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 Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 8:43 am
It's that I don't believein myself, it's just that whenever I try to get a gf I get shut down withsome excuse like "I'm not looking for a bf right now" and then the next day they say they have this HUGE crushon some oyther guy. So it's not that I don't believe in myself,I actually try to open up to people. A lot of my friends say I'm a really good guy, but when it comes to having a nice personality in highschool. Personality doesn't really mean a lot it seems. I try to be a nice guy, but then I can be an a*****e at times when people piss me off or give me the whole "There's someone out there for everyone". I believe that to an extent ((See sig, I have fallen for her more than on gaia but she's half a world away << >> and my parents don't know lol, but I'm 18 so oh well.) but hearing it over and over again just gets so freaking frustrating that I just wanna scream. So yeah, I try to be optimistic but then my optimism gets shot down and my esteem goes with it lol.Sorry for therant and bad spacing, ona school computer.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 10:40 am
If you're really fallen for her, why are you still looking for a girlfriend, and being pissed about it when people reject you? To me, it seems disloyal and cruel of you to claim to like/love someone, then complain about no one dating you.
Take what you like, and what you have. Doesn't really matter how far away someone is.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 6:44 pm
mimisi_setsuai If you're really fallen for her, why are you still looking for a girlfriend, and being pissed about it when people reject you? To me, it seems disloyal and cruel of you to claim to like/love someone, then complain about no one dating you. Take what you like, and what you have. Doesn't really matter how far away someone is. I know it doesn't matter, but I would still like some sort of female companionship here. I live in the US and she's in Australia, so it's hard to talk to her because of time zone differences. She knows I want female companionship and has told me to try and go for it if I want. I've told her to go for a guy if she wants to. And no I don't want the perverted companionship from a woman, I want something along the lines of a cuddle buddy is all.
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 6:59 pm
I can't comment on that without being mean lol sweatdrop So I'll end my part of that particular discussion here 3nodding
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Posted: Fri Apr 21, 2006 7:14 pm
mimisi_setsuai I can't comment on that without being mean lol sweatdrop So I'll end my part of that particular discussion here 3nodding Be mean lol, doesn't bother me anymore. I've pretty much usnk into the modd that no one in my area wants me so I don't give a d*** lol, but if you do start being mean. Send it to me in a pm please
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:37 am
You make it sound like I was going to rip you a new a*****e. That's not what I mean by 'mean'. 3nodding
Just that, if you really like this girl, and she really likes you (and trust me, I've had net relationships before and I would tell them something like she told you. I was heartbroken if they actually did it.) it's kind of like cheating.
Just being a pig, you know? It's just really disgraceful and disloyal.
I mean, Gavin lives in Scotland, I live in Texas. We manage to talk, dispite time zones. We're also never had another boyfriend or girlfriend. We'll have been together three years this July.
To me, knowing that they CAN work if you want them to, it's just somewhat sickening for people to say (basically) "It's just online. I like her but I want someone to snuggle with."
You can have friends online, yeah? Why not companions?
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 6:48 am
I don't have any advice for net relationships. Or real ones for that matter. But, Mimisi sounds like she knows what she's talking about 3nodding
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Posted: Sat Apr 22, 2006 3:09 pm
Someone shouldn't roll their eyes at jade.. it may not feel true, but it is..
the trick is not rushing it.. i leaned this the hard way..
my whole life i prayed and prayed for *the one* the older i got the harder i prayed.. well i met him.. at the wrong time.. we were too young and nowhere near ready for each other and it ended.. 2 years later and painfully..kicking, screaming and tears..
if we met each other now, things would probably be different.. you get older.. get more sense *sometimes*
I know what you're going through.. i have been a fat, undersocialized, emotionally stunted genius my whole life.. my mom's gay.. i'm form the middle of nowhere where the kkk runs free and i'm mixed.. trust me honey, i know lonely.. but what seems like forever, really isn't..
You have friends *you can definitely count jade as one* you have family.. you are loved.. hold onto that above all things..
give love everyday and you will be amazed at the love you recieve...
8hugs everyone everywhere, especially the eye rolling someone* heart
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Posted: Sun Apr 23, 2006 6:02 am
Damn, jade! I never realized you had to put up with the KKK. You be careful. I know that the news really kind of dramatizes things, but I know that when they *do* report stuff on radical racists and the KKK, it's bad. (I live about 3 hours away from Jasper. Maybe a bit more.) And I know what they do there is pretty damn bad. Be careful, okay? heart
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 6:44 pm
i'm a ough old bird.. but don't live im podunk alabama any more.. i live in the devil's sweaty armpit, arizona xp
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 8:52 pm
Wow, the KKK, thats pretty bad. We have a place thats not very far away from my house, guess what its called? The Kompact Kar Korner. That is how its spelled, they think they are being sneaky, but in Washington, we are smarter than that.
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Posted: Tue Apr 25, 2006 11:14 pm
Someone somewhere can see a HUGE plume of black smoke out her window, wondering what happened. eek
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 7:10 am
Kekewey Saew someone somewhere is debating about offering some gold for a flyer to pass around town
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 7:15 am
Someone somewhere is listening to Butch Walker (the god of music) and eating a huge chunk of the brownie she made last night, while being cuddled by her two warm, fuzzy kitties.
This all goes to making her a happy chickie.
Now if her house would only clean itself.
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Posted: Wed Apr 26, 2006 7:34 am
someone somewhere is really hungry but has no food in the house :S
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