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 Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 1:44 pm
Herutsu-Chan mandierz Herutsu-Chan Blah. No one in real knows that I'm bi, only my online friends, and they are all ok with, atleast they say they are. The fact that I live in such a small comunity makes it worse because everyone knows everyone else, espcially our parents, so if I told any of my friends, God knows it would get around school, then one of my cousins that goes to my school would find out and probably hate me, then tell their parents who will probably hate me, who will tell MY parents who will probably leave me out on the side of the road in a box. -Nodnod- I'll probably wait until after I've moved out before I tell them, that way I don't have to worry about them kicking me ot of the house. *ill pick you up!* ((on the side of the road that is)) and yea same with my folks... they are super uber "christians" whom go against themselves by not seeing everyone as equal... expecially people who are not the sexualitly they approve of... straight ...so yea... BUT hey who knows maybe someone else in your school is bi or gay as well and then you get a new friend wink wink *Cough* Thats another problem. Every other gay or bi person in my school that I know of moved away 'cause they were either shot or had a knife pulled on them. ouch * hugs you* im sorry! sweatdrop
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Posted: Mon Feb 28, 2005 9:10 pm
I'd really like to help ya come out, but I'm pretty much shy all the time! sweatdrop It's really frustrating, especially because if I even thought of coming out I think it might just be ten minutes of akward silence...
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 5:48 am
annoyingly now my whole class knows because someone accidently let it slip. it's so now everybody is making fun of me, but one of my close friends are bi too and she admitted it so we have to face all the critics in our class together sad
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 7:02 am
i was but i already told mom and cuz
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 10:25 am
all my friends and family know, so I don't care anymore. but I usto be.....not any more.
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Posted: Fri Mar 04, 2005 5:16 pm
Bwahaha! Not shy at all! xd Some would say Im a little to honest.
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Posted: Sat Mar 05, 2005 11:36 pm
i dont think ill ever come out and say im bi (beside to online people, like ya'll)...
in school, if i told people, i would feel so awkward around others.... like theyd be suspicious if i liked them or not (that probably sounds silly but true)... and in school i practically only hang out with one friend (thats a girl) and they would probably all think i like her, even though i pretty sure i never will in that way. 3nodding
not to mention that the girl i do like (one of my best friends) is homophobic.. stare and recently i was considering telling her (we tell each other everything).. so think how i felt when i found that out...
at home, i pretty sure my grandma doesnt like homosexuals.. even though she doesnt say it directly. she was against gay marriage, and against me joining the GSA, saying i shouldnt get mixed up in all of that stuff (i told her i just didnt like people making fun of homosexuals). xp
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 8:47 am
I'm pretty shy about it myself. I dont tell many people offline about being bisexual. Mostly because I'm more in favor of guys than chicks. In many places thats probably fine to people, but I live in NW Florida... thats a very christian area. So being anything but straight is often shunned. My mom knows, but only because one of my many sisters told her. My dad probably knows, though I dont know how he could. A lot of my friends suspect it, but only like 3 or 4 of them actually know. One only because she too is bi.
THere's one person I could never tell, since I'm taking her to prom. I just, cant get myself interested in her. I feel so bad about making her think I do like her that way. I want to tell her so I dont hurt her, in hopes that she can find someone else, but at the same time, I dont want to hurt her by telling her, just to find out later there is no one else for her. I dont know what to do half the time.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 7:57 pm
i have a friend thats not thrilled w/ gays/lesbians/bis and i'm terrified of telling her i'm bi. there were people going around school saying that i "liked" her and now she wont talk to me so i refrain form telling even my closests friends. only like 5 people know. and now that i'm thinking of heading the awareness group at school next year more people will know and it scares me. but i feel it's my duty to make everyone comfy at my school. so at the first meeting i'm going to reveal my sexuality to like 45 people at once. it's gonna be hard but i think i'm ready. so dont worry about what people think just be yourself and your true friends will stick by your side no mater what.
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 8:16 pm
HELL NO i ain't shy about it lol... it is posted on all my profiles and i wear a rainboe bracelet hehe. xd
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Posted: Mon Mar 07, 2005 9:32 pm
lil_coco101 i know that i am ...... i think if i tell my friends that they will not like me eny more... i know thats weird but i would not know what to say to them... or how to say it... can you people help me do this I am proud to be who I am. I'm not saying you're not or anything, because I used to be just like you. I'm bi too, and for a while I couldn't tell anyone, let alone my friends. It was hard enough admitting it to myself, ya know? But you have to remember that no matter what, your friends will be there for you. If they don't like you anymore because you happen to be bisexual, then what kinda friends are they? True friends stick with you, through thick and thin. And, if something bad happens and you are looking for new friends, you should try checking out a list of youth groups for GLBTQ youth in your area. There will be plenty of people to meet there that won't be discriminatory towards you based on sexuality...because that would make no sense blaugh And, if worse comes to worse, you have gaia, where you're loved! ^__^
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 6:10 am
I am not 'out' to my parents, and I would never just say "I'm Bi, deal." or anything, I just treat it like anything else.
If some guys on the same course as me start drooling over a girl, I'll just butt in and say "Yeah, she's got a great a**!" and see what they do. xd
In my experience of human nature, it's only a big deal if you make it one. Talk about it like you're commenting on the weather and everyone is too bemused to freak out. wink
Or maybe it could just be me.
But whatever, just do whatever you're comfortable with, people!! xp
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Posted: Tue Mar 08, 2005 8:08 pm
im terrafied to tell my mom and family and stuff.. corse im pround to b who i am but im just scared...My mom the other day make a comment about ppl being bi- she says its all in their head and that its wrong.. but ppl whom r gay are just those who were placed in the wrong body.. (i duno wtf she was talkn bout) but im scared now to tell her that i am bi.. as well w telln my friends.. i think they would still b my friends but, ... im not sure...
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Posted: Thu Mar 10, 2005 6:58 pm
My friend Lauren is. Only three people know: my gf, her gf, and mwa. I think she is this way because when my gf came out about being bisexual it was a little brutal and when I came out about being a lesbian...well, the same thing.
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Posted: Sat Mar 12, 2005 1:59 pm
i can say im shy about it, if people ask ill tell them... i just dont want everyone knowing..... most of my closest friends are bi so that helps alot
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