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Sailor_Chibi

PostPosted: Thu Aug 25, 2005 1:04 am


Personally, this is one of the things that makes me so happy I live in Canada instead of the U.S. I am bisexual/lesbian (i.e. I tend to be more attracted to women, but occasionally there is a guy I find attractive) and if I ever did find a woman I was truly in love with, it makes me feel proud to realize that we can get married. I have never been more proud to be a Canadian born and bred. wink
I never really understand why people like George Bush thought they had the right to pass judgement on whether other people get married or not. For example, if George Bush (not to generalize or anything) doesn't have the right to decide whether you get up in the morning and pull on a red shirt or a blue shirt, why does he have the right to decide if you can get married to someone who is the same sexe as you? What difference does it make to him? It's not something that concerns him or anyone else in any way.
PostPosted: Sat Aug 27, 2005 11:11 am


He is a very devout christian. Enough said?

Chalda


kankainiku

PostPosted: Thu Sep 01, 2005 2:23 pm


Personaly to put it "straight" my opinion is anyone has the right to marry whoever they wish right? i'm not going to get political cause that would be for a different thread. But if you love someone you love them if you're a homosexual, its not your choice you didn't all of a sudden decide "i'm gonna only like guys now." personaly i think you were born with it.

(FYI i'm very bi and i have a lot more to say but not enough time at the moment i'll finnish later)

Kankainiku ^.^
PostPosted: Fri Sep 02, 2005 2:56 pm


I have many gay friends, and I myself am bisexual. I think that if gay people love each other they should be able to be wed. heart
I'd love to see my friends be able to get married.

KitaniaKirie


deadp00l7217

PostPosted: Sat Sep 03, 2005 3:52 pm


Someone a long time ago
Read this:

Quote:
From: davephx@primenet.com (Dave Hutchison)
Newsgroups:
Subject: Re: Is it ok with god if I am gay??
Date: 10 Dec 1995 16:36:22 -0700

Traditional Church teaching falsely misuses the Bible to judge the
homosexual lifestyle. True Biblical theology begins not with Church
tradition and dogma but with the biblical texts themselves. Biblical
theology seeks to understand how the biblical authors expressed themselves
in the Koine Greek of the time (not expanded by later modern Greek
meanings), in terms of their culture. Only with this understanding is it
legitimate to define biblical sexual ethics of the NT and find implications
for today.

There are only 4 scriptures that are taken to say anything about
homosexuality; the Leviticus laws, I Cor 6:9, Romans 1:26-27, and the story
of Sodom and Gomorrah - and none address loving, consenting homosexual acts
as we know them today, but rather the terrible unnatural, heterosexual acts
of pederasty.

The unclean acts of Leviticus makes no statement about the morality of
homosexual acts as such. In today's society similar unclean acts might
include picking ones nose, burping or passing gas. In Hebrew times wearing
polyester, or eating shellfish would have been just as much an abomination
as men laying with men. The law is no longer in effect and its purpose was
to show that man could never follow it. The sins of Sodom and Gomorrah,
have nothing to do with homosexuality.

I Cor 6:9, no way refers to homosexuality. The original Greek word often
quoted as sexual immorality, Paul used was "porneia" which means "a harlot
for hire". In Corinth in the temples of Venus, the principal deity of
Corinth, where Christians went to worship, a thousand public prostitutes
were kept at public expense to glorify and act as surrogates for the
fertility Gods. This sex with the pagan Gods is what Paul was talking
about - fornication is an admitted mistranslation and has nothing to do
with gays or singles sex. This rendering reflected the bias of the
translators rather than an accurate translation of Paul's words to a
culture of 2000 years ago worshipping pagan sex gods. I can also show the
errors of effeminate or homosexual reference in this verse.

Romans 1:26-27 mentions homosexual acts performed by people who are clearly
heterosexual. The men in the NT patriarchal culture exerted dominance not
only over women, but over younger males as well. The Greco-Roman practice
of pederasty was widespread and openly accepted. This was a bisexual
practice. The nature of homosexual acts in the Bible are so very different
from what we know as homosexuality today that the passages have no
application to today's homosexuality. Such practices as in NT times simply
no longer exist.

I can post more info on each of the passages. The condemnation of
homosexual love is one of the biggest lies and injustices of religion
making a living hell for many wonderful people whose only sin is simply
to be who God created them to be. The false teachings are the abomination,
not homosexuality. I have no personal agenda since I happened to be born
very heterosexual.

How does the Bible address Homosexuality when the word didn't even exist
until 1869? The word first appeared in Germany to describe the theory that
from birth some people are predisposed toward persons of the same sex.

