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 Posted: Mon Jan 02, 2006 6:38 pm
Well this wasn't really and experience of 'Sex for the first time' but it was our first time without a condom. I know it's all in my head but I really didn't enjoy it much. After seeing a few porns with the 'c**-shot' and not really enjoying the taste of ejaculate I've gotten to the point where the thought of c** like that tends to make me gag. I had the same reaction when he ejaculated without a condom. I have told him now (that wasn't something fun to tell) and it's not too big a deal to him thankfully. Plus we are safer with condoms anyway. But it's going to make things interesting when we actually want to have kids...
Anyway that was just my experience that I felt might be helpful.
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Posted: Tue Feb 07, 2006 2:17 am
i lost my viriginity a few days ago, when i had it, i found it was hard for me to get it up... but it's probably because i masturbated a few times earlier that day.
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 7:03 am
You can also break your hymen from falling off of a bike, and you can even be born with out one. Just letting you know smile
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Posted: Mon Feb 13, 2006 8:31 pm
(Nobody wants to hear my life story and I doubt anyone needs to hear such a story, so after lots of editing, here goes...)
I don't remember my first time at all, for better or for worse. All you young people should know that the relationship you're in now probably won't last forever. And while the memory of your first time is something every virgin wants to keep, later in life you might not miss it so much.
I wish I had more advice. sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 10:58 am
i had sex fo the first time and she was worried bout getting pregnant even though we used condomsand shes getting birthcontol is thisa somehting to worry about and why was it so short
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Posted: Mon Mar 27, 2006 10:59 am
i am by the way a guy with a female account on gaia sweatdrop
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 8:26 pm
I'm having a little bit of an issue with this thread. All that I've read so far is that sex the first time is always bad-- but that is just not the case all the time. And I understand the urgency for birth control, but honeslty. What child whose parents wouldn't accept premarital sex would be able to ask any of the people listed for advice or birth control? I personally believe that sex is stressed way too much in our society, when in reality (in my opinion) it isn't that big of a deal. But, that truely is just my opinion. But I do agree on the basis that your first time should be well...planned, so to speak. Realize I'm not saying screw the facts if it feels good do it, I would like to underline (infact, I think I will!) that If it is your first time or anytime, you should honestly feel like you would marry this person. Don't get me wrong, no one is ever truely prepared to marry, look at the divorce rate! Monogomy as we know it doesn't exist often. But if you're not mature enough to seriously think about your feelings for the person you wanna screw, then chances are you're not prepared to have sexual organ A be inserted into sexual organ B.
Bottom line, Sex isn't as big of a deal everyone makes it out to be, but it isn't an end of the world choise. Sorry if I somehow offended anyone...but it's what I think.
P.S. Talking about your first time and s**t like that in this thread shouldn't only be able the negative stuff--that's biased.
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Posted: Wed Mar 29, 2006 8:49 pm
And I take offense that you're stressing that people who have sex should "feel like they want to marry each other", or something along those lines. People DO have premarital sex, and people DO have casual sex. It's going to happen whether you like it or not.
A lot of people have negative experiences their first times, and that's just how it is. I fail to see how it's biased in any way - they are just describing their experiences. neutral If you want to post a positive experience, go ahead. There's also a "sex stories" thread floating around in here that you can post your positive experience(s) in if you'd like.
If you feel it's biased, then don't post here. And if you're not happy with the guild, then leave. No one's had a problem with the thread up until now.
And yes, sex can be and is an end of the world choice for some people - especially when they end up pregnant, infected with something they'll have for the rest of their lives, or when they are threatened by their families for having sex (ie - getting an abortion, being kicked out of the house, etc).
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 7:41 pm
You shouldnt be sad about that. :3 Your with your boyfriend. Dont pay attention to the environment, only him. Your sharing something special with eachother, thats all that matters. Oh and you love eachother.. : DDD Thats why my bf tells me. n.n <33 KajiMadoushi
The thing is that am a little little sad that ours first time might be in a hotel room,lol.
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 8:05 pm
Will your v****a tighten back up over time after the first time you have sex?
And does it tighten up after having your period...
When eventually will the sex feel good?
Hmm..
Does lube have a taste? d: Random question I had..
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Posted: Mon Apr 17, 2006 11:13 pm
x.Fuct up Will your v****a tighten back up over time after the first time you have sex? And does it tighten up after having your period... When eventually will the sex feel good? Hmm.. Does lube have a taste? d: Random question I had.. What do you mean "tighten back up"? It isn't going to stretch out or anything like that. Yes when you're aroused, the v****a will stretch to accomdate the p***s, or whatever is being inserted. But it will go "back to normal" once you're not aroused or having sex anymore. It shouldn't "get loose" or "tighten up" when you have your period. Otherwise, I don't know what you're referring to. And yes, you can buy both plain and flavored lubes.
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Posted: Mon Apr 24, 2006 12:44 am
I feel that before your first time, you should be able to TALK about it with your partner, because if you can't talk about it, then how can you be mature enough to do it? It doesn't have to be a serious relationship, but you have to be able to talk about sex before you have it.
And for a long-term sex partner, you have to be able to talk about consequences, like pregnancy, because you have to know that a long-term partner will be there for you if something like that should happen (even if you don't stay together... by long term partner, I mean boyfriend/girlfriend/friends with benifits, any case where it isn't just a casual hookup where you're never gonna see the person again)
When my boyfriend and I started talking about having sex, we almost changed our mind (and certainly added a month or two onto our wait) by talking about consequences, pregnancy mostly, because we're both clean, and we both were emotionally ready for it.
We waited, and we decided it was better FOR US... but, that's something you should think about. I was 18 when I lost my virginity (Heck, I'm still 18, but I'm ALMOST 19) and... it was right for me. Everyone's right time is different for them, but... it is an emotional experience, and you have to be ready for it. When you're ready varies, but, make sure you ARE ready.
As for experiences, I had a very positive experience. I was ready, and I relaxed. It hurt, but, not too much... and he took me through the pain, and made it feel good. Neither of us came... but, it was a wonderful experience, anyway. It made us closer, and... added to our emotional bond.
So... even in premarital sex, there can be good experiences. It all depends.
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Posted: Fri May 05, 2006 5:52 pm
Something I've been wondering for a while. You know when you have sex for the first time and bleeding might occur. Might sound stupid but, do ppl just continue or stop right there? :S
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Posted: Wed May 10, 2006 8:46 pm
gekaizer Something I've been wondering for a while. You know when you have sex for the first time and bleeding might occur. Might sound stupid but, do ppl just continue or stop right there? :S Depends on the person. Some people might keep going, while others might stop if it becomes painful or if the blood bothers them. Blood can be a lubricant sometimes though. ninja
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Posted: Tue May 30, 2006 9:55 pm
Do you have any first time tips for males?
I'm sorry if I sound stupid but I haven't found very much information on that topic at all, so I'm wondering if any of you could enlighten me.
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