How do you deal with bullies?

[Dark moonflower]

I've been bullied once or twice but i bully them back... that's my way to get my own back i guess lol or either i just say "yeah what ever" lol whee  

[Princess of Ember]

stare you do realise he likes you at least a bit. he probably doing this because he doesnt want you to notice him drooling over you wink

But If i were in your position I would probably flip him off or kick him where it really hurts or play his own game 3nodding

BTW: this is just a theory he might not like but I doubt it. it's looked like he is smitten... whoa i sounded like my grandma for a second there  

[ChaosGENE]

Sildrag

Of course he usually says that only to my little borther...I'm too G to get picked on. cool

Dude, your dad is a tough man.

xDD
I can really believe that--seriously

It doesn't matter if you lose in a fight. If you fight till the end, and lose, people will recognize you as a "Sweet Jeebus...dude, don't pick a fight with that guy--he's a beast"

Tell your bro that--I think that's valuable information  

[Sildrag]

ChaosGENE

Sildrag

Of course he usually says that only to my little borther...I'm too G to get picked on. cool

Dude, your dad is a tough man.

xDD
I can really believe that--seriously

It doesn't matter if you lose in a fight. If you fight till the end, and lose, people will recognize you as a "Sweet Jeebus...dude, don't pick a fight with that guy--he's a beast"

Tell your bro that--I think that's valuable information

lol yea he knows  

[kendra_lovesyou]

give em a cooookie. <3  

[cinimun122]

punch the bullie right?  

[.Mikemo Cat-Boy]

one word....
SHLAP!!...
solves all your bullying problems...

slapping hand not included...  

[taikemaru]

just ignore him girl cmon just ignore him and he will learn you are emtionless when you are not?i dont know?  

[Raioga]

Raioga

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO
INSTRUCTIONS:

I am 95% sure that this guy isn't a bully, but he likes you.

bamboowitch

There is someone at my school who has been contantly insulting me ever since i met him, however he is not bullying just me but anyone practically. But the only difference is that he adds extra insults for me because i'm chinese and its really irritating me. (the racist insults are the usual... like "Speak english beucase in OUR country thatw what we speak"
and when i do he's like "Pardon me" and laughs at me etc)
I can't do anything because when i try and speak morals with him... he laughs at my face...(no suprise there considering he's an senceless idiot)
I have reported the incidents to my tutor and my year head but despite him apologising to me, after a while he continued to harass me... and its really getting out of hand because he has crushed my pride and dignity and i feel hopeless because he doesn't care whether he's been reported or anything considering the fact he constantly pulls pratical jokes on my old maths teacher whom has no directional hearing... how can you deal with a person who even when confronted by his seniors doen't change, even if his parents are informed? How can one make a bully fell guilty for his deads when he cares about no one's opinon of him?

Things he's done to bully me:

Bully: Has any one told you you're really beautiful
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Is that a yes or a no?
Me: Go away, I want to do my work
Bully: You know you should be a porn star since you're so beautiful
There is a hidden compliment

Bully: oh so our history teacher isn't here is he?
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Oh i can't wait, i can sit next to you this lesson and we could have sex with each other.
Me: (screams a load of random chinese words at him...)
Bully: (laughs like a efffing idiot he is)
Why do you think he said he wants to have sex with you? Because it's true. It's not an insult. If you asked him, he would be astonished and then say yes!!!

Bully Friend 1: Dare you to hug her
Bully: (laughs)
Me: (walks away from them)
A little while later when i need to ask some help for the teacher... the ******** pervert hugs me! So i kicked him in the privates and punched his face and he laughes with his friends at me... My friend tries to confront the bully but since the buly is far taller than him... he gets pushed away so i scream a load of stuff at the bully but yet again he laughs at me...
(I told my mum this and she said it was good that i kicked him because you shouldn't let perverted twisted bullies away with things like that)
(OK, how is a hug offensive or classified as bullying,harrasment etc... the anwser is simple, when you don't want the hug, when the person who is hugging you did it to provoke your anger[I don't usually hug anyone outside my family and i absolutely hate the idea of hugging the opposite sex even if they are you're friend yet alone someone who has contantly bullied you!] and its not in my blood to embrace someone outside my familly in many cases...)
You remind me of someone who is exactly like you, but I didn't insult her and I didn't hug her (I was too shy). She hates me nevertheless, as well as the rest of the male gender. You were right to kick him. He wants to draw your attention at him. (Is he really that bad? Why don't you talk to him in private? Call him somewhere, where there is no one and ask him, if he likes you. talk!)