Since the biblical languages (ancient Hebrew and Greek) had no words for
sexuality, heterosexual or homosexual, it is anachronistic and misleading
when homosexual is used to translate some biblical expression.

It is wrong to proclaim the biblical view of homosexuality since there is
none. This violates the integrity of the individual texts and the biblical
witness as a whole. Each reference or allusion to what is today
homosexuality must be read in the light of the particular literary,
cultural, and historic contexts of any particular passage.

A survey of the few passages that have been falsely translated as having to
do with homosexuality show their passage are addressing either the terrible
acts of pederasty or, cultic prostitution and have absolutely nothing to
say about homosexuality as we know it today.

To claim the scriptures say a word about "homosexuality" is a total lie and
abomination, not today's homosexuals who are simply created by God with
this natural sexual orientation that is no where addressed in scripture.

If Jesus ever said anything about homosexuality, it is not recorded in the
Bible, even mistranslated. He did, however, speak extensively on God's
unconditional love. Yet instead of dwelling on biblical love, Christians
have historically been more concerned with obscure passages of Levitical
cleanliness codes and Paul's misunderstood comments in Romans. Instead of
focusing on the incredible injustice and hatred demonstrated by Christians
and others, tying to deny homosexuals even basic civil rights, people
appear more concerned with the specific homosexual acts between consenting
adults who are naturally have a homosexual orientation. As James B. Nelson
notes, the Bible more clearly advocates a "love ethic" rather than a "sex
ethic."

Note: Why I am totally supportive of Christian homosexuality, I happen to be
extremely heterosexual. I can't help it, that's how I was born. I hardly
like hugging men! Liberated Christians in our newsletters and Fellowship
Groups does not deal with homosexual issues, but rather loving,
women-centered intimacy and Christian sexuality for heterosexual couples and
women. I say this to avoid all the wonderful gays and lesbians wanting our
info thinking we are homosexual oriented due to my support.

Dave, Liberated Christians, Phoenix Az
Teaching Positive Intimacy and Women Centered Sexuality
Exposing False Traditional Biblical Teachings
For Free Info request from davephx@primenet.com
Over 900 subscribers to our Free Internet Newsletter

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:O But LOOK! Passages that can be interpreted as PRO-gay:

Quote:
Reply-To: conrad@nola.uu.holonet.net (Conrad Sabatier)
Date: Wed, 01 Jun 1994 02:51:02 GMT
Subject: Re: Fer Chrissakes

In article , Daniel J. Karnes (djk@TASP.NET) writes:
>
>I am amused my the way that you choose to ignore the stronger Biblical
>statements against your filth and then discount the more gentle ones
>of Paul. Disturbed? Ignored?
>
>What more should I expect from a f*****t.

And we find it quite amazing (well, not really; we're used to it
from you now) that you can ignore so much of the very book you use
to try to condemn us.

Job 20:4-5
4 Knowest thou not this of old, since man was placed upon earth,
5 That the triumphing of the wicked is short, and the joy of the
hypocrite but for a moment?

Job 27:4
4 My lips shall not speak wickedness, nor my tongue utter deceit.

Job 27:8
8 For what is the hope of the hypocrite, though he hath gained,
when God taketh away his soul?

Prov 11:9
9 An hypocrite with his mouth destroyeth his neighbour: but through
knowledge shall the just be delivered.

Matt 7:1
1 Judge not, that ye be not judged.

Luke 6:46
46 And why call ye me, Lord, Lord, and do not the things which I say?

Luke 6:31
31 And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them
likewise.

Luke 6:36
36 Be ye therefore merciful, as your Father also is merciful.

Matt 5:43-44
43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour,
and hate thine enemy.
44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you,
do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully
use you, and persecute you;

Matt 19:19
19 Honour thy father and thy mother: and, Thou shalt love thy neighbour
as thyself.

Matt 22:37-40
37 Jesus said unto him, Thou shalt love the Lord thy God with all thy
heart, and with all thy soul, and with all thy mind.
38 This is the first and great commandment.
39 And the second is like unto it, Thou shalt love thy neighbour as
thyself.
40 On these two commandments hang all the law and the prophets.

Luke 6:27
27 But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them
which hate you,

John 13:34
34 A new commandment I give unto you, That ye love one another;
as I have loved you, that ye also love one another.

Gal 5:14
14 For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt
love thy neighbour as thyself.

Gal 5:25
25 If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.

1Thes 3:12
12 And the Lord make you to increase and abound in love one toward
another, and toward all men, even as we do toward you:

1Thes 4:8
8 He therefore that despiseth, despiseth not man, but God, who hath
also given unto us his holy Spirit.

