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Yeah, I like it when I can get my boyfriend off on a b*****b. Makes me feel good that I can do something which pleases him so much. 3nodding

As for giving him a b*****b, if you don't want to, then don't do it. There's nothing that says you HAVE to give him a b*****b just because he wants one. Ask him to compromise and give you oral sex in return, or something else you'd like, if you go out of your way to give him a b*****b. It's only fair.

Mmmkay, I have some questions.

First off---I have read through the entire thread, and I've seen no mention of this.

What if you want to use condoms to barrier against catching a disease in your mouth for oral sex?

With my first boyfriend, I did not even know that you could use condoms for oral sex, so I did it bare.

The only other guy that I've had oral sex with-- I found out that condoms could be used, so I used one. Somehow it seemed with my first boyfriend who I didn't use them with, I was great.

It seemed that when I used the condom with the other guy, It was much harder to do, and he didn't really seem to like it. After a while, he ended up losing his errection.

My question is, is it because of my technique or the condom? Or just maybe because they were two different guys?

Do oral condoms protect against most STIs that you can catch in your mouth?

I want to do it again now with this new guy because he gives GREAT oral sex, and I feel like I should just return the favor--Plus I like to do it.

Any advice from anyone?


PS. --I used to hate oral sex. My 1st boyfriend was horrible at it! He would cough and gag and act like he couldn't breathe, which made me feel really self concious and strange. He was too rough and fast with his tounge. This new guy kisses all over, and then he suprises me. He uses his fingers and his tounge and starts out slow and teasing, so I can't refuse his advances. I say this because maybe those of you females who say you don't like it--maybe the guy is just not doing it right?

It was mentioned recently in a thread, but it hasn't been in a sticky I don't think. Thanks for pointing it out though, I'll make a note and look up some information on it later.

Yes, you can use condoms when performing oral sex. Because condoms protect against STD's and what not, I'm guessing the same applies for during oral sex (although I'm not 100% sure - it would be best to ask a pharmacist or a doctor). I'd imagine that it would taste a lot like latex, so you could use lubrication to help with the oral sex (just be careful to get a water-based brand, and one that won't damage the condom).

You could also use a dental dam. I have no information on that, but will look some up tonight or tomorrow.

As for your boyfriends, I'm not sure. It culd be because he didn't like oral sex with a condom (too much friction, etc), it could've been personal preference, etc etc. Without us knowing him or his side of the situation, it's hard to say.

Yeah my ex sucked ot oral sex on me too, but I was too shy to speak up and say anything, so I kinda just lay there and/or faked it a bit. Don't get me wrong - sometimes he was really good. But he had some misconceptions about what he was supposed to do, so sometimes it didn't go very well.
My cuurent boyfriend is awesome at it though. heart

I find standing up works really well for me, due to the angle it provides and what not. I usually sit on a chair or on the edge of a couch if my boyfriend stands up though.

You could get him to sit on a chair, or on the end of a bed, and then kneel between his legs when you give him oral sex. I find that it's not as comfortable for me, and the angle isn't as good as if my boyfriend were to stand up, but it works well enough.

You could also get him to sit on a couch, and then sit next to him and kneel over his lap area that way. I don't like that position much though, although it does work, because it's harder on my neck and such.

I Feel Embrassed Asking This But I Will Ask It sweatdrop ..........-If You And your Boyfriend has had a**l sex and he ejaculated inside of you can you get pregnant?

Thank You For Answering my Question! My Boyfriend And I were wondering.Cause We didnt Want anything to happen But Will Still use Protection And I ask PeopleAnd They Tell Me Wrong ..SO i was a lilttle confused!! Thank You Again sweatdrop mrgreen

Kk i Will mrgreen And Thank You Again,Your Guild Has Been Alot Of HElp heart

I know for a fact that it does.

Citrus has a lot of fructose in it. So does semen. When your body intakes more fructose than it needs, it finds anyway that it can to rid itself of it. For boys, that can mean putting a little bit of it into his c**. It takes the salty egde off of it... and I really like it..

Oh, and girls, you can do the same by increasing both your fructose intake and your caffeine intake... Though if you try the latter, yours will become thick and kind of sticky... but it'll taste pretty great.

Hope I helped. sweatdrop