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 Posted: Fri Jun 02, 2006 5:40 pm
Based on my experiences with my ex, don't put pressure on yourself. Try to stay relaxed as possible, and encourage your partner to do so as well. Putting pressure on yourself (to perform well, to stay hard, etc) will probably cause you get nervous or anxious, and that can lead to problems maintaining an erection, etc.
Also, in case you have trouble with penetration (whether the problem lies with you or your partner), it'd be a good idea to have lube on hand. Spit works, or you can use a store-bought brand. If you buy it, make sure it's water based, so it's useable with condoms - Astroglide and KY Liquid are two of the more common bands.
Thanks for pointing it out though. I'm still renovating the guild, but I'll make a note to add some tips for guys in one of the stickies. 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Jun 03, 2006 12:01 am
Nikolita Based on my experiences with my ex, don't put pressure on yourself. Try to stay relaxed as possible, and encourage your partner to do so as well. Putting pressure on yourself (to perform well, to stay hard, etc) will probably cause you get nervous or anxious, and that can lead to problems maintaining an erection, etc. Also, in case you have trouble with penetration (whether the problem lies with you or your partner), it'd be a good idea to have lube on hand. Spit works, or you can use a store-bought brand. If you buy it, make sure it's water based, so it's useable with condoms - Astroglide and KY Liquid are two of the more common bands. Thanks for pointing it out though. I'm still renovating the guild, but I'll make a note to add some tips for guys in one of the stickies. 3nodding Just something to add... sometimes you'll need to use your fingers to part her lips down there and guide yourself in. I still have to, almost every time, because it won't go it, it'll slip (without any lube... I have lots of natural lube) unless one of us holds it in place until it starts getting in. ESPECIALLY the first time. Find her v****a with your hand, and either guide yourself or have her guide you in. Also, don't be suprised if you slip out, or something. Things go wrong during the first time. My boyfriend and I went through about 5 or so condoms (we were super-paranoid, so each of those represents a penetration attempt) for one real round of sex the first time. That part goes for everyone- Mistakes =/= a bad first time, necessarily. Things won't go perfect, most likely. ESPECIALLY if you're both new to it. It takes practice to do well.
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Posted: Sun Jun 04, 2006 9:16 pm
RoseRose Nikolita Based on my experiences with my ex, don't put pressure on yourself. Try to stay relaxed as possible, and encourage your partner to do so as well. Putting pressure on yourself (to perform well, to stay hard, etc) will probably cause you get nervous or anxious, and that can lead to problems maintaining an erection, etc. Also, in case you have trouble with penetration (whether the problem lies with you or your partner), it'd be a good idea to have lube on hand. Spit works, or you can use a store-bought brand. If you buy it, make sure it's water based, so it's useable with condoms - Astroglide and KY Liquid are two of the more common bands. Thanks for pointing it out though. I'm still renovating the guild, but I'll make a note to add some tips for guys in one of the stickies. 3nodding Just something to add... sometimes you'll need to use your fingers to part her lips down there and guide yourself in. I still have to, almost every time, because it won't go it, it'll slip (without any lube... I have lots of natural lube) unless one of us holds it in place until it starts getting in. ESPECIALLY the first time. Find her v****a with your hand, and either guide yourself or have her guide you in. Also, don't be suprised if you slip out, or something. Things go wrong during the first time. My boyfriend and I went through about 5 or so condoms (we were super-paranoid, so each of those represents a penetration attempt) for one real round of sex the first time. That part goes for everyone- Mistakes =/= a bad first time, necessarily. Things won't go perfect, most likely. ESPECIALLY if you're both new to it. It takes practice to do well. Thankyou both. I think my BF will find this information quite helpful.
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Posted: Mon Jun 26, 2006 1:32 pm
thanks for the info ill use it whenever a girl decides that she wants 2 have sex with me till then im a virgin
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 1:16 pm
I lost mine last week... We were watching that Dane Cook show.. and then i was like.. wanna do it.. and we did.. I was on top and that was it I didn't bleed though but it hurt...
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Posted: Thu Jul 13, 2006 8:24 pm
I heard that birthcontrol can effect a baby conceived when on the pill.
Is it true?
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 9:59 am
+Horror.In.Wonderland+ I heard that birthcontrol can effect a baby conceived when on the pill.
Is it true? I've heard that it hasn't been proven. It's something you'd need to ask a doctor/gyno/medical professional, not us.
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 12:28 pm
Nikolita +Horror.In.Wonderland+ I heard that birthcontrol can effect a baby conceived when on the pill.
Is it true? I've heard that it hasn't been proven. It's something you'd need to ask a doctor/gyno/medical professional, not us.
Oh, alright.
Thanks though.
x3
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Posted: Fri Jul 14, 2006 9:03 pm
+Horror.In.Wonderland+ Nikolita +Horror.In.Wonderland+ I heard that birthcontrol can effect a baby conceived when on the pill.
Is it true? I've heard that it hasn't been proven. It's something you'd need to ask a doctor/gyno/medical professional, not us.
Oh, alright.
Thanks though.
x3
Sorry, didn't mean to come off all b***h-like. sweatdrop What I meant was, you'd think that having those hormones in your body would affect the baby, right? I mentioned seeing a doctor/medical professional because they'd know for sure - anything we told you would be pure speculation. That's all. You could try looking it up online though, just as another option aside from asking a doctor.
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Posted: Sun Aug 13, 2006 8:44 pm
how would you reccomend having sex for the first time with a B/F and actually enjoying it?
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Posted: Mon Aug 14, 2006 8:57 pm
kankainiku how would you reccomend having sex for the first time with a B/F and actually enjoying it? Whatever you're comfortable with, and whatever will be easiest for you to relax in. Don't feel pressured to "do something big" that you're not comfortable with, because it'll probably lead to unwanted pressure and nervousness.
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Posted: Wed Aug 16, 2006 2:24 pm
I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday. We had the Talk as soon as we started going out, so we knew where we stood, and we kinda decided on yesterday for a good day. It went okay... it hurt a bit at first, but it was fine after about ten minutes. Neither of us came the first time but we tried again today and he came, then got me off with his tongue.
Just wanted to share with y'all. We did use a condom and I'm going to see about going on the Pill also.
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 4:13 pm
can u give me some good sex tips.please
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Posted: Thu Aug 17, 2006 10:51 pm
llama_lover00 can u give me some good sex tips.please Try reading the first post of the sticky, or one of the other stickies. Or check out other people's threads, even. There's lots of tips in there.
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Posted: Fri Sep 15, 2006 2:11 pm
Rinaqa I had sex with my boyfriend for the first time yesterday. We had the Talk as soon as we started going out, so we knew where we stood, and we kinda decided on yesterday for a good day. It went okay... it hurt a bit at first, but it was fine after about ten minutes. Neither of us came the first time but we tried again today and he came, then got me off with his tongue. Just wanted to share with y'all. We did use a condom and I'm going to see about going on the Pill also. glad u hand things organized instead of jumping into it
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