Bully: I'm just going to stand here with you becuase your my friend
Me: (moves away) Why? maybe you should confront your conflict.
Bully: oh you want to go here
Me: Go away...i'm not your friend Then make him a friend. If he's a friend, he want bully you.
Bully: Oh yeah.. we're the best of friends
Me: Go away now... you're annoying me, i wil never be a friend to the likes of you!
Bully: Now now, you're getting all angry and worked up.. you need to learn to calm down... don't get so fustrated, its bad for your health!
Me: Shut up and go! I'm serious!
Bully: You shoould go see an pshyciatrist
Me: ******** off.. serioucly i'm not you bloody friend now go away don't you understand?
Bully: (laughs again)

The f***ing b*****d (mind my language) was having an "intelligent convasation" REALLY LOUDLY about how asain eyes look like and then commented as if i were invisible that i must be japanese because my eyes aren't chinesey.... he then laughed really irratibly and all i did was stare at him until i finally could'nt stand his effing rubbish and shouted in Chinese at him for ages then stormed off in front of the classs... I effing hate that guy.
oh reeeeaaaaly?

When I told my teacher of the incidents, she said i should try ignoring him... STUPID IDEAbut when i did that he believed i was deaf and so my friends back me up and get themselves bullied so that I felt so guilty about them being shouted at I told the bully to go away and stop bullying me... So in the end i'm unsble to ignore him because he'll just hurt the people who stick up for me...
When I told my teacher again... she asked whether a "convasation" with the bully would help so that i could point all the annoying things he does.... basically she's asking me whether i want the chance to publically humuliate him and make him feel guilty for his wrong doings but at the same time theres a risk i'm the one who's going to be bullied more if he knows how annoyed i am at him.

Discuss
Do you get bullied like this?
How do you deal with bullies like this?
Have you got any advice for me to deal with the matter?
Anything related to the topic...

girl girl, there are other ways. I thought you would be bullied, but this is just a guy, who likes you, but doesn't know how to express his feelings for you.

Here is what you can do:
-Go to him and take him somewhere, where there are none of his or your friends. (So you don't get influenced by others)
-Tell him that he can be your friend only if he will speak a little chinese. (Teach him to say ''ni hao'' ''ni hao ma'' ''wo hen hao'' ''ni qu na er'' ''ni zai gan shen me''. Give him a paper with these words to learn. If he learns this he will be your friend. Tell him to come tomorrow and start a conversation in chinese)
-NEXT DAY. he will say nihao and you can talk to him. Tell him that if he is your friend, he should not insult you. Ask him if he likes you.
-(Imagine if he would be ''normal'' would it be fine for you to have him as a friend. If yes, why you don't go to cinema together, or somewhere else? It is up to you)

 

[Sildrag]

Raioga

Raioga

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO
INSTRUCTIONS:

I am 95% sure that this guy isn't a bully, but he likes you.

bamboowitch

There is someone at my school who has been contantly insulting me ever since i met him, however he is not bullying just me but anyone practically. But the only difference is that he adds extra insults for me because i'm chinese and its really irritating me. (the racist insults are the usual... like "Speak english beucase in OUR country thatw what we speak"
and when i do he's like "Pardon me" and laughs at me etc)
I can't do anything because when i try and speak morals with him... he laughs at my face...(no suprise there considering he's an senceless idiot)
I have reported the incidents to my tutor and my year head but despite him apologising to me, after a while he continued to harass me... and its really getting out of hand because he has crushed my pride and dignity and i feel hopeless because he doesn't care whether he's been reported or anything considering the fact he constantly pulls pratical jokes on my old maths teacher whom has no directional hearing... how can you deal with a person who even when confronted by his seniors doen't change, even if his parents are informed? How can one make a bully fell guilty for his deads when he cares about no one's opinon of him?

