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 Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 3:46 am
Soldier_Damia well, i'm 18 years old, and i gave my virginity to my bf. i had heard how it hurt so bad blah blah blah and before i did it i was wondering if it hurt so bad wy would you do it again?! well i did it. and i felt no painwhtsoever. am i weird? it reminded me of when i got braces how everyone said it hurt, it did not. but anwho, my bf left for iraq and we only did it the one time... but like i heard if you don't have sex for 6 months you are revirginized... has anyone else herd this? will i give up my virginity 3 times??? (he comes home and then leaves for another 6 months) Losing your virginity should not hurt. If it hurts, something is wrong. Usually the problem is simply not having enough lubrication. So, no, you are not weird if it did not hurt. No, you cannot regain your virginity. You lose your virginity when you have sex. Even if you didn't have sex again for ten years, that wouldn't mean the past magically changed making it so that you never had sex that first time.
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Posted: Mon Dec 10, 2007 9:11 pm
LorienLlewellyn Soldier_Damia well, i'm 18 years old, and i gave my virginity to my bf. i had heard how it hurt so bad blah blah blah and before i did it i was wondering if it hurt so bad wy would you do it again?! well i did it. and i felt no painwhtsoever. am i weird? it reminded me of when i got braces how everyone said it hurt, it did not. but anwho, my bf left for iraq and we only did it the one time... but like i heard if you don't have sex for 6 months you are revirginized... has anyone else herd this? will i give up my virginity 3 times??? (he comes home and then leaves for another 6 months) Losing your virginity should not hurt. If it hurts, something is wrong. Usually the problem is simply not having enough lubrication. So, no, you are not weird if it did not hurt. No, you cannot regain your virginity. You lose your virginity when you have sex. Even if you didn't have sex again for ten years, that wouldn't mean the past magically changed making it so that you never had sex that first time. by revirginized i ment your cherry grows back... meh idk sex from what i've experienced is highly over rated...
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 8:25 am
Soldier_Damia LorienLlewellyn Soldier_Damia well, i'm 18 years old, and i gave my virginity to my bf. i had heard how it hurt so bad blah blah blah and before i did it i was wondering if it hurt so bad wy would you do it again?! well i did it. and i felt no painwhtsoever. am i weird? it reminded me of when i got braces how everyone said it hurt, it did not. but anwho, my bf left for iraq and we only did it the one time... but like i heard if you don't have sex for 6 months you are revirginized... has anyone else herd this? will i give up my virginity 3 times??? (he comes home and then leaves for another 6 months) Losing your virginity should not hurt. If it hurts, something is wrong. Usually the problem is simply not having enough lubrication. So, no, you are not weird if it did not hurt. No, you cannot regain your virginity. You lose your virginity when you have sex. Even if you didn't have sex again for ten years, that wouldn't mean the past magically changed making it so that you never had sex that first time. by revirginized i ment your cherry grows back... meh idk sex from what i've experienced is highly over rated... The hymen (cherry) doesn't grow back. A lot of girls lose it when they're younger especially if they're very active. But once it's gone, it doesn't come back.
