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 Posted: Sat May 21, 2005 3:43 pm
Amber Ocean Dark Lore Well i might as well chuck in my 2 cents, I'm straight and have never had the urge to 'experiment' with my sexuality, although i've had a few offers... Trouble is sometimes people believe that i must be gay because i have a feminine face... I don't see anything wrong with homosexuality as a close friend of mine came out and we both went to gay bars together so he could adjust smile
I'm sorry pepole sterotype you because you have a feminine face. People probably think I'm a lesbain because I show no interest guys. Heh. I don't mind having a feminine face at all, rather that than dead butch *shudder*
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Posted: Sat May 21, 2005 3:56 pm
Dark Lore Amber Ocean Dark Lore Well i might as well chuck in my 2 cents, I'm straight and have never had the urge to 'experiment' with my sexuality, although i've had a few offers... Trouble is sometimes people believe that i must be gay because i have a feminine face... I don't see anything wrong with homosexuality as a close friend of mine came out and we both went to gay bars together so he could adjust smile
I'm sorry pepole sterotype you because you have a feminine face. People probably think I'm a lesbain because I show no interest guys. Heh. I don't mind having a feminine face at all, rather that than dead butch *shudder*
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Posted: Tue May 24, 2005 10:07 am
Amber Ocean Dark Lore Amber Ocean Dark Lore Well i might as well chuck in my 2 cents, I'm straight and have never had the urge to 'experiment' with my sexuality, although i've had a few offers... Trouble is sometimes people believe that i must be gay because i have a feminine face... I don't see anything wrong with homosexuality as a close friend of mine came out and we both went to gay bars together so he could adjust smile
I'm sorry pepole sterotype you because you have a feminine face. People probably think I'm a lesbain because I show no interest guys. Heh. I don't mind having a feminine face at all, rather that than dead butch *shudder* Alls good thens biggrin
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 8:26 am
DreamerSpirit KuraiBijin
Why would other people care who you marry? Even if they think it's "wrong" or a "sin" or "you could go to Hell for it", that's not their problem. Society today just.... it irks me sometimes.They just use the fact that its considired a 'sin' to cover up the fact that they think it's gross... they allow plenty of other 'sins' to be legal. Look at the cosmetics asile at the supermarket... 'tis full of sin... VANITY! And then sex before marriage... also a sin... but the conservatives don't b***h about that too much either. And murder... an EXTREME sin... yet many of the conservatives support war and death row... are such not murder? Ok... to all the happy little homophobic uber-christians... they shouldn't b***h about OUR sins... try fixing THIER OWN sins before they go bitching to us. And just because somthing grosses them out it dosn't give them the right to deny others of it! Meat and straight sex gross me out... but I don't go around trying to ban them! Homophobes need to learn to just live and let live.
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Posted: Wed May 25, 2005 8:34 am
Amber Ocean KuraiBijin I understand what you were saying about denial. I first knew in 4th grade that I was bisexual. I actually thought I might be gay since I always was attracted to females more (I still am, but I am attracted to males as well). I kept telling myself "No, it's just a stage, I'm not gay or bi, I'm just curious that's all." That was probably because everyone in my school was so against gays and bis, and I just grew up learning that it was wrong. But by the time I reached high school, I realized that people were not all against that, and it IS okay to be attracted to the same gender. So about halfway through my 9th grade year, I admitted to myself and some of my friends that I was bisexual. It's sad, really, that I had to go through 5 and 1/2 years of denial, just because I thought my friends would hate me for it. I just learned that if they your friends, they won't hate you for something like that. So now almost everyone knows, except my family. My family is very conservation, and they hate any type of homosexual behavior, so I won't tell them what I am until I move out.
And Amber, good luck to you and your girl. Just so you know, even if you get married in Canada, if you come back to the States, a lot of states won't accept it as a legal marriage. This whole controversy ((I think I may have spelled that wrong)) over gay rights is stupid. Why would other people care who you marry? Even if they think it's "wrong" or a "sin" or "you could go to Hell for it", that's not their problem. Society today just.... it irks me sometimes.
My parents are alright (finally) with me being a lesbain. It started out as being 'bisexual' as to not scare them. My mother was a bit weirded out when she found out; she kept asking me what being 'bisexual' meant. I didn't understand why she found this such a hard concept to grasp. >.< I finally came out and told my father and my mother that I'm a lesbian. I'm not attracted to males, and when I am (on the very, very rare occasion) I get scared when I think of doing anything with them.
I'm sorry to hear that your feelings had to be supressed for so long.
Mine did too - my friend who I'd play footsie with and such (when I first realized I was a lesbian) was Catholic, and refused to experiment because it was a 'sin'. I said fine, and waited until a girl came and pulled me into bed. ^.^ One of the greatest nights of my life, needless to say. Heh. T'was lots of fun. *nervous laugh*
Society irks me too...heh. *kicks things* Yup. Definantly irks me.
Good luck to you and your girl. 3nodding
The first girl I experimented with was my best friend, and we fell in love with each other. (Actually, we fell in love before we fooled around, but it was long before we had admitted we were bisexual, so we both ain't say nothing.) That was like a year and some months ago. We still fool around a lot, but we're not really technically "together" >.<
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Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 3:14 pm
I just read about this so yeah : For those who dont know, there are certain jewelry codes you can follow to allow other LGB people to know that you are LGB. This includes wearing exclusivly silver jewelry. Although with earrings, since there are so many earings, wearing silver earings that are either small silver studs or silver hoops shows that you are LGB. These codes may not be useful in large cities, but in rural towns they are very useful for finding other LGB people.
