVE THE TIME OR PATICENTS FOR YOU!
HOW AM I BEING RASCIST TOWARDS IRISH AND NATIVE AMERICANS???
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IF IM SO "rascist" THEN WHY ARE YOU THE ONLY ONE WHO HAS FOUND THIS ALL OFFENCIVE?
I'm not. I'm simply the one who has called you on it.
If you would like, I could contact other people who are offended and have them drop you a line explaining why your racism is offensive.
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IVE ASKED YOU TO LEAVE ME ALONE AND I WISH YOU WOULD.I DONT HAVE THE TIME OR PATICENTS FOR YOU!
The word is patience.
And perhaps you should make the time.
If you don't want to be a racist, rather than clinging to your racism while denying it, you could be learning and actually changing your behavior so you avoid racist actions.
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HOW AM I BEING RASCIST TOWARDS IRISH AND NATIVE AMERICANS???
Same way you are towards the Rroma.
These are not some Fairytale classes you can be part of by rolling enough dice on your character creation sheet.
These are living, breathing, complex ethnicities.
Can you vote for elected officials in Ireland? Are you a card carrying member of any of the tribes of the US or the First Nations? Do you participate in the culture?
Do you speak the languages? Do you keep the laws and customs and traditions?
No. Because you weren't raised with them. You were likely raised Christian in an assimilated Anglo-Protestant community in the US.
Which is fine. That's a culture too.
Rather than actually knowing what it's like to be any of these ethnic groups, you've reduced them to stereotypes. The Noble Savage or the Elusive and Regal Celts.
There are Native American tribes who have a current Declaration of War against people like you. I can provide a link for you if you like. The Irish are likely to curse you for your mistreatment of their culture. I know of one who is more than willing to do so.
Would you like me to have him drop you a line so you can learn about what you did wrong and maybe avoid the situation? Or would you rather I just tell him and show him?
As for the Rroma, well, I'm more than happy to simply report you. I'll leave your transgressions to God to sort out.
Her: I would like to know how I insulted the Irish,how did I mistreat the culture.
I AM A PROUD WICCAN OK DONT THROW YOUR RELIGION IN MY FACE I PROUDLY BELIEVE IN MY GOD AND GODDESS OK!
LEAVE ME ALONE!
WHY ARE YOU PICKING ON ME? WHY!
YOUR CREEPING ME OU!
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I would like to know how I insulted the Irish,how did I mistreat the culture.
You insulted them by claiming to be part of them and suggesting that your sense of "I want it! Therefore it's mine!" is a direct offense to the years of oppression.
Really? What's your tradition? What is your lineage? Why do you worship a god who whips his goddess to make her love him?
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DONT THROW YOUR RELIGION IN MY FACE
I didn't. I merely explained that I'm not going to lift a finger metaphysically speaking to bring you what you deserve for your racism and insults.
If you had apologized, if you had tried to change, it would have helped. But so far, you're building lie upon lie. It's against the Terms of Service and I don't have to allow it to continue.
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I PROUDLY BELIEVE IN MY GOD AND GODDESS OK!
And what are the names of the Lord and Lady of the Isles?
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WHY ARE YOU PICKING ON ME? WHY!
Because apparently you can't tell the difference between correction and victimization. Also- you're a racist and a fluffy and I don't allow those things to go unheeded.
If education creeps you out, I shudder to think of what the future holds for you.
Her:
I WASNT RAISED IN A CHRISTIAN HOME I WAS RAISED IN AN AITHIEST AND OPEN FAITH HOME!
DONT JUDGE ME!Me: Can you use spell check please?
Also- it was a statistical probability. And what faith did your other parent hold?
Her: WHAT? HOW?
MY GOD AND GODDESS
CERNUNNOS AND BRIGIT. THANKYOU VERY MUCH.
WILL YOU PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE!
my mom reaserched all sorts of religions she never actually had one she keeps going back to wicca.
my father never knew him...step father was raised christian and doesnt talk about it he was pushed into it and therefore doesnt want anything to do with it,he believes jsut doesnt want to be like his family.
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In the Cycles, the gods made oaths with their people. These oaths bind those who participate in the culture (speak the language, understand the music, practice the rites etc).
By claiming entitlement to being part of the Gael without meeting the standards set forth, you have infringed upon this oath.
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CERNUNNOS AND BRIGIT. THANKYOU VERY MUCH.
Those aren't the gods of Wica.
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WILL YOU PLEASE LEAVE ME ALONE!
Will you please stop being a racist and an oathbreaker?
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my mom reaserched all sorts of religions she never actually had one she keeps going back to wicca.
my father never knew him...step father was raised christian and doesnt talk about it he was pushed into it and therefore doesnt want anything to do with it,he believes jsut doesnt want to be like his family.
Which tradition and lineage does your mother belong to?
It seems like she isn't Wiccan, but instead an eclectic neopagan.
Her: GO AWAY IM NOT GONNA ASK YOU AGAIN.
I dont know i dont even know if she knows. we are an open faith family and choose our own paths and beliefs I choose to honor Cernunnos and Brigit.