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Posted: Tue Dec 11, 2007 9:46 am
Soldier_Damia by revirginized i ment your cherry grows back... meh idk sex from what i've experienced is highly over rated... No. As Fia said, your hymen does not grow back ever. And even if it did, hymens don't have the power to change the past and make it so that you never had sex. You are a virgin until you have sex. Hymens have nothing to do with it. Most hymens are delicate and tear years before a girl loses her virginity. Other hymens are tough and don't tear even after a girl loses her virginity. Some girls are even born without a hymen. None of that matters. They all stop beings virgins once they have sex, not sooner, not later. The state of their hymen has nothing to do with it. If you want to learn more about hymens, check out this site: http://www.coolnurse.com/hymen.htm
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Posted: Fri Dec 28, 2007 10:04 am
i think for the first time would probaly be on the bottom so it would be easyer and more comterfull
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Posted: Mon Feb 04, 2008 5:26 pm
iced_foxicle I'm 14 and lost my virginity a couple months ago. I don't feel bad about it. My issue is though the people that don't understand and label me as a slut. In the dictionary it says that a slut is a promiscuos (sp?) woman or a prostitute. I don't think sleeping with one person qualifies you as a slut. The other week I was on a fishing chat and someone asked if I was a virgin. I said no and I got bombarded by hate mail from some, excuse my bluntness, old-schooled little Christian girl that needs a slap in the face with reality. The guy I lost my virginity to is one of my childhood friends. We decided to give our virginity to each other after the first year of going out. We have safe sex always and we love each other more then we love life itself. Yet when little girls like the one mentioned above ask that stupid question, I get messages like this: "OMG! U SLUT! I can't believe u did that! ur a dirty whore!" I feel like loosing your virginity is a wonderful thing as long as you are ready for it. I just get frustrated by those who like to make you feel bad about it. im a christian and avirgin, and im sorry but that christian comment really offends me!!! scream im not condeming you, but personally im going to wait! please DONT make comments (kinda) slanderizing christianity!!! not all christians condem people who make those choices, and its un fair to referr to andbody who does as a "old'school christian" just like you were upset about the "slut" comment made twards you! thats for future reference! ok? blaugh wink domokun wink blaugh
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Posted: Tue Feb 05, 2008 8:20 am
Annihilator V5 iced_foxicle I'm 14 and lost my virginity a couple months ago. I don't feel bad about it. My issue is though the people that don't understand and label me as a slut. In the dictionary it says that a slut is a promiscuos (sp?) woman or a prostitute. I don't think sleeping with one person qualifies you as a slut. The other week I was on a fishing chat and someone asked if I was a virgin. I said no and I got bombarded by hate mail from some, excuse my bluntness, old-schooled little Christian girl that needs a slap in the face with reality. The guy I lost my virginity to is one of my childhood friends. We decided to give our virginity to each other after the first year of going out. We have safe sex always and we love each other more then we love life itself. Yet when little girls like the one mentioned above ask that stupid question, I get messages like this: "OMG! U SLUT! I can't believe u did that! ur a dirty whore!" I feel like loosing your virginity is a wonderful thing as long as you are ready for it. I just get frustrated by those who like to make you feel bad about it. im a christian and avirgin, and im sorry but that christian comment really offends me!!! scream im not condeming you, but personally im going to wait! please DONT make comments (kinda) slanderizing christianity!!! not all christians condem people who make those choices, and its un fair to referr to andbody who does as a "old'school christian" just like you were upset about the "slut" comment made twards you! thats for future reference! ok? blaugh wink domokun wink blaugh Good point. There are a wide variety of people and beliefs out there, even within Christianity. I have met many Christians who do not believe in sex outside of marriage, and I have met many who think it is fine. The Bible and other religious teachings can be interpreted in a variety of ways. There are also many people who aren't Christian who don't believe in sex before marriage or who talk bad about other people due to their sex life. So it's really not about religion.
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Posted: Thu Feb 07, 2008 7:06 pm
LorienLlewellyn Annihilator V5 iced_foxicle I'm 14 and lost my virginity a couple months ago. I don't feel bad about it. My issue is though the people that don't understand and label me as a slut. In the dictionary it says that a slut is a promiscuos (sp?) woman or a prostitute. I don't think sleeping with one person qualifies you as a slut. The other week I was on a fishing chat and someone asked if I was a virgin. I said no and I got bombarded by hate mail from some, excuse my bluntness, old-schooled little Christian girl that needs a slap in the face with reality. The guy I lost my virginity to is one of my childhood friends. We decided to give our virginity to each other after the first year of going out. We have safe sex always and we love each other more then we love life itself. Yet when little girls like the one mentioned above ask that stupid question, I get messages like this: "OMG! U SLUT! I can't believe u did that! ur a dirty whore!" I feel like loosing your virginity is a wonderful thing as long as you are ready for it. I just get frustrated by those who like to make you feel bad about it. im a christian and avirgin, and im sorry but that christian comment really offends me!!! scream im not condeming you, but personally im going to wait! please DONT make comments (kinda) slanderizing christianity!!! not all christians condem people who make those choices, and its un fair to referr to andbody who does as a "old'school christian" just like you were upset about the "slut" comment made twards you! thats for future reference! ok? blaugh wink domokun wink blaugh Good point. There are a wide variety of people and beliefs out there, even within Christianity. I have met many Christians who do not believe in sex outside of marriage, and I have met many who think it is fine. The Bible and other religious teachings can be interpreted in a variety of ways. There are also many people who aren't Christian who don't believe in sex before marriage or who talk bad about other people due to their sex life. So it's really not about religion. exactly the point im making......even non religious people will condemn premarrital sex...so its not fair to call anybody who does old school christians, i know ive said it before but its true....and person a AM a christian (obliously the signiture give that away) and i will wait for marriage....but you make your own choices..
