How do you deal with bullies?

[ChaosGENE]

You know what? I just thought of something.

Fight fire with fire. Screw up his locker, rip out pages of his homework, do everything that could make highschool for him a living hell. When you get sent to the office, tell them the truth, and if you do tell the truth, it'll be him who gets in trouble and you're doing all of this to him because of what he's done.

Don't feel bad you're beeing called "Ching, chang, Chung" because I get the same thing, and I physicially get bullied from a "Friend" who gets anger management, and he's my partner in class...

Do whatever it takes to show out that what you're doing is because of what he's doing. Because sometimes, the first trip to the office isn't really big, but if you continue what you're doing, the principles bound to ask what's going on.

Keep your chin up and look foward. That guy's just a big obstacle in your life and ever obsacle could be overcome. 3nodding
 

[Zhouyu21]

Oo I dunno..he's just a prat I guess, just ignore him. People at my school would respect instead cuz they know Chinese people can fight properly! >:D

And I won't suggest fight fire with fire other than spin-kick round his face. xD (jk) The point I'm trying to make is to go and learn some martial arts, they'll fear you for life for certain. :D

 

[ChaosGENE]

Yeah...or maybe, try a (I know you have already, but try again!) swift kick in the balls. I mean like BAM! Like you've been charging up for this shot. And if it's like a critical, I'm sure he'll never ******** with you again.

Like Zhouyu said, martial arts could work, but try something really quick.  

[Sildrag]

ChaosGENE

You know what? I just thought of something.

Fight fire with fire. Screw up his locker, rip out pages of his homework, do everything that could make highschool for him a living hell. When you get sent to the office, tell them the truth, and if you do tell the truth, it'll be him who gets in trouble and you're doing all of this to him because of what he's done.

Don't feel bad you're beeing called "Ching, chang, Chung" because I get the same thing, and I physicially get bullied from a "Friend" who gets anger management, and he's my partner in class...

Do whatever it takes to show out that what you're doing is because of what he's doing. Because sometimes, the first trip to the office isn't really big, but if you continue what you're doing, the principles bound to ask what's going on.

Keep your chin up and look foward. That guy's just a big obstacle in your life and ever obsacle could be overcome. 3nodding

Dude, if I ever meet you in real life I think we'll be good friends.... biggrin  

[ChaosGENE]

Sildrag

ChaosGENE

You know what? I just thought of something.

Fight fire with fire. Screw up his locker, rip out pages of his homework, do everything that could make highschool for him a living hell. When you get sent to the office, tell them the truth, and if you do tell the truth, it'll be him who gets in trouble and you're doing all of this to him because of what he's done.

Don't feel bad you're beeing called "Ching, chang, Chung" because I get the same thing, and I physicially get bullied from a "Friend" who gets anger management, and he's my partner in class...

Do whatever it takes to show out that what you're doing is because of what he's doing. Because sometimes, the first trip to the office isn't really big, but if you continue what you're doing, the principles bound to ask what's going on.

Keep your chin up and look foward. That guy's just a big obstacle in your life and ever obsacle could be overcome. 3nodding

Dude, if I ever meet you in real life I think we'll be good friends.... biggrin

Yeah man! Know what I'm saying?!
xDD
Two asians with the same mind. A beautiful combo.
I need you on my buddy list...brb xD  

[Sildrag]

ChaosGENE

Sildrag

ChaosGENE

You know what? I just thought of something.

Fight fire with fire. Screw up his locker, rip out pages of his homework, do everything that could make highschool for him a living hell. When you get sent to the office, tell them the truth, and if you do tell the truth, it'll be him who gets in trouble and you're doing all of this to him because of what he's done.

Don't feel bad you're beeing called "Ching, chang, Chung" because I get the same thing, and I physicially get bullied from a "Friend" who gets anger management, and he's my partner in class...

Do whatever it takes to show out that what you're doing is because of what he's doing. Because sometimes, the first trip to the office isn't really big, but if you continue what you're doing, the principles bound to ask what's going on.

