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 Posted: Sun Apr 22, 2007 8:03 pm
I am sooo affraid of even thinking about having sex. I'm really self-conscious of my body and I'd have to really trust the guy to get naked for, let alone have sex with, him.
However, I hope I won't die a virgin. D:
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Posted: Mon Apr 23, 2007 7:39 pm
LaRoseNoir Locke_Dirks I know that, and my mind was perfectly clean, lol. I keep the more private hair for requests only. Not safe to put openly on gaia, lol. And I too am a flirt, lol. Really? It might just be me, but you seem very shy. *shrug* I am very shy. But also very open too. I'm a little more out there at times though. You want to get to know me, you would have better luck with PMs and asking specifics, lol.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:44 am
Fortunately once I decide I want to have sex with a guy I don't feel shame. My current boyfriend and me have excellent sex and he likes me being on top. Sure, I've accidently crushed him a few times in the heat of the moment, but the same thing happens in reverse as well (and he's skinny for his length). Sometimes sex just makes you laugh. It's not something you should worry about.
Most people are in one way or another embarassed about their body. It's not just us. I've got two friends who are both quite pretty, but neither of them will go swimming with me because one thinks she has too many scars and the other thinks she's too skinny!
In brief, don't let your negative self image get in the way of having sex.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 6:50 am
Northawke_rs Fortunately once I decide I want to have sex with a guy I don't feel shame. My current boyfriend and me have excellent sex and he likes me being on top. Sure, I've accidently crushed him a few times in the heat of the moment, but the same thing happens in reverse as well (and he's skinny for his length). Sometimes sex just makes you laugh. It's not something you should worry about. Most people are in one way or another embarassed about their body. It's not just us. I've got two friends who are both quite pretty, but neither of them will go swimming with me because one thinks she has too many scars and the other thinks she's too skinny! In brief, don't let your negative self image get in the way of having sex.
So many stupid stories gonk
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 11:50 am
The Dread Pirate Ghosty Haha, sex does that especially for me and my boyfriend...
So many stupid stories gonk *laughs* Yeah, my ex and I used to have hilarious conversations mid-coitus. We were very comfortable around each other. 3nodding
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 4:15 pm
I think that if a person wants to have sex with you and your both into eachother, that he or she won't mind seeing your body. I have stretchmarks, I have scars from accidents and such, and I will display what I have proudly in the bedroom because I know my lover likes what he sees. :]
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Extragalactic Terrestrial
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 5:33 pm
LaRoseNoir The Dread Pirate Ghosty Haha, sex does that especially for me and my boyfriend...
So many stupid stories gonk *laughs* Yeah, my ex and I used to have hilarious conversations mid-coitus. We were very comfortable around each other. 3nodding
So I called my friend (I was visiting him in Missouri and promised to keep her updated on our stupid antics) in the middle of it to tell her.
...She still has the message xp
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 8:44 pm
The Dread Pirate Ghosty ...She still has the message xp The first time my fiancé and I hooked up, we were at my old apartment, and all of my roommates were out for the day. Here we are, on my couch, she's on top, sitting in my lap, and we're already down to business when my GOD DAMN CELL PHONE REFUSES TO STOP RINGING. The only person that calls and lets it ring like that is my younger brother, and I know he's not going to stop until I answer. Billy(me): ...Hello...? confused Brendan(him):What're you doing? Me: Well, at the moment, I have an obscenely attractive Russian girl, with 36DD tits, and red hair wearing nothing but her g-string that I've pulled to the side, sitting in my lap, having sex with me. Him: Heh. How's that working out for you? Me: Yeah, pretty great; did you need something? Him: No. I'm bored. You should say my name. Me: All right, dude, for real... If you let me hang up the phone, I'll say your name. Him: All right, call me back later, and tell me what happens. Me: All right. Later. So, I go back to my business, and five or so minutes pass - we've finally worked back into our rhythm. That's when I drop the mood killer of mood killers, "Yes, yes, oh Brendan! Yes." That, to this day, is still one of the events that shock me when I realize we're still together. She was pretty pissed off, but I think she was more pissed off that I told our mutual best friend that the first time her and I tried a**l sex, I was so talented that I made her squirt - I think that might've been the most angry I've seen her.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:05 pm
I remember one day my ex and I were going at it, and his phone wouldn't stop ringing. This was going on for at least 20 minutes, and it's a real mood killer. I made sure to check the number first(y'know, so that it wasn't his mother calling), and after it was confirmed that it wasn't anyone important, I picked it up...mid thrust and everything...and yelled, "HE'S BUSY RIGHT NOW. GO AWAY!!" *click*
He was mad for about 2.3 seconds, then he came. xd
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:22 pm
LaRoseNoir He was mad for about 2.3 seconds, then he came. xd He was mad, at all? I would've lol'd.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:41 pm
Will Cross LaRoseNoir He was mad for about 2.3 seconds, then he came. xd He was mad, at all? I would've lol'd. It was more like a "Why did you grab my phone, yell at it and throw it onto the couch across the room?" kinda grumble. But like I said...it was fleeting. wink He got to, "what the f-" Then came. It was great. I laughed my a** off.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 9:52 pm
LaRoseNoir Will Cross LaRoseNoir He was mad for about 2.3 seconds, then he came. xd He was mad, at all? I would've lol'd. It was more like a "Why did you grab my phone, yell at it and throw it onto the couch across the room?" kinda grumble. But like I said...it was fleeting. wink He got to, "what the f-" Then came. It was great. I laughed my a** off.
