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Hey, same with me. I pretty much never thought I would be giving a b*****b anytime soon and I thought I'd be way too nervous to but I ended up giving one, anyway, to my bf. It actually wasn't bad at all and once you've done it, it really doesn't seem like as big of a deal. Yeah, the taste of c** is a little gross (but nothing you can't take in your mouth for a few seconds and then spit out) but if you really love the guy, it's totally worth it for his satisfaction (my bf always gets this look on his face which I love)....

Look at the sites at the beginning of this thread that say how to if you're interested because there's some really helpful tips there.

I personally don't like a**l sex, and have no interest in ever trying it. But that's just me. There's nothing wrong with it though, as long as the people involved are being responsible and safe about it.

I'd talk to a doctor, or a psychologist. Maybe it's psychologically related, because I've never heard of penetration/intercourse making someone feel sick before. Maybe it stems from the fact that you're not quite comfortable with yourself, in which case it might be wise to stop doing sexually-related things until you are more comfortable with yourself and your body.

I would just like to share my views on a**l sex.

If a guy asked me this time last year if he could give me a**l I would have cringed and said "get away from me"

A few months ago I was with a partner, I have NO idea why I even agreed but we ended up having a**l. It was my first time and he had been with two other girls in that way. That night we had a**l sex, it was the most fantastic sex I had ever had! Sadly, he was better while giving me a**l than he was vaginal sex. We tried again the next morning, but I was too sore, which is ok for a first tiem as the a**s obviously isn't used to having a p***s up it!!!

Ever since then, I have loved a**l, we tried it again another time, with fingering also. And again he was better with a**l than vaginal sex.

A few months later I have tried a**l with another guy, this guy isn't as good as I was the first person he did it to.

Also, one night we were both off our face and he let me finger his a**, I also have a small vibrator that I used on him...Now he's disgusted and hates it when I bring it up.

I tried a**l sex once. By "tried" I mean my fiance's p***s touched my a**s and I started screaming. That was the end of that. It just felt too uncomfortable. Maybe we'll try again someday. Although I doubt it. He may not look it when he's wearing clothes, but he's still a big Russian man in some ways sweatdrop Even after half a decade of being sexually active with him, I'm still always sore after sex. So a**l... xp

As for oral, that's fine. I done enjoy getting it too much. I much prefer fingers. I enjoy giving it well enough. My jaw muscles get really tired pretty quickly, though. As for the taste, we've found that jam works really well (condenced milk, on the other hand, tastes absolutly HORRIBLE when mixed with c**).

I've personally never had a**l sex but my husband asked me last night if we could try it...if I liked it we could use it as a substitute for sex while I'm on my period. I use tampons so I don't think this will cause problems. Though I'm still not sure if it's going to hurt like it did when I lost my virginity.

As for oral sex....I despise blowjobs even though I give my hubby one every now and then....he gives it to me all the time...usually when he doesn't I don't orgasm...I have been wondering why oral sex is the only stimulant to let me have an orgasm...???
Does anyone have any kind of answers to this question?
If you can't find an adult toy store are there any other products out there that would be a reliable substitute to say a d***o or something?

Just curious....kinda sad considering I'm 23 years old as of tommorrow.
Please help me learn what I need to know....I never make a decision like this with out finding out as much as possible and I'm to embarrased to go to the library or talk with someone. I don't have to many people that I trust like that...if anyone for that matter.