Things he's done to bully me:

Bully: Has any one told you you're really beautiful
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Is that a yes or a no?
Me: Go away, I want to do my work
Bully: You know you should be a porn star since you're so beautiful
There is a hidden compliment

Bully: oh so our history teacher isn't here is he?
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Oh i can't wait, i can sit next to you this lesson and we could have sex with each other.
Me: (screams a load of random chinese words at him...)
Bully: (laughs like a efffing idiot he is)
Why do you think he said he wants to have sex with you? Because it's true. It's not an insult. If you asked him, he would be astonished and then say yes!!!

Bully Friend 1: Dare you to hug her
Bully: (laughs)
Me: (walks away from them)
A little while later when i need to ask some help for the teacher... the ******** pervert hugs me! So i kicked him in the privates and punched his face and he laughes with his friends at me... My friend tries to confront the bully but since the buly is far taller than him... he gets pushed away so i scream a load of stuff at the bully but yet again he laughs at me...
(I told my mum this and she said it was good that i kicked him because you shouldn't let perverted twisted bullies away with things like that)
(OK, how is a hug offensive or classified as bullying,harrasment etc... the anwser is simple, when you don't want the hug, when the person who is hugging you did it to provoke your anger[I don't usually hug anyone outside my family and i absolutely hate the idea of hugging the opposite sex even if they are you're friend yet alone someone who has contantly bullied you!] and its not in my blood to embrace someone outside my familly in many cases...)
You remind me of someone who is exactly like you, but I didn't insult her and I didn't hug her (I was too shy). She hates me nevertheless, as well as the rest of the male gender. You were right to kick him. He wants to draw your attention at him. (Is he really that bad? Why don't you talk to him in private? Call him somewhere, where there is no one and ask him, if he likes you. talk!)

Bully: I'm just going to stand here with you becuase your my friend
Me: (moves away) Why? maybe you should confront your conflict.
Bully: oh you want to go here
Me: Go away...i'm not your friend Then make him a friend. If he's a friend, he want bully you.
Bully: Oh yeah.. we're the best of friends
Me: Go away now... you're annoying me, i wil never be a friend to the likes of you!
Bully: Now now, you're getting all angry and worked up.. you need to learn to calm down... don't get so fustrated, its bad for your health!
Me: Shut up and go! I'm serious!
Bully: You shoould go see an pshyciatrist
Me: ******** off.. serioucly i'm not you bloody friend now go away don't you understand?
Bully: (laughs again)

The f***ing b*****d (mind my language) was having an "intelligent convasation" REALLY LOUDLY about how asain eyes look like and then commented as if i were invisible that i must be japanese because my eyes aren't chinesey.... he then laughed really irratibly and all i did was stare at him until i finally could'nt stand his effing rubbish and shouted in Chinese at him for ages then stormed off in front of the classs... I effing hate that guy.
oh reeeeaaaaly?

When I told my teacher of the incidents, she said i should try ignoring him... STUPID IDEAbut when i did that he believed i was deaf and so my friends back me up and get themselves bullied so that I felt so guilty about them being shouted at I told the bully to go away and stop bullying me... So in the end i'm unsble to ignore him because he'll just hurt the people who stick up for me...
When I told my teacher again... she asked whether a "convasation" with the bully would help so that i could point all the annoying things he does.... basically she's asking me whether i want the chance to publically humuliate him and make him feel guilty for his wrong doings but at the same time theres a risk i'm the one who's going to be bullied more if he knows how annoyed i am at him.

Discuss
Do you get bullied like this?
How do you deal with bullies like this?
Have you got any advice for me to deal with the matter?
Anything related to the topic...

girl girl, there are other ways. I thought you would be bullied, but this is just a guy, who likes you, but doesn't know how to express his feelings for you.