Keep your chin up and look foward. That guy's just a big obstacle in your life and ever obsacle could be overcome. 3nodding

Dude, if I ever meet you in real life I think we'll be good friends.... biggrin

Yeah man! Know what I'm saying?!
xDD
Two asians with the same mind. A beautiful combo.
I need you on my buddy list...brb xD

lol i always find it beneficial to make friends who aren't afraid to take a more aggressive approach when working towards solutions...  

[ChaosGENE]

My uncle told me something related to that
"Sometimes, you gotta step up the plate and take action"

That's a quote exactly from his mouth.  

[Sildrag]

lol its a good one  

[Sildrag]

My dad usually says
"You can just stand there and get your a** beat and look like a weak wimp to everyone watching. Or you can fight back(lose) and just look weak."  

[Sildrag]

Of course he usually says that only to my little borther...I'm too G to get picked on. cool  

[sailormiki6454]

I don't deal with bullies. There really aren't any at my school. There r only jerks, idiots, n assholes. Yup.  

[Raioga]

HERE IS WHAT YOU CAN DO
INSTRUCTIONS:

I am 95% sure that this guy isn't a bully, but he likes you.

bamboowitch

There is someone at my school who has been contantly insulting me ever since i met him, however he is not bullying just me but anyone practically. But the only difference is that he adds extra insults for me because i'm chinese and its really irritating me. (the racist insults are the usual... like "Speak english beucase in OUR country thatw what we speak"
and when i do he's like "Pardon me" and laughs at me etc)
I can't do anything because when i try and speak morals with him... he laughs at my face...(no suprise there considering he's an senceless idiot)
I have reported the incidents to my tutor and my year head but despite him apologising to me, after a while he continued to harass me... and its really getting out of hand because he has crushed my pride and dignity and i feel hopeless because he doesn't care whether he's been reported or anything considering the fact he constantly pulls pratical jokes on my old maths teacher whom has no directional hearing... how can you deal with a person who even when confronted by his seniors doen't change, even if his parents are informed? How can one make a bully fell guilty for his deads when he cares about no one's opinon of him?

Things he's done to bully me:

Bully: Has any one told you you're really beautiful
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Is that a yes or a no?
Me: Go away, I want to do my work
Bully: You know you should be a porn star since you're so beautiful
There is a hidden compliment

Bully: oh so our history teacher isn't here is he?
Me: (ignores)
Bully: Oh i can't wait, i can sit next to you this lesson and we could have sex with each other.
Me: (screams a load of random chinese words at him...)
Bully: (laughs like a efffing idiot he is)
Why do you think he said he wants to have sex with you? Because it's true. It's not an insult. If you asked him, he would be astonished and then say yes!!!

Bully Friend 1: Dare you to hug her
Bully: (laughs)
Me: (walks away from them)
A little while later when i need to ask some help for the teacher... the ******** pervert hugs me! So i kicked him in the privates and punched his face and he laughes with his friends at me... My friend tries to confront the bully but since the buly is far taller than him... he gets pushed away so i scream a load of stuff at the bully but yet again he laughs at me...
(I told my mum this and she said it was good that i kicked him because you shouldn't let perverted twisted bullies away with things like that)
(OK, how is a hug offensive or classified as bullying,harrasment etc... the anwser is simple, when you don't want the hug, when the person who is hugging you did it to provoke your anger[I don't usually hug anyone outside my family and i absolutely hate the idea of hugging the opposite sex even if they are you're friend yet alone someone who has contantly bullied you!] and its not in my blood to embrace someone outside my familly in many cases...)
You remind me of someone who is exactly like you, but I didn't insult her and I didn't hug her (I was too shy). She hates me nevertheless, as well as the rest of the male gender. You were right to kick him. He wants to draw your attention at him. (Is he really that bad? Why don't you talk to him in private? Call him somewhere, where there is no one and ask him, if he likes you. talk!)

