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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:31 pm
-Dessynea- Allegro -Dessynea- Even when I'm not defensive people think I am, I just come across that way via text online and irl. Plus reason A is my big reason for not wanting to make a long post. I think I generally come across the same in text as in person, but you'd have to check with Wayne and Orphie on that one. I mean everyone I know irl thinks my text messages are angry. Thus I have a sig on my phone that is heart biggrin heart biggrin , and if those aren't there then my friends know I am angry. Though I also have a character limit on my phone and I delete those sometimes to fit more in a text, it is an imperfect situation. confused Face to face, my tone and body languages makes it clear when I am defensive. But evidently without that I seem angry when I'm not, I actually mentioned this to LPS awhile ago because I have no idea how to fix it. Maybe I should just put this in all my not angry posts here too: heart biggrin heart biggrin What if you're trying to be sarcastic in a non-angry way though? O:
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:33 pm
Montiqueue -Dessynea- Allegro -Dessynea- Even when I'm not defensive people think I am, I just come across that way via text online and irl. Plus reason A is my big reason for not wanting to make a long post. I think I generally come across the same in text as in person, but you'd have to check with Wayne and Orphie on that one. I mean everyone I know irl thinks my text messages are angry. Thus I have a sig on my phone that is heart biggrin heart biggrin , and if those aren't there then my friends know I am angry. Though I also have a character limit on my phone and I delete those sometimes to fit more in a text, it is an imperfect situation. confused Face to face, my tone and body languages makes it clear when I am defensive. But evidently without that I seem angry when I'm not, I actually mentioned this to LPS awhile ago because I have no idea how to fix it. Maybe I should just put this in all my not angry posts here too: heart biggrin heart biggrin What if you're trying to be sarcastic in a non-angry way though? O: Then I would put them because sarcasm isn't angry. heart biggrin heart biggrin
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:33 pm
Now, now, Tota, you know this is the internet!
There is nowhere. EVER, that Sarcasm comes off worse.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:33 pm
You listed my flaws. I see those as aspects of my personality, not as issues that can be fixed before we go to sleep.
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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:34 pm
WylrPnufh IE: "Hello Allegro, how are you?" can Commonly be misconstrued as "ALLEGRO! ******** YOUR s**t" It's all about the subtext. I actually have a good example from earlier today. I accidentally pissed off a friend of mine, by replying to a suggestion "Yeah, sure." when I was enthused. It conveys lack of excitement. I should have gone, like, "totally!" Or something. Communication on the net can be fussy.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:39 pm
Shiny Gligar You listed my flaws. I see those as aspects of my personality, not as issues that can be fixed before we go to sleep. I just posted things about your behavior that I don't like. You don't have to change them, nor do you even have to acknowledge them. But I can promise you that you won't hear insults about it anywhere else, veiled or otherwise. I kinda just hoped my post would start a landslide of similar ones so that if we have to fight, we can all fight about it in this one thread instead of all over the Rec Room.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:44 pm
I don't particularly dislike someone unless they express dislike toward me.
On the flip-side: HASH WTF. Y U NO TALK TO ME EVER ANYMER? WHEN I HAD TITS U ALWAYS TAlKED ME
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:48 pm
I don't like arguing over the intenet. Internet friendships are fragile enough, and it'd be silly to ruin it with needless fights. Well, that's what I believe. I've never had many stable friendships, IRL or online. :'3
I also think that personality affects behavior, so those are few of my many flaws, and any more talk about my behavior is just going to solicite more of those 'woe-is-me' posts I used to make. > .<
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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 8:50 pm
You STILL make those, bro. XD
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:04 pm
Aw man, I used to make them all the time. xD
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problematic briefcase Crew
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:19 pm
I hate Reg's outbursts of unreasonably dumb and rude behavior. It's not there all the time, but it bites me in the a** every time I try to reempathize. Thus, I also get annoyed when people try to justify his s**t because he's "just being Reg".
I don't think I dislike anyone else. People have their flaws, but everyone here generally seems to be honest and reasonable about things. In fact, watching Allegro and Dessy argue back and forth may very well be the most civilized thing I've seen on the internet.
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Posted: Sun Jan 09, 2011 9:48 pm
Al Torrenz I hate Reg's outbursts of unreasonably dumb and rude behavior. It's not there all the time, but it bites me in the a** every time I try to reempathize. Thus, I also get annoyed when people try to justify his s**t because he's "just being Reg". I don't think I dislike anyone else. People have their flaws, but everyone here generally seems to be honest and reasonable about things. In fact, watching Allegro and Dessy argue back and forth may very well be the most civilized thing I've seen on the internet. Hasn't always been civil, but I try my damndest.
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Sharkbutt The Orgiastic Crew
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 1:38 am
Allegro Al Torrenz I hate Reg's outbursts of unreasonably dumb and rude behavior. It's not there all the time, but it bites me in the a** every time I try to reempathize. Thus, I also get annoyed when people try to justify his s**t because he's "just being Reg". I don't think I dislike anyone else. People have their flaws, but everyone here generally seems to be honest and reasonable about things. In fact, watching Allegro and Dessy argue back and forth may very well be the most civilized thing I've seen on the internet. Hasn't always been civil, but I try my damndest. yay mutual respect yaaaaaaay
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 10:32 am
I feel like.....I don't have personal beef with Anybody in the guild, at least not that I know of... I just kinda try to stay away from Dess and Skae, in case they're rage-facing that day for whatever reason.
But I also feel like I'm not good at having serious conversations, so I don't actually know you guys all that well enough to HAVE beef with anybody....which bothers me. =/
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Posted: Mon Jan 10, 2011 10:36 am
Medeus I feel like.....I don't have personal beef with Anybody in the guild, at least not that I know of... I just kinda try to stay away from Dess and Skae, in case they're rage-facing that day for whatever reason. But I also feel like I'm not good at having serious conversations, so I don't actually know you guys all that well enough to HAVE beef with anybody....which bothers me. =/This is how I feel. Except instead of no beef I have no close friends. emo
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