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Posted: Tue Apr 24, 2007 10:17 pm
Will Cross The Dread Pirate Ghosty ...She still has the message xp The first time my fiancé and I hooked up, we were at my old apartment, and all of my roommates were out for the day. Here we are, on my couch, she's on top, sitting in my lap, and we're already down to business when my GOD DAMN CELL PHONE REFUSES TO STOP RINGING. The only person that calls and lets it ring like that is my younger brother, and I know he's not going to stop until I answer. Billy(me): ...Hello...? confused Brendan(him):What're you doing? Me: Well, at the moment, I have an obscenely attractive Russian girl, with 36DD tits, and red hair wearing nothing but her g-string that I've pulled to the side, sitting in my lap, having sex with me. Him: Heh. How's that working out for you? Me: Yeah, pretty great; did you need something? Him: No. I'm bored. You should say my name. Me: All right, dude, for real... If you let me hang up the phone, I'll say your name. Him: All right, call me back later, and tell me what happens. Me: All right. Later. So, I go back to my business, and five or so minutes pass - we've finally worked back into our rhythm. That's when I drop the mood killer of mood killers, "Yes, yes, oh Brendan! Yes." That, to this day, is still one of the events that shock me when I realize we're still together. She was pretty pissed off, but I think she was more pissed off that I told our mutual best friend that the first time her and I tried a**l sex, I was so talented that I made her squirt - I think that might've been the most angry I've seen her.
I look down and he did it all over my ******** leg.
I was so mad.
But we look back on it and laugh.
The first time we tried a**l I ended up having to have him hold me for two minutes while I tried not to cry gonk
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Posted: Thu Apr 26, 2007 2:59 am
The Dread Pirate Ghosty Northawke_rs Fortunately once I decide I want to have sex with a guy I don't feel shame. My current boyfriend and me have excellent sex and he likes me being on top. Sure, I've accidently crushed him a few times in the heat of the moment, but the same thing happens in reverse as well (and he's skinny for his length). Sometimes sex just makes you laugh. It's not something you should worry about. Most people are in one way or another embarassed about their body. It's not just us. I've got two friends who are both quite pretty, but neither of them will go swimming with me because one thinks she has too many scars and the other thinks she's too skinny! In brief, don't let your negative self image get in the way of having sex.
So many stupid stories gonk Oh yeah. mrgreen Fortunately me and my hubby have a good sense of humour. We've had some embarassing moments, but we always laugh it off. He's a great follower of the idea that sometimes sex just has to make you laugh. xd
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Posted: Sat Apr 28, 2007 10:43 am
I couldn't disagree with you more, Aniike. Your sex life would be better if you got better self-esteem. Regardless of what size you are, you'll never be truly happy if you can't accept who you are and realize your own beauty. And I know for a fact that you can't break people smaller than you while having sex. One of my ex's was 5'11" and roughly 110lbs (he was hella' skinny by ANYONE'S standards). While I'm 6'1/2" and at the time nearly 300lbs. We had sex every day. He begged me for it. And it was fun.
I can understand feeling aquward sometimes, but what you need to do is find someone who accepts you. You'd be surprised the amount of men (and women) who like their lovers large. 3nodding
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