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 Posted: Fri Apr 14, 2006 11:59 pm
I have a couple question about oral sex.
Can you get STD's from it? What kinds can you get? Can you get pregnant if you swallow?
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:27 pm
I know you PM'ed me about this, but PM's are down, so I'll post a reply here in case you come back to check.
I'm presuming you can get any STD's via oral that you would from intercourse, if all it takes it contact with bodily fluids. It's best to go ask a doctor though, to be sure, since we're not medical professionals. And if you can't go ask a doctor (just in case you were going to say it), then you shouldn't be doing such things in the first place.
And no, you can't get pregnant if you swallow. I'd also suggest that if you're asking basic questions like that, that you should definitely talk to a doctor and update your sexual education before becoming sexually active. Find out about your body, semen, how your body and your partner's works, how you can get pregnant, and so on. Sex isn't for children. Be responsible and mature about it, or do yourself a favor and wait until you're older, more mature, and until you actually know what you're doing.
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Posted: Tue Apr 18, 2006 5:07 am
I was wondering if there`s any sites with oral tips that don`t have pictures in them... I mean I don`t mind, but I`m in Japan staying with a host family, and that would really suck if they looked over (which they do, often) and there was a giant p***s on the screen.
I would google it, but once again I don`t want to click the wrong link...
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 7:55 am
Kalemei Nikolita So you're ok with putting your mouth on his genitals, but you're too embarrassed to let him look at yours...? sweatdrop It happens. I hate the idea of performing oral sex on my boyfriend, but love it when he does for me. We've raised this issue in conversation 'cause I was worried that it was annoying him and, although he doesn't think it makes much sense, he's made it very clear that he prefers giving than recieving. although I do feel a bit guilty about not giving much in return I just...can't Lucky me, I have such an understanding boyfriend sweatdrop Well forget that. I finally did it, and it really wasn't as vile a I thought. I love performing oral on my b/f now, and I've even managed to teach him something he never knew before (which is pretty impressive considering how experienced he is). Try this - While I'm performing oral on him, I also finger him. a**l for a guy is, of course, amazing becuase that's where the male equivelant of the G-Spot is. I'm not the best at giving blow-jobs but adding in the fingers really makes him moan and that is so hot.
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Posted: Wed Apr 19, 2006 5:26 pm
I have a few questions about oral sex, too. I've been reading things on a website that advises people to use latex barriers for ANY kind of sexual contact (manual, oral, a**l) and... I'm wondering how important that is. I know condom use is important in vaginal and a**l intercourse, but it just doesn't seem like it's at all practical to use gloves during mutual masturbation, and it seems like using condoms or a dental dam would take away from the experience (ie: taste, feeling of intimacy) of oral sex. So I'm feeling kind of confused and I'm wondering if I should see a doctor and get myself (and my boyfriend) tested before we do anything... I'm all for safer sex, but... I'd still like it to be sort of natural. Sexual fluids really don't seem that gross to me (or my guy) and if there's no risk of getting an STI... why all the latex during non penetrative sexual activity? I wanna "have my cake and eat it, too." I guess.
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Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:23 pm
xMrsJingles I was wondering if there`s any sites with oral tips that don`t have pictures in them... I mean I don`t mind, but I`m in Japan staying with a host family, and that would really suck if they looked over (which they do, often) and there was a giant p***s on the screen. I would google it, but once again I don`t want to click the wrong link... It would probably be better to wait until you get home. Better to be safe and not risk getting caught with a giant p***s on the screen, no?
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Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 10:26 pm
PhaedraMcSpiffy I have a few questions about oral sex, too. I've been reading things on a website that advises people to use latex barriers for ANY kind of sexual contact (manual, oral, a**l) and... I'm wondering how important that is. I know condom use is important in vaginal and a**l intercourse, but it just doesn't seem like it's at all practical to use gloves during mutual masturbation, and it seems like using condoms or a dental dam would take away from the experience (ie: taste, feeling of intimacy) of oral sex. So I'm feeling kind of confused and I'm wondering if I should see a doctor and get myself (and my boyfriend) tested before we do anything... I'm all for safer sex, but... I'd still like it to be sort of natural. Sexual fluids really don't seem that gross to me (or my guy) and if there's no risk of getting an STI... why all the latex during non penetrative sexual activity? I wanna "have my cake and eat it, too." I guess. Some STD's and STI's can be passed through bodily fluids, such as HIV, and so on. Using a condom and other contraceptives (dental dams, condoms, etc) are there to protect both people, I'm presuming. Otherwise if you have contaminated bodily fluid on your hand and you touch him, and he gets infected because your boldily fluids touched his, I'm guessing the infection/s would be passed that way. Best to talk to a doctor to be sure though. To be 100% safe, both of you should get tested before you do anything sexual together. If you both come back clean, then it would be up to the two if you to decide whether or not you want to use condoms and so on. Do the research, talk to a doctor, and talk about it together - discuss what you're both comfortable with using/not using, what the risks or consequences might be, and so on.