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GO AWAY IM NOT GONNA ASK YOU AGAIN.
Stop engaging in racist practices. If you stop being a racist, we won't have any problems with each other... aside for the fact that you never apologized for endangering other people's lives in order to make yourself look smart.
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I dont know i dont even know if she knows.
If she was really Wiccan, she would know.
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we are an open faith family and choose our own paths and beliefs I choose to honor Cernunnos and Brigit.
What if they don't want you? You're either not honoring them, or your forcing them into becoming liars and oathbreakers.
Her: FIRST OFF I DIDNT MEAN TO "INDANGER ANYONE" IN=F SOME ONE HAS AN ALLERGIE TO SOMETHING THEN THATS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINE!
I DIDNT KNOW I HAD TO POST WARNING LABLES!
I HAVE OTTEN INTO KITCHEN WITCHERYS AS FOR MY MOM SHE IS STILL ON HER OWN PATH THATS NONE OF MY BUISNESS WHAT SHE CHOOSES OR WISHES TO GO FOR.
AS FOR MY GOD AND GODDESS LEAVE THEM OUT OF THIS!
not to change the subject or start any argument im just a bit curious to know that your relgion/beliefs are....I will not judge or use that against you.
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FIRST OFF I DIDNT MEAN TO "INDANGER ANYONE"
Actually, toy did. See, not everyone is aware that chamomile can cause anaphylaxis in people with ragweed allergies.
You gave uneducated information to the masses. You might as well have said "If you have heart problems, go eat a stick of TNT."
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IN=F SOME ONE HAS AN ALLERGIE TO SOMETHING THEN THATS THEIR PROBLEM NOT MINE!
When you give blanket recommendations, it is your problem.
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I DIDNT KNOW I HAD TO POST WARNING LABLES!
Now you do.
You have to be responsible and careful.
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I HAVE OTTEN INTO KITCHEN WITCHERYS AS FOR MY MOM SHE IS STILL ON HER OWN PATH THATS NONE OF MY BUISNESS WHAT SHE CHOOSES OR WISHES TO GO FOR.
That's fine. She just isn't of the Wicca.
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AS FOR MY GOD AND GODDESS LEAVE THEM OUT OF THIS!
They aren't yours. They have taken oaths to not deal with people like you.
This means they either lied, or you're wrong. My impression is that they aren't liars.
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not to change the subject or start any argument im just a bit curious to know that your relgion/beliefs are....I will not judge or use that against you.
If I wanted you to know them, I would have told you about them. But quite frankly, you're not an ethical person, and I don't trust you not to profane them.
So far she hasn't responded back to me. Instead, I came home to this form another user.Quote:
hey your were bothering a friend of mine her name is eartha oak and i want to know what ur problem with her is cause according to u shes being racist ageinst gypsys and other races and i read what she said i dont think she was being racist and i read some of the stuff she sent me it looks to me like u cant leave her alone in fact i was talking on the phone with her when she was talking to u and i know everything u said to her and what she said back so tell me why were u messing with her and her of all people if u ask me ur the only person who had a problem with her and like u said u have friends who will be offended by what she said yea only u and ur friends would be offended so tell me what did she do that was so bad u had to try and hurt a teen girl huh do u feel like a big person huh big guy do u if u ask me u sound sexist to me how old r u u claim shes being inappropriate and childish she didnt try to hurt u not like what u are doing to her wow calling a teen girl out because she may not have known something and further more why didnt u leave her alone huh she asked u multiple times and then u pushed ur relegion and beliefs on her and u claim to be christian ha i was raised christian and i was taught not to push anything on anyone
its people like u who disgust me i myself am a proud wiccan just like eartha and she isnt the most polite person yes but she didnt try to put other people down for the sake or putting people down and hears a little info for u wicca came from pagan so did chritianity
and by the way if u want to argue with me go right ahead and do so but ill tell u now i do not lose and if u want proof i dont lose even when everyone and i dont mean one person i mean everyone is ageinst me
hears a link to a forum i won and yes all but one person was ageinst me
http://www.gaiaonline.com/forum/chatterbox/why-do-christain-hate-and-wiccans/t.48205629/
and another thing i am 19 years old i am going to school for astrophysics and if u dont know what that is its the study of how everything works and im the top of my class with an IQ of 236 when i was 13 years old i dont know what it is now but im telling u now ur not going to win ageinst me unless u can tell me exactly how its possible that when u travel 30 times the speed of light everything slows down outside of ur spaceship and everything becomes smaller and why it is if ur on the outside everything inside of it including the spaceship stopes dead stuck in time and it becomes smaller here ill tell u its because they broke the gamma barrier and the gamma barrier is a light barrier u have to break to go 30 times the speed of light
im also taking phycology classes and world studies on the different relegions of the world as well as there traditions so dont even try to argue with me
i would appratiate a apology for eartha oak though because shes got enough in those messages to have u reported for not only stalking her but harrassment as well please leave her alone unless u can account for everyhting u did to her
thank you for ur time