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Posted: Sat Jul 19, 2008 10:51 am
I will be 17 in a month (August 22nd) and I'm a virgin... I've never had a boyfriend before, I've never been on a date before... I've never even kissed a boy when I was little like some girls do and the parents just go "Awwwww".
I am horrified of developing a relationship with a guy. I personally think that I am a lot to handle, even I have a hard time putting up with myself.
Just thinking of even holding a guys hand scares the absolute s**t out of me.
I do want to give my virginity to a guy I love one day and he will love me too, despite all my flaws. I'm still not dead set of waiting until I am married, but possibly waiting until I know that the relationship will end up in marriage.
I do want to fall in love, I do want to spend the rest of my life with the person whom I love and who loves me back. I do want a family of my very own.
But change, especially such a big, scary drastic change really, really scares me.
Everything goes through my mind. "What if I am just too much for any guy to handle?? What if I end up hurting the person who I love?? I complain, I'm scared and any kind of change what so ever, I am clingy, I have trust issues and I am afraid to be alone. So who in their right mind would want to be with me and have a family??"
I've never had a close relationship with any male in my life, not a friend, not a Dad, Uncle or Grandpa.
My Grandpa and I get along ok... but I'm not all that close with him. The only male I have ever been able to trust is my older Brother. Since I was born he and I have been best friends, but even him I did not trust 100% until this year.
I do know it will be a while before I give my virginity to a guy for safe keeping 3nodding But at this moment I do not want to give it away, nor lose it. I do not want a boyfriend, I do not want to date... friends and family are what I need right now because I know that with friends and family there is no ''getting serious''. You love them and they love you, and there is not that physical thing going on.
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Posted: Fri Sep 12, 2008 11:28 pm
We're almost 18, and my boyfriend and I just lost our virginity about 3 weeks ago. We took more than one precaution, to be sure that we were really protected, but somehow I still freaked out the next day, wondering about all of the "what if's". Still, I don't regret it at all. It was a very sensual experience, and we're close enough that we are able to talk openly about anything and everything.
So I guess those are really the best suggestions I can give. Make SURE you are protected, and that you have a plan in case something goes wrong, and make sure you can talk about it with your partner-- everything, down to the smallest details, without it being embarrassing or uncomfortable at all. But mostly, be sure that you, personally, feel 100% ready. I can definitely say, especially after the actual experience, it is not something that should be taken lightly.
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Posted: Thu Nov 13, 2008 5:47 pm
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Posted: Sat Nov 22, 2008 12:47 pm
I'm a virgin and proud of it,
I plan on not having sex until I get married.
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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 8:11 pm
ahh, my deal with sex... sweatdrop
I'm a virgin.
Sex scares me. There's so many things I worry about when it comes to that, like if my body's looking good enough or w/e.
Sometimes I worry I'll never lose my virginity. XDD;;
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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 8:14 pm
I lost my virginity 5 years ago, and it doesn't bother me. smile
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Posted: Fri Dec 26, 2008 10:52 pm
Too Pretty to Be a Zombie ahh, my deal with sex... sweatdrop
I'm a virgin.
Sex scares me. There's so many things I worry about when it comes to that, like if my body's looking good enough or w/e.
Sometimes I worry I'll never lose my virginity. XDD;; There's no rush. Whether or not you look good is pretty much the last thing you should be worrying about though. You should ideally feel comfortable with your partner before having sex, and looks shouldn't matter all that much. The things you should be concerned with, however, are STDs and pregnancy. Those are two very legitimate concerns, but of course condoms and other birth control methods help to keep you safe.
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