Here is what you can do:
-Go to him and take him somewhere, where there are none of his or your friends. (So you don't get influenced by others)
-Tell him that he can be your friend only if he will speak a little chinese. (Teach him to say ''ni hao'' ''ni hao ma'' ''wo hen hao'' ''ni qu na er'' ''ni zai gan shen me''. Give him a paper with these words to learn. If he learns this he will be your friend. Tell him to come tomorrow and start a conversation in chinese)
-NEXT DAY. he will say nihao and you can talk to him. Tell him that if he is your friend, he should not insult you. Ask him if he likes you.
-(Imagine if he would be ''normal'' would it be fine for you to have him as a friend. If yes, why you don't go to cinema together, or somewhere else? It is up to you)

wtf?! lol dude that's the most childish way of thinking ever....lol. no offense but that kind of thing doesn't work in real life.....  

[Kawaii_Kenji]

taikemaru

just ignore him girl cmon just ignore him and he will learn you are emtionless when you are not?i dont know?

That would work or make it worse. He would think she more helpless if she tried to ignore him.  

[Cindybobnimrod]

Ledah(Grim Angle)

Cindybobnimrod

Sapek

I'll say don't even try to mess up with someone that totally diffrent from you or you just might get your own medicine

I disagree. In this case, at least.

This guy's picking on her nonstop in immature and idiotic ways without any legitimate reason. You really think she should just stand by and take this?

I guess your right for women it is hard....But for men who like to settle the score with a fight that is the final solution

Excuse me?! You obviously do not know what you're saying. I'm violent at times... trying to break that habit... My friend, she has kicked too many sorry asses to count. I've pushed her out of it a bit, but... You do not know how violent she was, and how much she would hurt you if she heard you say that back last year when she was very sadistic.

God. Don't be so biased. Do you know how many people are in the world? Goshhh.

[/off topic], um. Wow, I just read through a bunch of pages... Really, there's a bunch of things I would think of and quickly dismiss without any further consideration... Like him liking you. O_O That would make some sense...

It's been a while. Problem solved yet? Hope so, good luck <3.  

[Special Agent Nishin]

I beat the s**t out of them... Yeah.  

[Raioga]

Sildrag

Raioga

Raioga

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO
INSTRUCTIONS:

I am 95% sure that this guy isn't a bully, but he likes you.

bamboowitch

There is someone at my school who has been contantly insulting me ever since i met him, however he is not bullying just me but anyone practically. But the only difference is that he adds extra insults for me because i'm chinese and its really irritating me. (the racist insults are the usual... like "Speak english beucase in OUR country thatw what we speak"
and when i do he's like "Pardon me" and laughs at me etc)
I can't do anything because when i try and speak morals with him... he laughs at my face...(no suprise there considering he's an senceless idiot)
I have reported the incidents to my tutor and my year head but despite him apologising to me, after a while he continued to harass me... and its really getting out of hand because he has crushed my pride and dignity and i feel hopeless because he doesn't care whether he's been reported or anything considering the fact he constantly pulls pratical jokes on my old maths teacher whom has no directional hearing... how can you deal with a person who even when confronted by his seniors doen't change, even if his parents are informed? How can one make a bully fell guilty for his deads when he cares about no one's opinon of him?

Things he's done to bully me:

Bully: Has any one told you you're really beautiful
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Is that a yes or a no?
Me: Go away, I want to do my work
Bully: You know you should be a porn star since you're so beautiful
There is a hidden compliment

Bully: oh so our history teacher isn't here is he?
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Oh i can't wait, i can sit next to you this lesson and we could have sex with each other.
Me: (screams a load of random chinese words at him...)
Bully: (laughs like a efffing idiot he is)
Why do you think he said he wants to have sex with you? Because it's true. It's not an insult. If you asked him, he would be astonished and then say yes!!!

