SunnySkys
it used to always be "yaoi=sex, shonen-ai=romance but those restrictions have gone cloudy
I so know what you mean. I'll be reading a fic labeled shounen-ai and then all of a sudden the characters are doing it like rabbits on viagra with all the details. I was like "
eek Woah. All I wanted was a fluffy kiss-kiss-hug-hug story,
xp but I'm not complaining about the buttsmex."
I think it's because of newbie fans who say they are yaoi fans but in fact are only shounen-ai fans. It's just that yaoi seems to be a catch all phrase for anything that has to do with a male/male relationship.