1 Pet 2:17
17 Honour all men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king.

1 Pet 3:8
8 Finally, be ye all of one mind, having compassion one of another,
love as brethren, be pitiful, be courteous:

I Jn 3:11
11 For this is the message that ye heard from the beginning, that we
should love one another.

I Jn 3:14
14 We know that we have passed from death unto life, because we love
the brethren. He that loveth not his brother abideth in death.

I Jn 3:23
23 And this is his commandment, That we should believe on the name of
his Son Jesus Christ, and love one another, as he gave us
commandment.

I Jn 4:7
7 Beloved, let us love one another: for love is of God; and every one
that loveth is born of God, and knoweth God.

I Jn 4:11
11 Beloved, if God so loved us, we ought also to love one another.

I Jn 4:12
12 No man hath seen God at any time. If we love one another, God
dwelleth in us, and his love is perfected in us.

I Jn 4:16
16 And we have known and believed the love that God hath to us.
God is love; and he that dwelleth in love dwelleth in God, and
God in him.

I Jn 4:20
20 If a man say, I love God, and hateth his brother, he is a liar:
for he that loveth not his brother whom he hath seen, how can he
love God whom he hath not seen?

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And here is some information:

Quote:
From: davephx@primenet.com (Dave Hutchison)
Newsgroups:
Subject: Re: Where does which Bible condem Homosexuality?
Date: 14 Mar 1996 00:57:00 -0700

Summary of The New Testament and Homosexuality
by Robin Scroggs, professor of New Testament,
Union Theological Seminary, a happily married heterosexual
who has been acclaimed in many Christian publications for
his serious research about what the New Testament really
says about homosexuality.

Scroggs reason for his research was a discussion of
homosexuality by ministers. "I sat amazed as I heard the
Bible being invoked in ways that were wholly inappropriate
to any canons of biblical scholarship. Perhaps something
snapped in me...for better or worse I decided somebody
needed to provide resources that would give both clarity and
honesty." He says he has no personal interest but sees the
tragic results of false biblical scholarship and the tragic
rejections of homosexuals in the name of Christian
righteousness or even love. It is about time someone spoke
honestly about the issue, not just from emotional homophobic
assumptions of what the New Testament really says.

Conclusions: 1) The NT church was not very concerned about
homosexuality as a problem, All three instances referring
to homosexuality are from preformed traditions, either Greek
or Jewish. No single NT author considers the issue
important enough to write his own sentence about it! The
argument "against nature" is the most common form of attack
on pederasty in the Greco-Roman texts. Pederasty involved
forced male rape even by heterosexuals and slave boy
prostitutes. It says nothing about today's loving
homosexual relationships. Even in Romans 1, where Paul
integrates the illustration of homosexuality into his larger
theological arguments, there is no advance beyond idolatry
and pagan vices of 1 Cor 6:9.

2) Female homosexuality gets even less attention appearing
only in Romans 1, and here with less emphasis than male
homosexuality. This is doubtlessly because little was said
in the Greco-Roman world about lesbianism, and because in OT
law no penalties attached to such female practices. This
again suggest pederasty was the vice, not homosexuality in
general. In Romans 1 Paul's language "about male
homosexuality, must have had, could only have had, pederasty
in mind."

3) The two vice lists attack very specific forms of
pederasty, not homosexuality in general.

Scroggs concludes: "The basic model of today's Christian
homosexual community is so different from the model attacked
by the New Testament that the criterion of reasonable
similarity of context is not met. The conclusion I have to
draw seems inevitable: Biblical judgements against
homosexuality are not relevant to today's debate.. should in
no way be a weapon to justify refusal of ordination, not
because the Bible is not authoritative, but simply because
it does not address the issues involved". He concludes with
more discussion that pederasty was the issue of the biblical
texts, not today's homosexual relationships. This is just a
sample of one sincere Christian scholar who like many reach
the same conclusions regarding biblical truth, not just
traditional Church dogma.

Dave, Liberated Christians, Phoenix Az
Teaching Positive Intimacy and Women Centered Sexuality
Exposing False Traditional Biblical Teachings
For Free Info request from davephx@primenet.com
Over 1600 subscribers get our Free Internet Newsletter
PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 8:26 pm


I'd like to marry my partner legally and I wished to God we lived in Canada, but circumstances won't permit us to move there. My family is devout Christian and it caused a huge riff between us until recently when I my contacted me. We hadn't spoken in five months and are just now starting to patch things up.