Bully Friend 1: Dare you to hug her
Bully: (laughs)
Me: (walks away from them)
A little while later when i need to ask some help for the teacher... the ******** pervert hugs me! So i kicked him in the privates and punched his face and he laughes with his friends at me... My friend tries to confront the bully but since the buly is far taller than him... he gets pushed away so i scream a load of stuff at the bully but yet again he laughs at me...
(I told my mum this and she said it was good that i kicked him because you shouldn't let perverted twisted bullies away with things like that)
(OK, how is a hug offensive or classified as bullying,harrasment etc... the anwser is simple, when you don't want the hug, when the person who is hugging you did it to provoke your anger[I don't usually hug anyone outside my family and i absolutely hate the idea of hugging the opposite sex even if they are you're friend yet alone someone who has contantly bullied you!] and its not in my blood to embrace someone outside my familly in many cases...)
You remind me of someone who is exactly like you, but I didn't insult her and I didn't hug her (I was too shy). She hates me nevertheless, as well as the rest of the male gender. You were right to kick him. He wants to draw your attention at him. (Is he really that bad? Why don't you talk to him in private? Call him somewhere, where there is no one and ask him, if he likes you. talk!)

Bully: I'm just going to stand here with you becuase your my friend
Me: (moves away) Why? maybe you should confront your conflict.
Bully: oh you want to go here
Me: Go away...i'm not your friend Then make him a friend. If he's a friend, he want bully you.
Bully: Oh yeah.. we're the best of friends
Me: Go away now... you're annoying me, i wil never be a friend to the likes of you!
Bully: Now now, you're getting all angry and worked up.. you need to learn to calm down... don't get so fustrated, its bad for your health!
Me: Shut up and go! I'm serious!
Bully: You shoould go see an pshyciatrist
Me: ******** off.. serioucly i'm not you bloody friend now go away don't you understand?
Bully: (laughs again)

The f***ing b*****d (mind my language) was having an "intelligent convasation" REALLY LOUDLY about how asain eyes look like and then commented as if i were invisible that i must be japanese because my eyes aren't chinesey.... he then laughed really irratibly and all i did was stare at him until i finally could'nt stand his effing rubbish and shouted in Chinese at him for ages then stormed off in front of the classs... I effing hate that guy.
oh reeeeaaaaly?

When I told my teacher of the incidents, she said i should try ignoring him... STUPID IDEAbut when i did that he believed i was deaf and so my friends back me up and get themselves bullied so that I felt so guilty about them being shouted at I told the bully to go away and stop bullying me... So in the end i'm unsble to ignore him because he'll just hurt the people who stick up for me...
When I told my teacher again... she asked whether a "convasation" with the bully would help so that i could point all the annoying things he does.... basically she's asking me whether i want the chance to publically humuliate him and make him feel guilty for his wrong doings but at the same time theres a risk i'm the one who's going to be bullied more if he knows how annoyed i am at him.

Discuss
Do you get bullied like this?
How do you deal with bullies like this?
Have you got any advice for me to deal with the matter?
Anything related to the topic...

girl girl, there are other ways. I thought you would be bullied, but this is just a guy, who likes you, but doesn't know how to express his feelings for you.

Here is what you can do:
-Go to him and take him somewhere, where there are none of his or your friends. (So you don't get influenced by others)
-Tell him that he can be your friend only if he will speak a little chinese. (Teach him to say ''ni hao'' ''ni hao ma'' ''wo hen hao'' ''ni qu na er'' ''ni zai gan shen me''. Give him a paper with these words to learn. If he learns this he will be your friend. Tell him to come tomorrow and start a conversation in chinese)
-NEXT DAY. he will say nihao and you can talk to him. Tell him that if he is your friend, he should not insult you. Ask him if he likes you.
-(Imagine if he would be ''normal'' would it be fine for you to have him as a friend. If yes, why you don't go to cinema together, or somewhere else? It is up to you)

wtf?! lol dude that's the most childish way of thinking ever....lol. no offense but that kind of thing doesn't work in real life.....

Whatever. I have said what to do to make him stop insulting her. Childish or not, I know what to do.

Anyway, this guy behaves quite childish, so I think he's maybe 13,14 or maximum 15 years old. So she must be at that age too.

It will work then.  

[Ledah(Grim Angel)]

If you ignore them and still being bullied tell your teacher this is a peaceful solution or if the bully still give you a threat fight back and if you a weak one talk with them for a better solution