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Everyone should veiw there love life like this, It really dose make you feel better when you know you dont have to worry about these things.^^

What do you want your future husband/wife to be like?
Um... I really don't know. I suppose she'd have to be a Christian, she'd have to be the one God had chosen. I guess she'd have to be understanding, and we'd have to have things in common.

Do you believe in love at first sight?
Hmm... love at first sight? Well, you can have attraction at first sight, but it's not really love. Though, as Beth said, as a Christian you should love everyone so you should love them before first sight! biggrin

How old do you wanna be before you get married?
I have no idea how old God wants me to be when I get married. I'll leave that up to Him. Although the question was how old do I want to be, so: I don't have any preference. Not at, like, 18 'cause that would just be stupid... it would have to be after I'd known whoever I was going to marry for quite a while.

Hehe, yes. God's plan for most people is to marry, and if that's not His plan then you're going to be something really special.

I replied to this thread a long time ago, but I think that I should give an update. As some of you may have seen in my other thread, I have given an engagement ring to my girlfriend. I haven't proprosed, rather I gave her the ring on a chain as a promise. It would cause to many problems for me to propose right now, especially with her parents hating me, so we decided that we would wait until after I'm stable in the military and she is done with high school. We have a strong, God-centered relationship and have been dating for three years on Feb. 15. She is my first girlfriend and I am her first boyfriend. You're probably thinking, "Yeah right, that's never oing to work out!" We both pray and have been praying about it and through a couple small signs and faith, I know that this is the woman God has chosen for me. When I think about me, I can't help but to think about her. One of the things I found useful was only dating people you could honestly and realistically see yourself marrying. We weren't love at first sight, we kind of had a little flirting stage first. Then we had a little outward instigation from mutual friends who knew we liked each other. My point here: Love isn't always like in the movies and sometimes God uses others to turn you in the right direction. Probably the number one thing that me and Britt use in our relationship is honesty. We each know virtually everything about each other and confide in each other constantly. She is my best friend and I don't hold anything back. I've told her my deepest, darkest secrets about how I used to be suicidal and depressed and into some sick, perverted stuff and she has confided in me about her past and how her parents and sister died in a crash when she was younger and how she was molested by her cousins. Honesty is the glue of a perfect relationship and can't be replaced by anything. Don't forget to pray and, more importantly, listen to God about what he wants for you in your relationships. He has a plan for you. This stuff has worked for me, I hope it can work for you!

Can we pitch a proper love story to some movie guys?
I'd see that film.
Anyone else?

[[Haven, I agreed with everything you said. Plus, you got PRAY'D]]

Naw, we could make one on Towns!

Actually, that's a pretty good idea. Anyone want to give it a try?

I'm being serious. If someone has video software on their computer, they could disguise themselves, or hide behind a house or something. xP

I don't have the software for it, but I'd be willing to help write a script or do something. This sounds fun!