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 Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 4:11 am
Jesus. I can see why you'd be upset, Jar.
She sounds like... I dunno. I mean, breaking up over AIM? It's pretty obvious that you put a lot into the relationship, and it seems like she just kinda pulled the rug out from under you. If she wasn't ready, she shouldn't have screwed around--I mean, even if she was in a bad way.
Just about every breakup hurts, no way around it. Most of the time, there's no "just cheering up"; so I'm not gonna give you anything like "plenty of fish in the sea" or "it would never have worked anyway". You'll get over it eventually, but you don't have to right now. Go ahead and be pissed or sad or whatever.
Vent, storm, punch things... just don't do anything stupid like hurting yourself or others.
And... please don't horass her. >.>
I was horassed by a guy after breaking a relationship with him, and it was really, really scary. Even if you feel like she deserves it, it'll probably just make things worse. Maybe give it a little time before you ask her some stuff, 'til the friction dies down a little or something.
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 12:48 pm
Thanks Shazzer.
Well, too late. I already asked her and she answered. Again she said that she didn't know me or herself. I know it was partly my fault, I was rushing things a bit, I mean I've asked her out when I only knew her for a month. That's about it.
She told me that she wants to be friends and perhaps try to work something out.
I don't know...
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 4:25 pm
I would also like to say the wonderful catchphrase, "I know how you feel". But I...honestly don't. I've nearly reached the 'pinnacle of loserdom' (aptly named by a few friends of mine for not being kissed by the age of 16). I can't say I know how you feel, because I don't.
But I can sympathize.
Honestly, give it time. I've seen relationships move so quickly that they destroy themselves. It's happened to my best friends. It's the worst feeling in the world when you see them broken like that.
I think you should give it some time and thought. But hey, the guild's always here if you feel like venting ^^
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 6:49 pm
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Posted: Wed Oct 26, 2005 8:53 pm
Awww! Jarjar!
*huggles again*
That sucks.. at least I give a reason if I ever break up with a guy.. and when I DO break up with a guy, it's usually cause either I can tell the guy's lost interest completely, or he's pushing things too far too fast..
Then again.. I have a lovely man-slav... err.. boyfriend now biggrin blaugh
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 4:43 pm
I reserved a neighbourhood, if anyone wants to move in with me and Landa.
If you're not on my friendslist and you should be, just say so. xD
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:00 pm
Thanks Light and 'Landa.
We decided to try again in a few months.
OOOOH!
Jar Jar wants to live with Shazzer and 'Landa!
cry stare
Why in the nine hells am I not on your friends' list?
evil
This makes Jar Jar upset.
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:21 pm
stupid Gaia ERROR: User Jarlaxle Baenre has not been added to your Pending Friends List, becuase of a database error.
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RogueKazimeras Vice Captain
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:24 pm
All should check the Introduction thread, because...
Shazzer is adorable.
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:26 pm
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:28 pm
Kawaii.
You like a bit stoned... or on crack.
Wheee.
Who's Phoenix something?
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:36 pm
I'm not stoned, nor have I ever been. >.o
My eyes are always dull and greyish like that. x_x
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:39 pm
You have that semi stoned smile though.
Everyone at school thinks that I'm high... all the time.
gonk
Where should I palce my hosue?
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:43 pm
Yeah, but that wasn't my fault. >.>
I've been trying to add you to my friendslist, Jar. It's not working. stare
Oh, wait. Now it says you're on my list. Great. Gaia's being mean to me.
I've reserved 4 Barton 001134.
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Posted: Thu Oct 27, 2005 5:47 pm
You're on my list already. Where should I put my damn house?
Hey... now we can throw parties at each others' houses.
Sweet.
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