Brandon Yamata


[and i suck]

PostPosted: Mon Sep 19, 2005 11:53 pm


Ah, I shall be a homosexual once I get a sex change, but I guess I some people would oppose that because all gay guys are actually ultra-feminine, girl-at-heart, super-nice (opposite of that "all-guys-are-jerks" stereotype), people that do stereotypically "feminine" things like wear skin mosturizers and love shopping. rolleyes
PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 7:39 am


Listen, I'm sixteen. I'am not a college student, I have little to no experience with homosexuals in real life. I want anyone who reads my comment to remember this, because I'd like to emphisise that I probably don't know s**t about this subject.


I'm a christian, and therefor I will think about Gods point of view on this subject first.

I don't think God gives a flying ********. Jesus died to give us the choice of heaven or hell, and no one can speak for God, so on that bases I think its the persons choice.

If he or she is going against Gods will it is not my problem, it is their problem, and if they are going against God they will answer for it on judgement day.

Jesus died for their choice, and america was founded for the ability to make a choice.

If they make gay marraige illegal they may aswell make it mandatory to circumcise a boy at birth regaurdless his view, or his parents view.

They may aswell make abortion illegal aswell.

Its just stupid. neutral

requietum ac adamo amor


Brandon Yamata

PostPosted: Tue Sep 20, 2005 10:39 am


Foomonster v. 2.0
Ah, I shall be a homosexual once I get a sex change, but I guess I some people would oppose that because all gay guys are actually ultra-feminine, girl-at-heart, super-nice (opposite of that "all-guys-are-jerks" stereotype), people that do stereotypically "feminine" things like wear skin mosturizers and love shopping. rolleyes
lol, yeah. Most people wouldn't believe I was gay if I told them. I like cars and I like working on them. I have no fashions sense, hate shopping, and would rather die then wear make up. Too girly. I like being a man, in fact I like it so much I want to be with other men.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 9:24 am


Umm... this is my first post in this guild, and i'm bi. I've just come to this thread to ask for someone's advice on how to find other gay or bi guys/girls who live near you without having to use the internet, or facing getting your face smashed in by asking them "hey... umm.. are you gay?" sweatdrop

So, any helpful advice for me? I'm a guy, and have only ever had relationships with girls before.

Tallallame


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 10:46 am


You're about 15 right? Check to see if your school has some sort of group for homosexuals, where they can go for support and hang out together, etc. I don't know how else to describe it - my college has a group called "Positive Space". One of the high schools in my district had one called "G.L.O.W". You might meet other people there.

You could also wait until you were older... a lot of 15 year olds are really immature, and asking someone if they're gay is no reason to get beaten up. You don't even have to ask someone if they're gay - you could just ask them out, and if it turns out they're straight, then they can politely tell you so.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 10:54 am


Yeah, im 15. I live in the UK though, and my school doesnt have anything like that. I mean, they have counselling etc, but not anything for homosexual/bisexual people. Probably because they think we are too young to be able to understand such things and are too immature. Oh well...

Thankyou for the advice. I'll just have to keep trying i guess.

Another thing that really annoys me, is the way that the people in my area who are homosexual, are total jackasses who dont want relationships, and only want sex. cry Sometimes i think i am the only bisexual person in my area who actually has feelings for something other than physical pleasure. It's quite sad really.

Tallallame


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:06 am


A lot of straight teenagers like that to. It's scary how many teens are willing to have sex without being in a relationship, or even in a relationship but just for the sex - and that applies to both homosexual and straight teens too.

Just because your school doesn't have anything other than counselling doesn't mean they think homosexuals are too immature, or anything like that. It could be that they didn't have enough money in their budget to start up such a group at your school. Or maybe they just didn't think of starting a support group.

If you can't find anyone near you who you'd like to be in a relationship with, then I'd probably advise waiting until you and everyone else is a little older. A lot of people mature as they get older, especially guys.
PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 11:59 am


Yes, you're right there.... i guess i should wait. Hmm.. i highly doubt they are lacking money, considering they just went and almost doubled the size of the school with this huge extension they built recently... completely destroyed our sports field, but ah well, im leaving school come next september, so it doesnt really matter.

One last thing... Okay, all my friends and most of my family know my sexual preference, but my younger brother does not. He is 13, and i dont know how to tell him that i am bi. I've kept it from him for over 2 years, and if he found out from someone else i would feel terrible, but i cant bring myself to tell him. Is it normal for me to feel this arkward about telling him this or should i really try and keep it from him for at least a little while longer?

Tallallame


Nikolita
Captain

PostPosted: Tue Sep 27, 2005 6:13 pm


I guess it would depend on how you think he might handle it. Consider his age and his maturity - is he likely to freak out if you tell him? Does he come across as being anti-homosexual at all? (I've seen some young teens display anti-homosexual tendicies and make anti-homosexual comments when around their friends neutral ) Is he likely to spread it to his friends or random people?
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