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Posted: Thu Apr 20, 2006 11:53 pm
Okay, I LOVE giving oral sex... but, I prefer getting fingered in return... I'm not sure why, it may be just that I had my very first orgasm with his fingers (Yes, my current boyfriend is the only person to ever finger me, penetrate me, or have me give/recieve oral or a**l)
I also typically really enjoy a**l, although not always. I find I can orgasm that way almost as easily as through vaginal intercourse. I'm one of those lucky girls who orgasms pretty easily (and has a boyfriend willing to be patient and give me multiples, for quite a while, before having one himself.)
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 5:57 pm
Nikolita PhaedraMcSpiffy I have a few questions about oral sex, too. I've been reading things on a website that advises people to use latex barriers for ANY kind of sexual contact (manual, oral, a**l) and... I'm wondering how important that is. I know condom use is important in vaginal and a**l intercourse, but it just doesn't seem like it's at all practical to use gloves during mutual masturbation, and it seems like using condoms or a dental dam would take away from the experience (ie: taste, feeling of intimacy) of oral sex. So I'm feeling kind of confused and I'm wondering if I should see a doctor and get myself (and my boyfriend) tested before we do anything... I'm all for safer sex, but... I'd still like it to be sort of natural. Sexual fluids really don't seem that gross to me (or my guy) and if there's no risk of getting an STI... why all the latex during non penetrative sexual activity? I wanna "have my cake and eat it, too." I guess. Some STD's and STI's can be passed through bodily fluids, such as HIV, and so on. Using a condom and other contraceptives (dental dams, condoms, etc) are there to protect both people, I'm presuming. Otherwise if you have contaminated bodily fluid on your hand and you touch him, and he gets infected because your boldily fluids touched his, I'm guessing the infection/s would be passed that way. Best to talk to a doctor to be sure though. To be 100% safe, both of you should get tested before you do anything sexual together. If you both come back clean, then it would be up to the two if you to decide whether or not you want to use condoms and so on. Do the research, talk to a doctor, and talk about it together - discuss what you're both comfortable with using/not using, what the risks or consequences might be, and so on. Hmm... that sounds like a good idea, I guess. I could talk to a doctor, and we could probably both get tested... but what is that like? I haven't really researched it much. And talking is important, so we talk openly about sex. A lot. Hmm....
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 8:46 pm
There's a sticky that discusses a physical in the Fertility and Gynecology Subforum, and getting tested is pretty much like a physical.
I've been tested before. They basically did a physical (used the speculum, etc), and then swabbed some cells from my cervix, and then sent them away in a little tube to get tested at the lab. It didn't really hurt, but the swab felt a little weird. The speculum doesn't hurt as long as you relax. Again, the sticky covers a physical and what to expect in greater detail. smile
I know US healthcare is a bit different from Canadian healthcare. When I went to my doctor to get tested, everything was free because it's covered under the medical insurance my parents have. If you don't have medical insurance or aren't covered under your parents' medical insurance, you can ask at clinics if it would cost anything, and if so how much. Or see if a clinic would do it for free.
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 5:40 am
Nikolita xMrsJingles I was wondering if there`s any sites with oral tips that don`t have pictures in them... I mean I don`t mind, but I`m in Japan staying with a host family, and that would really suck if they looked over (which they do, often) and there was a giant p***s on the screen. I would google it, but once again I don`t want to click the wrong link... It would probably be better to wait until you get home. Better to be safe and not risk getting caught with a giant p***s on the screen, no? Too long... Is there any way someone could copy and paste into a PM or an email or put it on the sticky or something? I understand if that`s too much to ask...
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Posted: Thu Apr 27, 2006 6:09 pm
Why can't you wait? If you have to worry about getting caught doing something that might be inappropriate for your current situation, then perhaps it's better to wait until it's a better time, or better to just not do it at all.
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Posted: Sat Apr 29, 2006 1:34 pm
Hmmm.... So much to think about.
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 12:37 pm
I have a question for the Girls.
OK, my boyfriend likes to give oral to me and do everything he can to pleasure me, but he also keeps asking why I don't give to him and sometimes he teases me that I don't give.
I told him that it's not for me and even though I enjoy oral I don't ask for it. It's something I can do without, you know?
Well, it kinda bothers me that I can't do it. To me it sounds gross. I mean private parts for both men and women to me don't look all that great and to suck on then just doesn't paint a pretty picture for me. But the main thing I'm worried/scared about is come. I really DO NOT want to taste that. I could probably get up the nerve to give, if it wasn't for come.
So my question for the Girls...
For those of you who have given oral to a guy...What do you think I should do in my situation?
Should I try or not yet?
I do plain on talking to him if I do decide to try, but I was woundering what you all thought before I make my decision.
Note: I will not do anything if I am not comfortable with it, I just won't and can't. So, please don't think I'm asking you guys for permission, just your advice. wink
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Posted: Sat Jun 10, 2006 11:51 pm
Do it with him wearing a condom, if you want to do it without tasting c**. Or, have him tell you when he's about to c**, and finish off with your hand.
There are flavored condoms specifically for oral out there, or use one that is dry on the outside, if the lube isn't flavored (cause the lube tastes NASTY unflavored). Or, use something to dry it all off the condom.
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