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i have tried a**l sex before with my husband he seems to like it but i always end up with and upset tummy when we are done and i find that i end up going # 2 a lot more after he is done for the next day or so , but if you do what the other person said about cleaning out your insides first it could help if you coudl get your hands on a home enama kit that would help clean out anything that might not be ready to come out and try not to push down like when you have a bowl movement try not to do that it can make it messy .. and if you are useing a condom in the a**l sex and then want to change to vaginal you need to change the condom and if you are not you need to wash the make area BEFORE you enter the vaginal area always make sure that the males area is clean and has a condom
i hope what i have to say helps someone

Definitely talk to him and tell him. You don't have to say something like "it's gross!" or anything like that, but explain to him that you don't like the taste, and it makes you gag. Something like "I love giving you oral sex, but the taste bothers me. Would it be alright if I didn't swallow?" might work.

I've heard that the taste of a guy's semen can change a little depending on what he eats before he ejaculates. Pineapple and some other fruits make it sweeter from what I've heard. I've never actually asked my boyfriend to eat pineapple though, so I can't tell you whether or not it works.

You don't even have to sneak it to him. You can tell him that the taste bothers you, BUT that you've heard eating pineapple and other certain fruits (I'm guessing citrus?) makes c** taste a bit better. If he wants to give it a try, then fine, and if not, then you'll just not swallow when you give him oral sex.

The reason why I suggest you not be sneaky is because he might find out your intentions and be hurt that you didn't just come out and ask him about the pineapple. Communication is key in any relationship, and it's probably best that you just tell the truth.

a**l sex can eventually lead to your rectum not being as elastic as it used to be. Essentially, it's like a well-used elastic band. That might cause you not to be able to control your bowel movements... like you may not be able to "hold it in" and such... but I'm told that's with A LOT of a**l sex... or rough a**l sex.

I'm not very sure... but I don't think that casual a**l sex will cause that to happen any time soon. I'll look this up a bit more and get back to you.

From everything I have heard, read and researched a**l sex does NOT cause loosening of the rectum or any of the muscles involved. They are muscles and when exercised become stronger. There has been significant talk of the effect of a**l sex on the body recently and it's been found that if preformed properly with plenty of lubrication and condoms that it is not injuring to the body.

Yes the skin between the v****a and the rectum is thin and improper a**l sex can tear that. Also there are two different sphincters in the a**s. The one on the outside you have control over and are able to relax. The inner one is not under your control so if the guy is too aggressive and tries to push past it without letting it relax that can be torn as well. Every professional I have ever seen talk on a**l sex has said you need to do really through research and know what you are doing as you can seriously damage yourself. But once you know it should be wonderful and pleasurable and will not cause 'stretching'

OH wait. It's gone now. I think it was just a first timers thing or something like that. OH and btw, two things:

-(I am loving it) a**l sex is GREAT heart xd
-and lastly, I am male mrgreen blaugh ninja redface

But I don't think I am gay though....well I hope not.