Bully: I'm just going to stand here with you becuase your my friend
Me: (moves away) Why? maybe you should confront your conflict.
Bully: oh you want to go here
Me: Go away...i'm not your friend Then make him a friend. If he's a friend, he want bully you.
Bully: Oh yeah.. we're the best of friends
Me: Go away now... you're annoying me, i wil never be a friend to the likes of you!
Bully: Now now, you're getting all angry and worked up.. you need to learn to calm down... don't get so fustrated, its bad for your health!
Me: Shut up and go! I'm serious!
Bully: You shoould go see an pshyciatrist
Me: ******** off.. serioucly i'm not you bloody friend now go away don't you understand?
Bully: (laughs again)

The f***ing b*****d (mind my language) was having an "intelligent convasation" REALLY LOUDLY about how asain eyes look like and then commented as if i were invisible that i must be japanese because my eyes aren't chinesey.... he then laughed really irratibly and all i did was stare at him until i finally could'nt stand his effing rubbish and shouted in Chinese at him for ages then stormed off in front of the classs... I effing hate that guy.
oh reeeeaaaaly?

When I told my teacher of the incidents, she said i should try ignoring him... STUPID IDEAbut when i did that he believed i was deaf and so my friends back me up and get themselves bullied so that I felt so guilty about them being shouted at I told the bully to go away and stop bullying me... So in the end i'm unsble to ignore him because he'll just hurt the people who stick up for me...
When I told my teacher again... she asked whether a "convasation" with the bully would help so that i could point all the annoying things he does.... basically she's asking me whether i want the chance to publically humuliate him and make him feel guilty for his wrong doings but at the same time theres a risk i'm the one who's going to be bullied more if he knows how annoyed i am at him.

Discuss
Do you get bullied like this?
How do you deal with bullies like this?
Have you got any advice for me to deal with the matter?
Anything related to the topic...

girl girl, there are other ways. I thought you would be bullied, but this is just a guy, who likes you, but doesn't know how to express his feelings for you.

Here is what you can do:
-Go to him and take him somewhere, where there are none of his or your friends. (So you don't get influenced by others)
-Tell him that he can be your friend only if he will speak a little chinese. (Teach him to say ''ni hao'' ''ni hao ma'' ''wo hen hao'' ''ni qu na er'' ''ni zai gan shen me''. Give him a paper with these words to learn. If he learns this he will be your friend. Tell him to come tomorrow and start a conversation in chinese)
-NEXT DAY. he will say nihao and you can talk to him. Tell him that if he is your friend, he should not insult you. Ask him if he likes you.
-(Imagine if he would be ''normal'' would it be fine for you to have him as a friend. If yes, why you don't go to cinema together, or somewhere else? It is up to you)
 

[Raioga]

Yoko Hino

Jhay-R

Yeah, kid got on me nerves, but never did I show it. Then, finally, the damn b***h said that she thought the Philippines was full of idiotic barbarians... So close to taking the Butterfly knife, and slice her up like the barbarian she thinks I am.


Way I dealed with it was just ignoring her, and walking away. The idiots just want to make themselves feel big by making others feel small. Just don't go on a physcopathic killing spree and stuff, that doesn't solve git.
Just try and forget the queer, man. And maybe even cuss him out in Chinese and English, that's what I always did, and it's worked.

damn how dare they insult the Philippinoes!!!! (i'm full blooded philippino ^^) evil (okie i make fun of my culture a little but it's just a joke sweatdrop But thats over the damn line evil !!!! that is so racist!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!)

blood is...
...nothing

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[Penguinone]

Use pepper spray or beat the crap out of him? If you get in trouble by the school then complain to them that they haven't done anything to help you.
If the school still wont listen to you, then go to court. And sue all them white people that hurt you! Especially that bully. Sue him until he lives out in the streets. twisted .... Meh. Not really. From the looks of it, he seems to be attracted to you in a weird sense of way. Or he just doesn't like asians 'cause most asians are richer than him?  

[BaNaNa HiTLeR]

Wow That bully was soo mean to you. Psh. If I were you I'd either tell him off or even b**** slap that kid right on his head.. He shouldnt act like that.