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 Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 1:07 am
yes experience.. umm if you got married to someone who waited, and you yourself had waited, then would experence matter? not only that but it's just a plus, you don't have to do it.
i believe people are capible of waiting, and if they did, there would be a lot less problems, like std's would be lowered..
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Posted: Wed Jan 02, 2008 2:35 pm
Goldfish-Queen And you know, humans aren't the only animals that have sex for pleasure. dolphins have sex for pleasure. that doesn't make it wrong.
Just cuz there smart cool
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 4:28 pm
I thinks its wrong to do it just to do it. But if your really in love and really want to be with the person your with then its ok. Im with a girl now that i am absolutly in love with and we talked about it and decided that we want to be togather and then and only then did we have sex and im glad.
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Posted: Sun Jan 06, 2008 9:53 pm
thats what happened to me, and i think it is also wrong. but not so much before marrige, but with random people. like i feel it isn't right to go to a club and find some person and thats all. i think there should be some kind of connection between the two people. and boyfriend and girlfriend are ok, because only if you both agree, and you don't just do it. ??
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Posted: Thu Jan 10, 2008 8:48 am
i think it is wrong,
my religion forbids it
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Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 2:01 pm
 Society says we're allowed to have sex whenever we want.
I personally believe you should have a deep emotional connection.
Sex is just another way of expressing you love for another.
However, it isn't always used that way. Live, Laugh, Love.
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Posted: Fri Jan 11, 2008 4:54 pm
No! Sex is not safe, even after marriage.
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Posted: Sat Jan 12, 2008 4:56 pm
tazneorose No! Sex is not safe, even after marriage. so what your saying is?? no sex is bad before marrige AND after marrige? so no sex ever?
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Posted: Sun Jan 13, 2008 3:17 am
Toastes tazneorose No! Sex is not safe, even after marriage. so what your saying is?? no sex is bad before marrige AND after marrige? so no sex ever? AAAAH!!! LIES!!! D: Er sex can be unsafe after marriage if the partner has been with another person in his or her lifetime. But other than that, it should be safe.... I just think it's disgusting to have sex with more than one person. Period. I don't see how it's fun to do it with different people. I mean, sure, the experience can be different each time, but when you stay with one person... it becomes kind of like a bond... kind of... special. I suppose. :/
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Posted: Tue Jan 15, 2008 2:20 am
Undiscovered Artist Toastes tazneorose No! Sex is not safe, even after marriage. so what your saying is?? no sex is bad before marrige AND after marrige? so no sex ever? AAAAH!!! LIES!!! D: Er sex can be unsafe after marriage if the partner has been with another person in his or her lifetime. But other than that, it should be safe.... I just think it's disgusting to have sex with more than one person. Period. I don't see how it's fun to do it with different people. I mean, sure, the experience can be different each time, but when you stay with one person... it becomes kind of like a bond... kind of... special. I suppose. :/ by unsafe i think she was refering to sparkel chicken.. and i personaly can't come to understand how people do it with more than one person in general. it's nasty. and eww. there's desieses cuz of that. .. i think..? but either way, sex before or after, a sparkel chicken shanges lives. and you should be ready for a baby before yo udecide to sexie time. soo. really it shouldn't matter when, before or after. i think before is better, but if you love the person, and don't go around doing random people then ok., as long as you accept the fact that there could be a resulted sparkel chicken. make sure your ready and know that if there was an.. er.. surprise, that you won't abandond the other person. or pawn off the sparkel chicken,. ya. i lost what i was saying.. i think .. God says. the Bible says he says, he doesn't want us to wait for because he's punishing us. he's trying to protect us. because he knows. maybe i quoted that wrong, but theres a rule for a reason. ???
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Posted: Fri Jan 18, 2008 6:23 am
If you want to do it then do it. Just make sure you're not gonna do anything you might regret - like get someone pregnant or catch something nasty.
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Posted: Wed Mar 19, 2008 3:17 pm
I think that you shouldn't have sex with penetration with anyone until you get married but things like touching you should do it with someone you really love, not just some idiot who is interested in your a**.
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Posted: Sun Mar 23, 2008 5:59 am
I don't think it's wrong by a longshot, though it is entirely dependant on your own beliefs.
Personally, I feel that if it's the right person and for the right reasons, then it shouldn't matter if you're married or not.
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 11:19 am
Hey peeps....I really don't want to get all into the religious thing but my hearts telling me I should.
Now I'm NOT saying you have to agree with me but it DOES say in the Bible that sex was ment to be after marriage.....
Now just think....You have sex with someone...your not married to them but you think you love them....and you just do it out of spur of the moment sorta thing....2 months later you get into this HUGE argument and break up...then lets say you get back together again...ok...everythings cool now...but then you break up AGAIN...and your STILL not married to them....you had sex with someone elses wife/husband....now whoever they marry...they cant share that special moment where there innocent is taken away because its already been ruined by someone else....
In my opinion...I think thats heartbreaking....
So....[A little about myself here]
I know my boyfriend is a virgin....I was his first girlfriend...
And I know IM a virgin.....because I refused to have my innocence taken away THREE TIMES....
and me and my boyfriend have talked about getting married on MULTIPLE occasions...and we think its going to last....but still....we're not having sex until AFTER marriage because my salvation [and his]...and my eternity with God [and his] is WAY more important then pleasure Ill have in this mere shell of a body on earth..
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Posted: Tue Mar 25, 2008 2:09 pm
I don't think you should do something just for the sake of god.
And anywayz, were Adam and Eve married?
Somehow I guess not.
 Not #1
But still better than you !!!
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