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Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 3:58 pm
I am actually going to be meeting a bisexual guy this weekend... and hopefully things will hit off. I don't really mind at all that he is bisexual, because while I am straight, I believe in LGB rights because to me, it's not sick and unnatural.
If it makes you happy, go ahead and do it. It's sick and unnatural to keep someone from being happy, as long as they arn't breaking any laws.
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Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 9:17 pm
I think we can all tell from my siggy that I'm a lesbian. It's great to see a few supporters.
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Posted: Thu May 26, 2005 9:34 pm
KuraiBijin Amber Ocean KuraiBijin I understand what you were saying about denial. I first knew in 4th grade that I was bisexual. I actually thought I might be gay since I always was attracted to females more (I still am, but I am attracted to males as well). I kept telling myself "No, it's just a stage, I'm not gay or bi, I'm just curious that's all." That was probably because everyone in my school was so against gays and bis, and I just grew up learning that it was wrong. But by the time I reached high school, I realized that people were not all against that, and it IS okay to be attracted to the same gender. So about halfway through my 9th grade year, I admitted to myself and some of my friends that I was bisexual. It's sad, really, that I had to go through 5 and 1/2 years of denial, just because I thought my friends would hate me for it. I just learned that if they your friends, they won't hate you for something like that. So now almost everyone knows, except my family. My family is very conservation, and they hate any type of homosexual behavior, so I won't tell them what I am until I move out.
And Amber, good luck to you and your girl. Just so you know, even if you get married in Canada, if you come back to the States, a lot of states won't accept it as a legal marriage. This whole controversy ((I think I may have spelled that wrong)) over gay rights is stupid. Why would other people care who you marry? Even if they think it's "wrong" or a "sin" or "you could go to Hell for it", that's not their problem. Society today just.... it irks me sometimes.
My parents are alright (finally) with me being a lesbain. It started out as being 'bisexual' as to not scare them. My mother was a bit weirded out when she found out; she kept asking me what being 'bisexual' meant. I didn't understand why she found this such a hard concept to grasp. >.< I finally came out and told my father and my mother that I'm a lesbian. I'm not attracted to males, and when I am (on the very, very rare occasion) I get scared when I think of doing anything with them.
I'm sorry to hear that your feelings had to be supressed for so long.
Mine did too - my friend who I'd play footsie with and such (when I first realized I was a lesbian) was Catholic, and refused to experiment because it was a 'sin'. I said fine, and waited until a girl came and pulled me into bed. ^.^ One of the greatest nights of my life, needless to say. Heh. T'was lots of fun. *nervous laugh*
Society irks me too...heh. *kicks things* Yup. Definantly irks me.
Good luck to you and your girl. 3nodding
The first girl I experimented with was my best friend, and we fell in love with each other. (Actually, we fell in love before we fooled around, but it was long before we had admitted we were bisexual, so we both ain't say nothing.) That was like a year and some months ago. We still fool around a lot, but we're not really technically "together" >.<
It's so sweet when people fall in love.
If I may ask, why aren't you two together?
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Posted: Fri May 27, 2005 8:48 pm
Do the gay people you know have a lot of "one night stands" or anything like that. Alot of them are like that around here.
You go to a party end up makeing out with a couple people and not bringing it up again. Yes, everyone, I am a whore. Than again, so is everyone else I know.
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Posted: Sun May 29, 2005 10:42 am
Marjuari_the_elemental Do the gay people you know have a lot of "one night stands" or anything like that. Alot of them are like that around here.
You go to a party end up makeing out with a couple people and not bringing it up again. Yes, everyone, I am a whore. Than again, so is everyone else I know. I have heard the rumor that all homosexuals= sex machines, but i havnt had time to test that theory yet, lol
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Posted: Mon May 30, 2005 2:37 pm
Tosuto I just read about this so yeah : For those who dont know, there are certain jewelry codes you can follow to allow other LGB people to know that you are LGB. This includes wearing exclusivly silver jewelry. Although with earrings, since there are so many earings, wearing silver earings that are either small silver studs or silver hoops shows that you are LGB. These codes may not be useful in large cities, but in rural towns they are very useful for finding other LGB people. Really? i never knew that... although i used to get ripped for having a freckle on my right earlobe, apparantly the gay ear peircing ear... odd
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Posted: Thu Jun 02, 2005 10:35 am
Dark Lore Tosuto I just read about this so yeah : For those who dont know, there are certain jewelry codes you can follow to allow other LGB people to know that you are LGB. This includes wearing exclusivly silver jewelry. Although with earrings, since there are so many earings, wearing silver earings that are either small silver studs or silver hoops shows that you are LGB. These codes may not be useful in large cities, but in rural towns they are very useful for finding other LGB people. Really? i never knew that... although i used to get ripped for having a freckle on my right earlobe, apparantly the gay ear peircing ear... odd Yeah, it used to be that if your left ear was pierced you were straight, both ears was bi, and right ear ws gay, but then piercing both ears for guys became popular and homophobes caught on to it, so now its the whole silver thing.
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 3:28 pm
I'm gay and currently infatuated with a straight friend of mine. Damn him!
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Posted: Sat Jun 04, 2005 3:47 pm
I'm bisexual supporter of equal rights. I continuosly quote the preampble of the Constitution to the people who tell me my sexuality is immoral.
I can sort of understand that Christians would want marriage banned from their churches (their church, their rules, I see it) but if a lesbian or gay or bisexual person is Christian then I don't see why they should be banned if its also their church. I just wish that religious zealots could understand that their religion contradicts their condemning of homosexuals/bisexuals.
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