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What are you talking about? I don't know what to discuss! JoVo basically took a shotgun to my head and shot me on the last thing I was trying to prove. (Doesn't he do that with everything?)

[Not that it's bad. It's just that JoVo's more educated than everyone else. Or he'd good at convincing. It seems it's a micture of the two with more emphasis on the latter, given the way he writes.]

I am mistaken:
1. nios
1. agreeing/aknowledging something.
2. a greeting.
3. describing something - add ly
4. used in conjunction with murr
5. can be added to the end of a word to give it greater meaning
1. going to the movies tonight?
nios
2. dude!
nios!
3. we did it niosly
4. lets murr niosly
5. that s**t is phatinios
Source: Baer, Sep 21, 2003

Do you read every single post? xp

heh... sadly enough, that pertains to myself. I could not imagine myself with someone that sits in the middle. Where they want to be one, or are one, but supposed to be the other. It kinda of ... I dunno, it's such a foreign idea, that you could have someone that looks like a man, but is physically a woman, or vica versa... It would just scare me to find that out after I start something,

There is always that instance where they want you to love them before they break it to you though. Everyone has their secrets that they don't want to tell people until they are together, and in a loving relationship.

I mean, I'll even say it... My secret, is I'm really not interested in sex from a relationship right now. I'm more likely the one to say no.

Ya, for that first day, I chose not to attempt to even kiss orry, though it was on his mind xp
I mean, ya, it had crossed my mind, but I decided it best to take things slow, I'm just dissappointed that it won't likely go anywhere yet. We really did click, I know we did...

Oh, how I've missed this guild! If only I had internet at home and the time to spend on gaia. I am so in need of conversations like this. Anyway, I just wanted to put in my two cents on the topic, as a pansexual genderqueer, though you've all done a great job of explaining.

I identified with bisexuality until about a year or so ago, which is when I started to use the term pansexual for myself. Most people understand bisexual to mean having attractions to men and women. However, pansexuality encompasses attraction to other gender identities, such as genderqueers like myself. This is not to say that bisexuals don't have attractions to alternate genders from man and woman, but pansexuality is a term that acknowledges that there are more than two genders to love.

I myself am open to the possibility of falling in love with any person, regardless of what gender they identify with. I have my preferences, but I don't discriminate partners based on gender.

I also don't descriminate based on sex, either, especially since there is no way I can claim to have knowledge of one's physical sex. I don't even know HOW to determine someone's sex. Is it in combinations of x and y chromosomes? Is it in genitalia? How many combinations are there, anyway? By the way, none of that matters to me anyway. I don't care about someone's chromosomes or genitalia - in a relationship it's all about the personality of the person I'm with.

And as for pleasuring one another - this can be done in such a wide variety of ways, why should I limit it to any particular combination(s) of body part stimulation? I think it's better to leave my options open to new and different experiences, because I never know what will be stimulating until I've tried it (or perhaps thought about it).

Anyway, I've gotten off track and I don't think I've added anything significant to the topic. I hope to have internet at home soon so I can get into more of these conversations, but until then, I <3 you all!