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 Posted: Sat Oct 15, 2005 5:40 pm
m'kay i am like "chubby" but like i am mostly "top heavy" ( from the waist up i guess), and like i am somewhat tall i am 5'7 1/4 and like i weigh like 260-70 ish. Like i am healthy i eat right and exercise when i can but like i have had numerious very skinny friends tell me that like i look fine, but like my family constantly tell me that i am fat and whatnot. So like its soo messed up that everytime you turn on the tv that like you see someone who is like a 2 and most of the ppl at my school are skinny. Like there is a like certain "look" that big ppl get and it is really taken a toll on my self-esteem. I am really confused about what to do crying *sobb* soo like any suggestions????? plz pm them to me
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Posted: Mon Oct 17, 2005 10:51 pm
I just sent you a Pm...But going back to the question I dont know why people FEAR fat with such a blind intensity. Yes, there are risks (when you become severly obese or your family has a history of fat related illnesses) but otherwise, if you watch your health you'll be fine. I personally perfer the larger females. I mean, one of my friends is currently gaining and wants to reach 400 by late december. Most people look at a person like that and would probably be disgusted. But why is that? How come its acceptable for a human to lose weight in excess and not to gain in excess. I mean, at the forefront, health is always an issue. As long as your health is intact and stable I say you should be free to do whatever you want with your body. Its about preferences. And society perfers people to be thin. Fat is NOT a bad thing. Morbid Obesity on the other hand is, lol.
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