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Feeling Loved?
Yes!
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No!
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Yes, but only by you guys T_T (We love you, too!)
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Total Votes : 43


DreamerSpirit

PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 1:21 pm


mimisi_setsuai
DreamerSpirit
Well, I don't have a boyfriend, but I am very much in love! 4laugh
A month or so ago one of my friends admittyed to liking me... but sadly I had(and still have) my sights set on somone else.
This somone else does like me in return, but due to a few complications we can't be together. sad
Basically, her parents don't really want her dating, and another added thing... the 'her' part of the situation, she's bi (as am I) but only a few of her close friends know, and her parents would quite possibly disown her if they found out... I don't want that to happen, yet our love continues to grow nonetheless... it's such a difficult situation though...trying to control such emotion. I love her, and she loves me, yet it can't be quite known for another three years (when we're in college).
*sigh* Love is so wonderful, yet so confusing. Especially when controlling parents are involved... but love is love and cannot be restricted so easily.


Frankly I'm surprised that ya'll are keeping it a secret even in college. It seems like by that age most of your peers wouldn't mind, you know? And her parents need to face facts confused She's a grown woman! lol^.^ But yeah, Mimisi can see where you're coming from. (I had similar problems with peers/family members when I was in an interacial relationship). I know that it must be at least that hard, or harder, when it's the same sex. lol^.^ Good luck to both of you, though heart

Hehe... we're not in college yet... we will be in three years... I word stuff rather confusingly sometimes.
She says she's not too self-concious, yet she worries about what people will think of her is they find out... I can see where she's coming from worring about what her parents would think, but seriously, in my school no one cares much wether you're gay/straight/bi. I'm open about it and I've gotten absolutely no crap about it., except from the kids I babysit for (they found a picture I had of me and my crush hugging and havn'tshut up about it... but they're just kids... they'll probably be more accepting once they're in middle/high school.)
And thanks for wishing us good luck! I really hope everything will work out... sweatdrop
PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 1:23 pm


OmegamatriX
Love has never come my way. crying That makes me a sad panda.

*hugs* Dreamer loves you! ^_^

DreamerSpirit


Mimisi Setsuai
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PostPosted: Tue Apr 26, 2005 1:34 pm


DreamerSpirit
mimisi_setsuai
DreamerSpirit
Well, I don't have a boyfriend, but I am very much in love! 4laugh
A month or so ago one of my friends admittyed to liking me... but sadly I had(and still have) my sights set on somone else.
This somone else does like me in return, but due to a few complications we can't be together. sad
Basically, her parents don't really want her dating, and another added thing... the 'her' part of the situation, she's bi (as am I) but only a few of her close friends know, and her parents would quite possibly disown her if they found out... I don't want that to happen, yet our love continues to grow nonetheless... it's such a difficult situation though...trying to control such emotion. I love her, and she loves me, yet it can't be quite known for another three years (when we're in college).
*sigh* Love is so wonderful, yet so confusing. Especially when controlling parents are involved... but love is love and cannot be restricted so easily.


Frankly I'm surprised that ya'll are keeping it a secret even in college. It seems like by that age most of your peers wouldn't mind, you know? And her parents need to face facts confused She's a grown woman! lol^.^ But yeah, Mimisi can see where you're coming from. (I had similar problems with peers/family members when I was in an interacial relationship). I know that it must be at least that hard, or harder, when it's the same sex. lol^.^ Good luck to both of you, though heart

Hehe... we're not in college yet... we will be in three years... I word stuff rather confusingly sometimes.
She says she's not too self-concious, yet she worries about what people will think of her is they find out... I can see where she's coming from worring about what her parents would think, but seriously, in my school no one cares much wether you're gay/straight/bi. I'm open about it and I've gotten absolutely no crap about it., except from the kids I babysit for (they found a picture I had of me and my crush hugging and havn'tshut up about it... but they're just kids... they'll probably be more accepting once they're in middle/high school.)
And thanks for wishing us good luck! I really hope everything will work out... sweatdrop


Ah I see^.^ I'm sure everything will work out the way it's supposed to 3nodding
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 1:21 am


mimisi_setsuai
lol^.^ He might know you like him, if you usually fall dead silent around him 3nodding And even if it does strike him as odd, at least you'll have done it, and won't have to kick yourself for not trying to talk to him when you had the chance 3nodding
And nah confused This is something you need to do yourself 3nodding And mimisi wishes you the best luck with it 3nodding whee ...And do it face-to-face, not through email. whee lol^.^

Yes, yes...that's it. I am running out of time now, so within the next few days, I am going to psyche myself out. eek I'm going to find a time when he's alone and I'll have a little talk with him. Starting with, "Hi there. Are you busy? Do you mind if I have a little word with you?" Does that sound about right? whee xp

I hardly remember why I'm this shy anymore. sweatdrop I know that he's really sweet and he doesn't judge so why don't I have the gut? xd

And thanks for wishing me luck. Even though you're someone I haven't met face to face with, that means a lot to me.
3nodding

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emeraldsmaster

PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 3:40 am


I'm not sure if I could call it love lol, I had oen relationship but it was kidna weird. I only saw her like once every couple of weeks and we had a hard time trying to talk with each other online because we didn't have much to talk about. But I'm extremely shy around people I don't really know, especially women. So I just kinda clam up lol, plus I don't think anyone in my school/area even takes interest in me that way. I'm kinda just there sometimes it seems lol redface redface
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 7:06 am


Yes, yes...that's it. I am running out of time now, so within the next few days, I am going to psyche myself out. eek I'm going to find a time when he's alone and I'll have a little talk with him. Starting with, "Hi there. Are you busy? Do you mind if I have a little word with you?" Does that sound about right? whee xp

Now! domokun Do it now, not in a few days! whee lol^.^ But yeah, that does sound good 3nodding whee

I hardly remember why I'm this shy anymore. sweatdrop I know that he's really sweet and he doesn't judge so why don't I have the gut? xd

Because you like him and are worried that something bad'll happen even though you know it won't. whee You're just going to have to ignore it 3nodding

And thanks for wishing me luck. Even though you're someone I haven't met face to face with, that means a lot to me. 3nodding

lol^.^ No problem 3nodding heart I consider pretty much everyone here my friend 3nodding (You know, the ones that actually post lol^.^ I don't really know the ones that don't sweatdrop ) So I wish the best for ya'll 3nodding I really hope things work out for you when you talk to him heart

Mimisi Setsuai
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OmegamatriX

PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 11:31 am


DreamerSpirit
*hugs* Dreamer loves you! ^_^


crying *feels loved*
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 1:50 pm


I love you too! *hugs Omega*

soggypicklemuncher


Keistera

PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 4:55 pm


I do have someone, but the sad part is... he lives in England. sad He has seen pictures of me, and we got to see each other on Webcam once, too. He says he doesn't understand why I hate my body so much.. he loves me for my personality, and he thinks I'm cute. whee It's nice. I do wish I could have found someone in my own country (Canada), but... he's so good to me and we get along so well, I can't complain! 3nodding
PostPosted: Wed Apr 27, 2005 4:57 pm


Keistera
I do have someone, but the sad part is... he lives in England. sad He has seen pictures of me, and we got to see each other on Webcam once, too. He says he doesn't understand why I hate my body so much.. he loves me for my personality, and he thinks I'm cute. whee It's nice. I do wish I could have found someone in my own country (Canada), but... he's so good to me and we get along so well, I can't complain! 3nodding


lol^.^ Mimisi's boyfriend lives in Scotland (I live in Texas), so I know what you mean^.^ whee But I don't mind that he lives so far away, except now we're wanting to meet, and it's pretty pricey and awkward (because of his job). lol^.^ How long have ya'll been together? whee blaugh

Mimisi Setsuai
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Azura Cantarella

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PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 12:15 am


I did it! I did it! whee whee whee I happened to catch him a while after Japanese class. I started with "You're someone I've wanted to get to know for a while, but I've been real shy about it. So someone gave me a verbal slap in the face and told me to get over myself." (Which is true in some respect...an RL friend of mine kind of implied that to me. xd ) I got him to laugh a little that way. 4laugh

Saa...it was just as I'd hoped. Which still is a surprise to me even now. whee He stuck around, we talked a bit, smiled together... He doesn't know that I like him, though. That's something I'll get to over time... I mean, it would be too much of a shock to say that early on, wouldn't it? surprised

I am no longer shy anymore. Now I can kick myself for not being brave earlier.
xd
PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 6:18 am


Azura Bladewright
I did it! I did it! whee whee whee I happened to catch him a while after Japanese class. I started with "You're someone I've wanted to get to know for a while, but I've been real shy about it. So someone gave me a verbal slap in the face and told me to get over myself." (Which is true in some respect...an RL friend of mine kind of implied that to me. xd ) I got him to laugh a little that way. 4laugh

Saa...it was just as I'd hoped. Which still is a surprise to me even now. whee He stuck around, we talked a bit, smiled together... He doesn't know that I like him, though. That's something I'll get to over time... I mean, it would be too much of a shock to say that early on, wouldn't it? surprised

I am no longer shy anymore. Now I can kick myself for not being brave earlier.
xd


YAY whee whee whee lol^.^ It made mimisi very happy to read this xd heart It's really good to hear that it went so well 3nodding heart And yeah, probably best you didn't spring that on him the first day, but hey, ya'll seemed to get along okay, and that's what's important blaugh whee Was it nearly as hard as you thought it would be? whee

Mimisi Setsuai
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OmegamatriX

PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 6:32 am


soggypicklemuncher
I love you too! *hugs Omega*


*feels loved* Again.
PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 6:02 pm


mimisi_setsuai
YAY whee whee whee lol^.^ It made mimisi very happy to read this xd heart It's really good to hear that it went so well 3nodding heart And yeah, probably best you didn't spring that on him the first day, but hey, ya'll seemed to get along okay, and that's what's important blaugh whee Was it nearly as hard as you thought it would be? whee

My heart was beating a million times a second, but it didn't turn out as hard as I thought. xp Now I feel relieved I'm over this shyness-induced fear. whee

I did try to restrain myself from springing on him, but do you think I dropped a hint in the way I started the conversation? whee Maybe that got him wondering...
sweatdrop

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Keistera

PostPosted: Thu Apr 28, 2005 6:19 pm


mimisi_setsuai


lol^.^ Mimisi's boyfriend lives in Scotland (I live in Texas), so I know what you mean^.^ whee But I don't mind that he lives so far away, except now we're wanting to meet, and it's pretty pricey and awkward (because of his job). lol^.^ How long have ya'll been together? whee blaugh


We've been together almost 5 months now. 3nodding How long have you been with your boyfriend?

A lot of people seem to think that long distance relationships can't work. I think anything is possible if both people are serious and willing to work through it. 3nodding
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